Another Christmas, Same Slakes and Fakes. from texasfarmcouple's blog

One of the things that constantly amazes us is that we keep running into the same fakes, flakes, scammers and other negative folks here.

They don't even change the profile names much.

And, since this is a 'pay' site, I have to wonder why they are still on here.

Also, how many of you get messages from 'ladies' that consist of just 'Hi'? Or are just one liners that are fairly generic? Or seem to have the same general answers from different ladies?

Bots perhaps?

After years of searching (and succeeding) we have pretty much come up with the golden rules.

1) first mention of needing money, dump them.

2) no audio call, dump them.

3) no video, dump them.

4) no social media? dump them. Really folks - no single woman today does NOT have social media. If they say they don't, they are lying.

5) availability to communicate - if they have 'brown out times or blackout times or drop off abruptly, they have side games going, DUMP THEM.

I'm sure there are a few real women on here. I'm sure that they get swamped by messages (flies on excrement, pirahnas on a hot dog, etc etc). And lets face it: the swingers and party lifestyles and material enticements are what a lot of them are here for. The remaining .001% that are real and great catches run away as fast as they can.

Notice the one thing really missing here: real stories of real success and can be verified.

So, on the off chance this is read by a REAL lady that is looking, message us. If you are a scammer that we have dealt with or outed in the past, the internet never forgets.

On that note, we will NOT be renewing till we see a positive change. Don't hear anything about that anymore.... hmmm....

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Feb 13

JamieNatalie

I’m feeling exactly the same!

Feb 13

JamieNatalie

You are 1000% correct. You took the words right out of my mouth. I’m so sick of the one time message of “Hi” or “hey, any plans for the weekend” from supposed women! You write a genuine response and they never send anything again. These are the same accounts that are on here continuously that appear active and green but they never do anything or friend anyone or even look at any one’s account. So much for wanting marriage or even a relationship. Either go or get off the pot!!! And then there are the accounts where you end up having an amazing conversation with a girl for 3-5 days. Everything matches up, they sound like the perfect candidate. Wants to be a wife, wants children, is religious, has morals, and wants to come in and build a plural family as a sister. They say you are everything they have been looking for. You try to get a number or some alternative way to communicate via voice, and it’s ignored. Then their messages and frequency start to taper off. Then their account is deleted with no way to communicate. Then a new account with similar description and age, but different, name and picture of a different girl the next town or state over is created to pull the same stunt. What do they hope to gain? It’s very aggravating. The site admin doesn’t seem to care. When we are paying for something that’s supposed to be quality, that’s negligence at best!!! Even worse, they allow very vile guys and couples who deserve to be on the sex offender registry to hang out here and sexually harass, stalk, and threaten the few legitimate wholesome young women who do come around once in a blue moon. No wonder the shortage of legitimate women who want true polygyny! It’s disgusting!You are 1000% correct. You took the words right out of my mouth. I’m so sick of the one time message of “Hi” or “hey, any plans for the weekend” from supposed women! You write a genuine response and t...See more

Feb 16

JamieNatalie

I’ve wondered that same thought too

Feb 25

_Marc

Spot on with this post, especially the listed golden rules

Feb 27

Matthias

Yup, I 100% agree. I’m learning the longer I’m on here the more it seems like this site is a scam to sucker wholesome people like us out of our money. I get generic messages and then I respond and nothing comes back. It’s periodic so it keeps you thinking you have a chance of getting a connection and keeps you coming back, and tricked me into paying in the first place so I could respond. What a waist of money. It’s sad because I was hoping this place was a refuge from dating sites where all people want is to be promiscuous.Yup, I 100% agree. I’m learning the longer I’m on here the more it seems like this site is a scam to sucker wholesome people like us out of our money. I get generic messages and then I respond and not...See more

Mar 28

SeekingBFF

Thank you all for the information. As we are new to this site this helps us weed through some and also likely not renew. That's unfortunate. It's disappointing that we know there are good people wanting to do what's right in God's eyes yet this world makes it nearly impossible. Good luck to all of you and God Bless. If anyone has another idea please share. I think we have 2 weeks left on our subscriptionThank you all for the information. As we are new to this site this helps us weed through some and also likely not renew. That's unfortunate. It's disappointing that we know there are good people wanti...See more

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