THE 1ST ONE WAS A CATFISH - THEN SHE DIED THEN HER BEST FRIEND TOOK OVER WANTED TO COME $40,000.00 NOTHING, 10 MONTHS LATER GET MAIL TELLING US GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN CHARGES WITH KILLING HER FRIEND. A THE AUTHORITIES WANT TO TALK TO US. SHE IS TO BE SENTENCED 6 FEB. BECAREFUL.
INVITED ONE TO MY HOME SHE WAS READY --TO MOVE BUT BAGGAGE WAS TOO MUCH..
3RD ON GOT DOWN TO WITHIN 2 DAYS TO MEET AND LOW AND BEHOLD IS MARRIED NOT DIVORCED YET CAN NOT MEET. 1/2 TRUTHS DO NOT WORK
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robynk
Jan 9
If any of these issues are happening on this site please inform us right away. We keep pretty close tabs on what is going on. However, there are things we miss please message us if you run I to issues like this and sending money is a sure red flag.
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Jojo
Jan 26
I have found quite a many people through the site here, Some not great matches others I have talked to. I had to take a break for a bit to get a few things in order for me and my daughter, and yes there are some with couples privilege, But I dont blame them, Some relationship work that way its all about what you as a single female/couple are comfortable with. Its like anything else, Where 1 family may not be right for whatever reason another will be. IT takes time alot of it and your not just dating 1 person your dating a couple or a group even if there is no bisexuality. think about years back when people dated just a man or a women in high school or college, it was difficult, now add more people to the mix it becomes sometimes impossible, But in the end its worth it. Just my opinion, I wish you all happy findings 
Jojo
Togetherus
Mar 27
I was just wondering how other couples are doing in their search?Still looking and no luck yet.
Taramzimm
Mar 27
Couples play games too.. don't put all the blame on the single woman..i have been hurt and let down by a few couples!!
TexasJD
Mar 28
it is just as difficult for single looking to start a poly family. I figured this site and couple others would help me find what I've been wanting for over a decade.
say what you want but I may have the most difficult time out of anyone here. Not only is it difficult to find a woman willing to start out on this journey with me it's even harder because most women here are wanting someone who is a krisjan. (I use the old norse spelling of the word).
I would absolutely love to find a wife or two that isn't bothered by the fact that I am a polytheist as well as a polygamist
Gr510
May 4
I'm not having any luck on this site or any others. Maybe I'm doing something wrong. But I feel like it's impossible to find a single girl to be part of my family. We love this lifestyle and have so much love to share.
robynk
May 4
Gr510 sometimes it can be hard you have to give it a little time I see that you just joined 2 days ago sometimes you have to message a bit for response it's just the way this life works. Keep your chin up you will find what you are looking for.
Gr510
May 5
Thanks for the advice robynk. We definitely plan on keeping at it. It's the life we want to live for sure so we are willing to put in the time and effort to find that special someone to spend our life with. We really like this site and the people we have met so far on it. I know there is someone out there that's meant for us so I have high hopes of finding her.
GoldenSunset
May 19
It is hard but it is a equally hard as a single female, Quite a bit of couples believe it will be there rules and how they want to live, yet there is little regard to the lady that will be moving, picking up their lives and relocating away from everything they know especially any with children. What Alot of people dont realize is that there are just as many fakes with couples as there are singles. Some families their partner doesn't even know their looking how would that work out oh hi honey heres so and so shes moving in, So I get all of your frustration, But in the end you have to keep looking, Ive met some really great families that differences just wouldn't work, and Im talking to quite a few now, I know all of our forever families are out there, I love this site I have never found anything more real. Best wishes on your search to you all.I agreeJojo
3isbetterthan2
May 22
I agree with (blueberry71) it have a lot of women on here say there looking for couple ot try. but once the convo start, I'm guessing they thinks this site is a for huckup, or jist for fun, but once they realize its real they back away, plus it have the browser just looking to see what out their. like every body i had some hits no luck yet.I'd have to agree. This has been our experience so far. With a few exceptions of course, a lot of the women on here don't seem to know what to do when you move on to issues of real substance. Basic conversations about how many kids and sleeping arrangements seem okay, but as soon as long-term family goals come up, most have run for the hills. I honestly do think some would be better served by a hookup site than here, since judging by the comments, there are a lot of marriage minded families. Hopefully more marriage minded individuals will join the site, otherwise we'll probably close out our account. At the least, we'll deactivate our account for a few months, then reactive it and see if the match pool has diversified a little more.
3isbetterthan2
May 22
Just to clarify, we have had some positive experinces on this site. On the same token, we've met a few absolutely awesome people where our differences were to vast to make things work, but are great folks none the less. Hopefully things work out in the future with patience.
Rich16Liz
Aug 19
I will reply in 2 parts: This website and then our search overall.
We've recently joined this website so I understand our exposure here is limited... but to be honest it seems most of the replies we get from women are Bots. Replies are vague, when asking them specific questions responses are also extremely vague and not "personal" is probably the best way to say it. Realizing this a smaller site so a smaller pool of potential interested women but few seem to be real women. At least thus far that has been our experience here.
Our search overall; we're having better luck on other sites, especially those with more people. It takes a lot of time talking with many people and learning about them. We realize our situation is going to make it even more difficult, going from finding a Unicorn to finding THE Invisible Pink Unicorn. To clarify we're not looking for 3sums but a sincere committed relation of having someone join our Life, sex is the least of our concerns. Our age difference, my wife's CuckQuean fetish and me being a single parent with my older children living with us. We knowing just finding a woman interested in US is difficult enough as it took us a lifetime to find each other, now trying to find HER will not be an easy task.... but hopefully worth the reward.
We can't imagine how scary it is for a woman to come into an existing relationship or our 11 year marriage. Having no history with us, no memories, having played no part of our Life if that makes sense? On our side the unknown of how our Love and Marriage will be a year of 5 or 10 years with Her...... But we are willing to find out... willing to share our Lives with her.....
DubbnD
Aug 26
my husband and I have tried several sites. We are hoping this is the one. We know an understand it takes time. It took time for my husband and I to fall in love. it will deff take time to fall with a third person. But we are hopeful! Most other sites just want to hookup and nothing more. We want something real and that will last a life time. So best wishes to everyone. There is a special family for everyone here, I just know it!
CinAndJes
Sep 19
Wow, as bad as out might be to say I'm glad my wife and I aren't the only ones having issues finding someone.
robynk
Sep 20
I have to say if there are any issues with anyone here on the site we can not help if we do not know who you are referring to, Please contact an admin to look into these things. Every person on this site is checked into. Prior to approval, and if we see anything out of the ordinary the accounts are suspended. there are a lot of people who join and are inactive for a while that is this world of Polygamy.
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