Still searching from Gr510's blog

So I just have alot on my mind and i'm sure a lot of people probably wont read this post but I just need to get some things down in writing. 


So my fiance and I joined this site in search of a sister wife or more of a triad relationship. It seems like alot of people on here aren't serious about what they're looking for or message you once then you never hear from them again. We aren't here for a hook up or that "unicorn" We are very serious about our search for someone who will be long term. Part of our life forever. But where do we look? Should we just give up? We have been searching everywhere for quite some time and are getting a little frustrated.


Are there no girls out there that actually want to live the lifestyle we want? Are there no girls out there that are as serious as we are? We have so much love to share but can't find that "one" who wants what we do. It seems as though finding someone to share your life with is harder than we had planned. Everyone tells us to be patient but for how long? We have been looking for almost 2 years now with not really anyone that is serious.


Does anyone have any advice or some suggestions on what we should do?


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michaelt2
Mar 9 '19
My wife and I are also looking for a sister wife to become a part of a triad to live with us love us be a part of our relationship in every way possible and yes so far when it comes to this site and just these types of relationships all together I’m not sure what to think I’ve had the same problems you have to start chatting with someone and the next thing you know they disappear we have been married going on 29 years have been searching for the last five years with little to no luck at all keep your head up don’t let it get you down we haven’t let it get us down and we’re still gonna work and I think eventually we will find exactly what we’re looking for at the very least we are hoping and praying for that to happenMy wife and I are also looking for a sister wife to become a part of a triad to live with us love us be a part of our relationship in every way possible and yes so far when it comes to this site and j...See more
jaredj
Mar 13 '19
Dang this explains a lot
Smiles50
Mar 14 '19
Thanks for sharing. I also feel there are individuals who aren’t serious about truly living as a sister wife. This seems to be the new Hustle for many. We must stay focused hold the boundaries Ms Right is out there looking for her forever family.
MojoJojo
Mar 15 '19
We have been running into the same problems, say hello and get no response, talk back and forth a few times and poof or you end up finding some one when asked, "what exactly is it that your looking for" you get the answers fwb, nsa, plus so many "fake profiles", or the "Oh i'm just curious about it"...We have been running into the same problems, say hello and get no response, talk back and forth a few times and poof or you end up finding some one when asked, "what exactly is it that your looki...See more
Twoofakind
Jul 30 '19
Wow didn't realize it was this hard, good luck on yall search.
Triad
Aug 4 '19
Yes, we too are running into the same problem. We're not sure that the people that respond are sincerely honest about wanting to pursue a poly relationship. I think a lot of people want to live this lifestyle but are afraid of what other may think because it's not generally accepted. However, I think the journey to finding that person is exciting. It does get frustrating at times and even though there are various organizations that cater to the poly lifestyle, they are very active. We've gone to meet me events and we didn't find them to be very effective. Not very many people show up. We did have contact with one person from this site and even had a phone conversation with them. However, after the phone conversation we never heard from them again. We are currently in contact with another individual on another site of whom we intend to contact as soon as we return from Vegas. Hopefully she will be more promising. Anyway, we love each other and if we never find that person we still know we have each other. We intend to continue this journey and if it happens it happens, if it doesn't that's okay too. Good luck to you guys but don't give up. She's out there somewhere.Yes, we too are running into the same problem. We're not sure that the people that respond are sincerely honest about wanting to pursue a poly relationship. I think a lot of people want to live this l...See more
Triad
Dec 7 '19
I hate you had to go through that. You are correct. That isn't fair. This type of engagement is going to be hard on all parties. Working through all the challenges that you would NEVER see in a monogamists relationship. I (the husband) make mistakes all the time. I ask for forgiveness and understanding while we all work through this experience. This is new to us and we still have a LOT of questions and concerns. Many of the things you said about providing for the sister wife are some of my primary concerns. Anyway, I hope you are successful at finding that perfect couple.I hate you had to go through that. You are correct. That isn't fair. This type of engagement is going to be hard on all parties. Working through all the challenges that you would NEVER see in a monoga...See more
toris
Jan 6
I feel that people are here for different reasons. Many couples message me and want a triad or ask if I'm bi but I am looking to be a sister wife. A triad or being bi doesn't fall into the sisterwife category.
theoneo
Jan 22
My suggestion was to widen the site's reach a bit by fostering this more as a community than a dating site, and doing some grass roots advertising like formulating a small poster that you can print and stick up on community notice boards and such. I tried to put a post up about it but it was deleted and I didn't keep a copy. Here we have quite a number of companies do this for clandestine porn sites (under the guise of "women's empowerment") so I'd really like to do a corollary to that like "You're more than a picture." or "Be loved for more than your looks.....Have you considered polygamy?"My suggestion was to widen the site's reach a bit by fostering this more as a community than a dating site, and doing some grass roots advertising like formulating a small poster that you can print an...See more
Imhopie
Mar 4
Thanks for sharing you guys. Appreciate it.
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