2. why do many, not all bi-women identify as bi sexual but not accept polygyny?
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TheFam
Jun 28 '20
1. Why do so many single women want men to accept their children, but at the same time that same woman wont accept a man's Mistress? Generally speaking
Polywifen
Jul 10 '20
Are we comparing a woman's children to a man having another unrelated sexual partner? Is that a real question?
Why would a bisexual woman be favourable towards polygyny? Her sexuality has nothing to do with HIS marriage style? I am sorry but these questions are pretty random and don't make sense without further context.
TheFam
Jul 11 '20
It is a question that I am asking. It is life. And family is family.
I see it as if I can accept what you have going on then you should be able to accept what I have going on. Its a platonic question about acceptance of what you come to the table with in polygyny. Several women have asked me to leave my primary consort to be with them And there children. Strange.
Why would a bisexual woman be favorable towards polygyny. I ask the same. I have also meet women who identify as bi say that they would not mind being with me but don’t want to live polygyny.
So some women can can Go back and forth with women or men but can’t see polygyny as a viable option. It’s just strange to me.
There is no right or wrong answers just a few questions of curiosity, because this place is dead.
Thank you for the response
I see it as if I can accept what you have going on then you should be able to accept what I have going on. Its a platonic question about acceptance of what you come to the table with in polygyny. Several women have asked me to leave my primary consort to be with them And there children. Strange.
Why would a bisexual woman be favorable towards polygyny. I ask the same. I have also meet women who identify as bi say that they would not mind being with me but don’t want to live polygyny.
So some women can can Go back and forth with women or men but can’t see polygyny as a viable option. It’s just strange to me.
There is no right or wrong answers just a few questions of curiosity, because this place is dead.
Thank you for the response
Polywifen
Dec 16 '20
I see it as if I can accept what you have going on then you should be able to accept what I have going on. Its a platonic question about acceptance of what you come to the table with in polygyny. Several women have asked me to leave my primary consort to be with them And there children. Strange.
These women are not plural minded, these are monogamous women who want you and only you. This has nothing to do with them having children or anything else, it is about them NOT being appropriate mates for Polygamy. End of question.
Why would a bisexual woman be favorable towards polygyny. I ask the same. I have also meet women who identify as bi say that they would not mind being with me but don’t want to live polygyny.
Bisexual women are capable of monogamous relationships, Bisexual /= polyamorous/polygamous or any other relationship style, it is simply a sexual attraction to men and women both. Being IN a sexual minority does not mean being tolerant of relationship variances and women are especially more socially conditioned towards monogamous thinking, you are unlikely to find a community more hostile to poly than the lesbian community, not because they are intolerant gays, but simply because they are women.
So some women can can Go back and forth with women or men but can’t see polygyny as a viable option. It’s just strange to me.
Being bisexual does not mean that a woman has 'gone back and forth' desire for does not mean ability TO and some bisexual women have had far less experience with women than men because men are simply a lot easier to find, date, court etc. This is a numbers game. And again, being in a relationship minority doesn't make anyone more open to poly. They are entirely different. Even amongst many active poly people, they see sexuality as inherent and poly as a choice.
I am not sure why you are so confused?
theoneo
Jul 27 '21
+1 polywifen. I've known many bisexual women, but one in particular stuck out in my mind because she insisted she was also monogamous. Fair enough. However, what she did (and she told me this herself) was to date a woman for 18 months, and then dump her and then date a man for 6 months and dump him, rinse, lather, repeat. She had done this pattern for 8 years by the time I met her. She was never happy and left a trail of broken hearts, too. I suggested to her that perhaps she might consider an open relationship of some sort (at least to get through that 6 month stint every 2 years) but she insisted that she was too jealous to consider it, and also felt that noone would ever be good enough for a lifetime relationship. I felt sorry for everyone in that situation, including her, but what can you do? Some people rationalise differently, and you have to watch out for that if it doesn't match your needs or commitment.
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