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As far as success, I have been on this site off and on for probably over a year and most have either been people looking for "financial" help, single women looking for a man without the desire for Polygamy or women who say hello and take several weeks when they reply..... hard to get to know someone with one or two messages that are two sentences long every month.
I know this type of lifestyle is probably not "common" - such as I am not typically going to find a bar that is a poly bar or neighbors where everyone is living the lifestyle - but I really expected more serious single women looking for a family to join.
SO when I asked the question about others success I was really trying to figure out if it was just "us" or did others find this journey in finding a 2nd wife difficult? And I want to thank those who replied.
Many of the "matches" I get from this site are people I remember on the old site that hadn't been here forever.... I would think that after a certain amount of inactivity that a person would not be considered a "match".We have just started our search. This site or any siteso far hasnt fair well. There are people that reallydont understand the life and think they want it but when they start they back out because they realize it wasnt for them. All we can do is pray and be patent.
As far as success, I have been on this site off and on for probably over a year and most have either been people looking for "financial" help, single women looking for a man without the desire for Polygamy (Match.com might be a better site for them), or women who say hello and take several weeks when they reply..... hard to get to know someone with one or two messages that are two sentences long every month.
I know this type of lifestyle is probably not "common" - such as I am not typically going to find a bar that is a poly bar or neighbors where everyone is living the lifestyle - but I really expected more serious single women looking for a family to join.
SO when I asked the question about others success I was really trying to figure out if it was just "us" or did others find this journey in finding a 2nd wife difficult? And I want to thank those who replied.
Many of the "matches" I get from this site are people I remember on the old site that hadn't been here forever.... I would think that after a certain amount of inactivity that a person would not be considered a "match".Yeah, it's not just you.
As far as success, I have been on this site off and on for probably over a year and most have either been people looking for "financial" help, single women looking for a man without the desire for Polygamy (Match.com might be a better site for them), or women who say hello and take several weeks when they reply..... hard to get to know someone with one or two messages that are two sentences long every month.
I know this type of lifestyle is probably not "common" - such as I am not typically going to find a bar that is a poly bar or neighbors where everyone is living the lifestyle - but I really expected more serious single women looking for a family to join.
SO when I asked the question about others success I was really trying to figure out if it was just "us" or did others find this journey in finding a 2nd wife difficult? And I want to thank those who replied.
Jojo
It is hard but it is a equally hard as a single female, Quite a bit of couples believe it will be there rules and how they want to live, yet there is little regard to the lady that will be moving, picking up their lives and relocating away from everything they know especially any with children. What Alot of people dont realize is that there are just as many fakes with couples as there are singles. Some families their partner doesn't even know their looking how would that work out oh hi honey heres so and so shes moving in, So I get all of your frustration, But in the end you have to keep looking, Ive met some really great families that differences just wouldn't work, and Im talking to quite a few now, I know all of our forever families are out there, I love this site I have never found anything more real. Best wishes on your search to you all.It happens to me also in a single female looking and the amount of couples that don't want polygamy for the right reasons or the couples that only want it for a threesome worries me.Jojo
I just joined this site and seeing all these comments has made me so nervous. I am a very true and honest person looking for the right match for me and them. I get hurt very easy so I hope this does not happen, I have been asked so many times for my phone number, but am not ready to give my number to someone that I just met. I am straight as well and have met several couples who want me to pleasure both and all sleep in one bed. This maybe what some people are looking for but not for me. I would love to be best friends with the wife so that we have a rich life. Please steer me n the right direction if I am wrong in what I have said.You should be the one to escalate the communication from messages to email or phone. There are free chat apps (like kik) that will let you text without giving out your phone number.
As for getting what you want, you are already pretty clear in your profile, so not much else for you to do there. Some people do not read the profiles well (or expect they can sway you) but you need to do what is going to make you happy.
Just bear with the frustrations, as with any relationship, and block people who simply do not listen to you. Best of luck!
INVITED ONE TO MY HOME SHE WAS READY --TO MOVE BUT BAGGAGE WAS TOO MUCH..
3RD ON GOT DOWN TO WITHIN 2 DAYS TO MEET AND LOW AND BEHOLD IS MARRIED NOT DIVORCED YET CAN NOT MEET. 1/2 TRUTHS DO NOT WORK
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