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TheFam
TheFam Jun 28 '20
1. Why do so many single women want men to accept their children, but at the same time that same woman wont accept a man's Mistress? Generally speaking

 

2. why do many, not all bi-women identify as bi sexual but not accept polygyny?


It is not my intent to be disrespectful, tasteless, or rude. Just honest chat...

BrandyErick
BrandyErick Jul 1 '20
Id rather just be apart of it than have him have a mistress but thats just me
Polywifen
Polywifen Jul 10 '20
Are we comparing a woman's children to a man having another unrelated sexual partner? Is that a real question?  


Why would a bisexual woman be favourable towards polygyny? Her sexuality has nothing to do with HIS marriage style?  I am sorry but these questions are pretty random and don't make sense without  further context.

TheFam
TheFam Jul 11 '20
It is a question that I am asking. It is life. And family is family.

I see it as if I can accept what you have going on then you should be able to accept what I have going on. Its a platonic question about acceptance of what you come to the table with in polygyny. Several women have asked me to leave my primary consort to be with them And there children. Strange.

Why would a bisexual woman be favorable towards polygyny. I ask the same. I have also meet women who identify as bi say that they would not mind being with me but don’t want to live polygyny.

So some women can can Go back and forth with women or men but can’t see polygyny as a viable option. It’s just strange to me.

There is no right or wrong answers just a few questions of curiosity, because this place is dead.

Thank you for the response
Polywifen
Polywifen Dec 16 '20

I see it as if I can accept what you have going on then you should be able to accept what I have going on. Its a platonic question about acceptance of what you come to the table with in polygyny. Several women have asked me to leave my primary consort to be with them And there children. Strange.


These women are not plural minded, these are monogamous women who want you and only you.  This has nothing to do with them having children or anything else, it is about them NOT being appropriate mates for Polygamy.  End of question.

Why would a bisexual woman be favorable towards polygyny. I ask the same. I have also meet women who identify as bi say that they would not mind being with me but don’t want to live polygyny.


Bisexual women are capable of monogamous relationships, Bisexual /= polyamorous/polygamous or any other relationship style, it is simply a sexual attraction to men and women both.  Being IN a sexual minority does not mean being tolerant of relationship variances and women are especially more socially conditioned towards monogamous thinking, you are unlikely to find a community more hostile to poly than the lesbian community, not because they are intolerant gays, but simply because they are women.

So some women can can Go back and forth with women or men but can’t see polygyny as a viable option. It’s just strange to me.


Being bisexual does not mean that a woman has 'gone back and forth'  desire for does not mean ability TO and some bisexual women have had far less experience with women than men because men are simply a lot easier to find, date, court etc.  This is a numbers game.  And again, being in a relationship minority doesn't make anyone more open to poly.  They are entirely different.  Even amongst many active poly people, they see sexuality as inherent and poly as a choice.  

I am not sure why you are so confused?

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