Still searching from Gr510's blog

So I just have alot on my mind and i'm sure a lot of people probably wont read this post but I just need to get some things down in writing. 


So my fiance and I joined this site in search of a sister wife or more of a triad relationship. It seems like alot of people on here aren't serious about what they're looking for or message you once then you never hear from them again. We aren't here for a hook up or that "unicorn" We are very serious about our search for someone who will be long term. Part of our life forever. But where do we look? Should we just give up? We have been searching everywhere for quite some time and are getting a little frustrated.


Are there no girls out there that actually want to live the lifestyle we want? Are there no girls out there that are as serious as we are? We have so much love to share but can't find that "one" who wants what we do. It seems as though finding someone to share your life with is harder than we had planned. Everyone tells us to be patient but for how long? We have been looking for almost 2 years now with not really anyone that is serious.


Does anyone have any advice or some suggestions on what we should do?


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DanSmith
Mar 3
I hear ya... its frustrating and hard at times. We all share the pain. As cliche as it sounds, I do believe things work out as they should for a reason. Keep strong in being the best you can be, and it will all work out in the end.
Gr510
Mar 3
Thank you. I appreciate that.
donb
Mar 3
My husband and I have been searching for ten years. We've been married 13. We've lived in California and ow in Arizona. As DanSmith stated there are a lot of factors that go into any kind of relationship. When you pursue any life style that strays from the public's view of normal the hardships increase drastically. My husband and I are willing to wait as long as we need to for that special someone who will not only complete us as a couple but as a family unit. If you can't do the same then perhaps it's time you did some real soul searching. How long have you been engaged to your fiance? And during the time of your engagement how long have you spent it activity searching for an additional? Maybe your first step should be to marry the woman you're currently engaged to?My husband and I have been searching for ten years. We've been married 13. We've lived in California and ow in Arizona. As DanSmith stated there are a lot of factors that go into any kind of relations...See more
Julie_Robby2603
Mar 6
We are having the same problems as you are. i don't think everyone sees this as we do. It's almost like it's a game to them! We are a serious couple looking and this is our family that is involved,not for games. We are about to give up the search also.We are having the same problems as you are. i don't think everyone sees this as we do. It's almost like it's a game to them! We are a serious couple looking and this is our family that is involved,not...See more
michaelt2
Mar 9
My wife and I are also looking for a sister wife to become a part of a triad to live with us love us be a part of our relationship in every way possible and yes so far when it comes to this site and just these types of relationships all together I’m not sure what to think I’ve had the same problems you have to start chatting with someone and the next thing you know they disappear we have been married going on 29 years have been searching for the last five years with little to no luck at all keep your head up don’t let it get you down we haven’t let it get us down and we’re still gonna work and I think eventually we will find exactly what we’re looking for at the very least we are hoping and praying for that to happenMy wife and I are also looking for a sister wife to become a part of a triad to live with us love us be a part of our relationship in every way possible and yes so far when it comes to this site and j...See more
jaredj
Mar 13
Dang this explains a lot
Smiles50
Mar 14
Thanks for sharing. I also feel there are individuals who aren’t serious about truly living as a sister wife. This seems to be the new Hustle for many. We must stay focused hold the boundaries Ms Right is out there looking for her forever family.
MojoJojo
Mar 15
We have been running into the same problems, say hello and get no response, talk back and forth a few times and poof or you end up finding some one when asked, "what exactly is it that your looking for" you get the answers fwb, nsa, plus so many "fake profiles", or the "Oh i'm just curious about it"...We have been running into the same problems, say hello and get no response, talk back and forth a few times and poof or you end up finding some one when asked, "what exactly is it that your looki...See more
Twoofakind
Jul 30
Wow didn't realize it was this hard, good luck on yall search.
Triad
Aug 4
Yes, we too are running into the same problem. We're not sure that the people that respond are sincerely honest about wanting to pursue a poly relationship. I think a lot of people want to live this lifestyle but are afraid of what other may think because it's not generally accepted. However, I think the journey to finding that person is exciting. It does get frustrating at times and even though there are various organizations that cater to the poly lifestyle, they are very active. We've gone to meet me events and we didn't find them to be very effective. Not very many people show up. We did have contact with one person from this site and even had a phone conversation with them. However, after the phone conversation we never heard from them again. We are currently in contact with another individual on another site of whom we intend to contact as soon as we return from Vegas. Hopefully she will be more promising. Anyway, we love each other and if we never find that person we still know we have each other. We intend to continue this journey and if it happens it happens, if it doesn't that's okay too. Good luck to you guys but don't give up. She's out there somewhere.Yes, we too are running into the same problem. We're not sure that the people that respond are sincerely honest about wanting to pursue a poly relationship. I think a lot of people want to live this l...See more
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