3 Tips to Increase your Chances of Fulfilling your Poly Life Desires | Forum

LifeInCostaRica VIP
LifeInCostaRica Apr 23 '17

Here are 3 Tips I KNOW will Increase Your Chance of finding the Match YOU Desire!


Some of these tips may seem common sense, however, I realize that finding a person on the internet may be new and foreign to many people.


Because of my experience with internet marketing, I see things in a much different light. I hope these TIPS will be helpful.



#1 Add plenty of pictures to your profile.


This may seem like a no brainer, but I see many profiles that have only one picture. 


Add many pictures and NOT just your BEST photos. Be real and share real pictures. Fun pictures, picture of the things you like and enjoy. i.e. pets, sunsets, things that inspire you.


Think about sharing pictures as if your potential sister-wife or family is spending the day with you.


At different times during the day, you wouldn’t look your best, but you would be sharing what you like and they would see the WHOLE you. They would NOT see you ONLY from the neck up.


Pictures are the Best way to share who you are and how you experience life.



#2 Write out a detailed but NOT too long section for your “About Me” section.


This part is the first impression and is NOT what you are looking for in a family or sister-wife. This is all about who YOU ARE as a person or couple.


#2a The “Lifestyle” section is a great place to be more detailed about who you are, likes and dislikes. For couples…it a place to help the potential sister-wife understand the lifestyle you are currently experiencing. For singles…or the Sister-wife, it’s a great place to help others know what type of lifestyle you enjoy and would like to continue enjoying.



#2b The “About My Match” is the place to talk about what you are looking for in a couple, or a sister-wife. BE CAREFUL HERE…you don’t want to list out a ton of rules and requirements. However, if you have any deal-breakers where you KNOW you could NOT tolerate something…it’s good to put that here in order to keep from wasting their time or yours.


Remember, sometimes you or your potential sister-wife may not fully know what you would enjoy until you’ve had a chance to experience or talk out things during the courtship phase. Don’t box yourself in…Be OPEN to new possiblities.


#3 MOST IMPORTANT: Be active. Don’t complain that you haven’t found your match if you are not active. That would be like saying…I’m still hungry, yet you never get up from the couch to find food in the fridge.


If you are serious about finding your match, then you need to be active on the site. Meet people by sending friend request. Don’t wait for someone to contact you…if you see a couple or a Sister-wife who seems interesting, then contact them.


#3a Update your Newsfeed. Let people know what’s happening, how you are feeling and share your life. It’s a great way for people to get to know the real you.



If you follow these three simple TIPS…I have NO DOUBT you will find your match and begin enjoying the wonderful life a Poly Relationship brings.


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robynk VIP
robynk Apr 23 '17
Thank you for the post these are all very good ideas and very important and I couldn't agree more. Very well said
jimstef0822
jimstef0822 Nov 24 '17
Those are great points! Thank you for sharing this! Very helpful!
tcd
tcd Dec 26 '17
Thank you for sharing your knowledge, it has helped us tremendously.


Lionheat330
Lionheat330 Oct 3 '18

Thank you for the helpful post.


Rovey

DakotaRT
DakotaRT Oct 8 '18
Thank you
Fourgen VIP
Fourgen Jun 15
Great points, thanks for posting.
vegemite VIP
vegemite Sep 22
In the interests of boosting forum traffic, here are vegemite's three tips he KNOWS will Increase Your Chance of finding the Match YOU Desire! 


Some of these tips may seem counter-intuitive, however, I realize that finding a complete stranger on the internet and persuading them to pursue a lifestyle of ignominy, ostracism and curious glances may be new and foreign to many people. 


Because of my lack of experience with internet marketing, I see things in a much different light. 


Essentially the absence of light. 


Because this is clearly a moon shot. 


To the dark side furthermore... 


#1 Use a picture of an inanimate object instead of an actual photo in your profile. This may seem like a no brainer, but brains are over-rated, especially when making unwise life choices. You want people to be choosing you for YOU, not just for your magnetic appearance. Go deep, not shallow. Plumb the depths of the ocean of talent here.  


#2 Spoon feed details in your “About Me” section. First impressions are OVERRATED, you want someone who will last the distance through life's ups and downs. Make them work for every crumb of information about your glamorous lifestyle. Screen out the one-click wonders and look for those with strength in their fingertips. After all, you need someone who can carry a lot of laundry baskets, right? 


#3 MOST IMPORTANT: Be passive. Don’t bombard every profile with endless messages. That would clearly signal desperation on your part, and no one wants a desperate partner. You are looking for someone who can hold their tongue. I mean, after a raid on the compound, do you want your partner to be a chatterbox in that FBI holding cell? 


 If you follow these three simple TIPS…I have it must be admitted a slight element of DOUBT you will find your match and begin enjoying the wonderful life a Poly Relationship brings.

The Forum post is edited by vegemite Sep 22
Purple8i8
Purple8i8 Sep 28
#3 is my favorite tip. Especially the “raid the compound” part. I mean if your compound never gets raided, are you really even legit poly?
vegemite VIP
vegemite Sep 28
I mean it goes without saying that we all have compounds, right?
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