A lot of people, families and single ladies, are not sure what they want. This is all an interesting thing and when it gets too close they reveal how committed they really are. Be thankful it ended soon. Just think if you would have gotten too deep. There are sincere families out there but one thing you have to make sure of is the position of the wife. If she hasn't gone though the stages she needs to do through, it will never work no matter how much the husband wants it to. Sometimes the husband is not prepared for the responsibility too. And us families have seen way more single ladies that play games, but if plural marriage is meant to be for each they will keep going.