I suppose are more after advice than anything else. I have been seeing this lovely couple for about a month now, prior to that we were chatting for three months or so getting to know one another. They are a wonderful couple, and they have a wonderful family and I felt things were going really well until recently. While he is eager to continue on this journey I have been feeling that she is extremely hesitant. I find that I am the one always in this year's in conversation, sending texts and messages to her to arrange to meet or talk. I have spent time with her alone, trying to get to know her and build a relationship and trust between us. I just feel that she isn't interested in this now, and my heart is in it. I'm not sure where to go or how to approach the situation. Being in Perth Australia means there aren't many people here to match with so really i struck gold when we met. She is wonderful and so is he, and I do find i am attracted to him and was looking to build a relationship with both of them so that we could do life together. She has pulled back and I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on how to make her feel more comfortable pursuing this life? Were any of you Sister Wives in the same position when your husband was looking for a second wife? How did you come to terms with having another woman coming in? Is there any advice you can offer me? I'm just feeling a bit lost at the moment, I was hoping that this was it for me.