I am not bitter about the way things are going, mainly because I/we are not here for play time, an ego stroke, attempting to get laid or whatever. Our whole point in coming here and paying for the service is in hopes of meeting someone who will be a good fit for us and us for her. Marriage is the goal. So when we encounter people who take the equation less seriously, have bad manners, act squirrelly or do the most hilariously ironic ghosting thing it is not something to get upset about. We are clearly better off finding these things out early and parting ways.
Just getting more and more of the impression that very very few are genuinely seeking plural capital M Marriage. I don't look at a tonne of the single guys or couples profiles so maybe they are just as flakey as the women. Dont know. I do know that "i am an open book just ask" or literally nothing about yourself is not really the best way to find the loves of your life. Higher perception of market value or not, it is a crap strategy. Presuming the goal is to actually find a family, which as I mentioned it does not look like the most common goal.
Not really sure what the goal would be if the intention was not to fine a good plural marriage. Aren't there more ego strokes and suitors on all of the supposedly mono dating sites?
Would like women to weigh in since the families dont see it from your side.