Feeling Doubtful But Hopeful! from shanequas's blog

I am new to the polygamy life but I have talked to many families and some felt promising but failed. I feel like a lot of the failure with the families were because the families wanted things to move too fast and wanted me to just go along with it. I want that connection and the certainty with the family that God brings to me so I feel like it shouldn’t be rushed. I have an opened mind to things but I don’t believe rushing into a family without security of forever not just in the moment. I will keep staying encouraged that the family I am looking for is out there!

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jamesr2
Jun 13 '19
Wed love 2 meet u
Noblequest
Jul 23 '19
You are right to want to move slowly. Entirely too many, go the families and single women seeking, are far too eager and bound to make mistakes as a result. The plural marriage process is different to an extent from monogamous courting but as everyone knows a veritable five minute relationship followed by an immediate wedding is bound to end in tragedy. With a plural marriage though it is an even worse mistake given that having more than just two sets of feelings, personalities and needs makes it all the more of a balancing act to have a marriage that is good for everyone. Throw an unknown element in with almost no notice or prep and you are asking to hurt the family as well as the new wife.You are right to want to move slowly. Entirely too many, go the families and single women seeking, are far too eager and bound to make mistakes as a result. The plural marriage process is different to...See more
Yannia48
Mar 5
It best to move slow than take one day at time to be together as 3 and see how ur friendship is heading and see what y'all are heading what plans and more because not everyone on here is intothe church some of us are and u need to be sure someone. Match both of u and will accept both of ur beileif or all of u are not planning on being into the churchIt best to move slow than take one day at time to be together as 3 and see how ur friendship is heading and see what y'all are heading what plans and more because not everyone on here is intothe churc...See more
Yannia48
Mar 26
If u going share some one else husband wife or gf or bf u need to knw that this life style is abt sharing n must be sure thwt no one get hurt or ur self this why u need to find mate that match ur idea of parnther
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