why do you want to be in a polygamy relationship? | Forum

Clearly its for the dialogue, the chatter, the non-stop backwards and forwards, the bubble of conversation, the meeting of the minds...

I think @StationaryGypsy's blog entry here is worth a read in this context. https://www.sisterwives.com/...t-lasting-sisterhood :-)

I personally feel like I have so much more love to give.  I dont want a hook-up. I want Love and Marriage and good friendships. You've got to become friends first, it's got to be about love, honesty, respect.. It's not just about a man it's much more...

I'm open minded and I have a big heart with a lot of love to give. Relationships aren't perfect. No one person is perfect. Love is caring for someone for who they are and are accepting and forgiving of their flaws. I've only dated men in the past and though it was barely noticeable sometimes, it always felt like something was missing

Personally I have more of a Biblical point of view. My wife and I both feel called to it. Although we may never find another woman that wants to join us but if it is meant to be it will. Just want to make sure I’m in the correct places that promotes the possibility of her finding us.
But to your question, I’m not sure either of us “want” to but we are willing to. After talking with others over the years we have found that to do it correctly it is more effort than a mono marriage for everyone.
If in fact you are wanting sex with other than your mate you have now. It is easier on you health well being and bank account to just get a lover or hook up buddy. Because to do this and do it correctly is a lot of work.

Imhopie
Imhopie MAR 10
I personally feel like I have so much more love to give. I dont want a hook-up. I want Love and Marriage and good friendships. You've got to become friends first, it's got to be about love, honesty, respect.. It's not just about a man it's much more...

We agree 100% I don’t understand how people can jump from chatting a few times a video chat to “ hey we are all in love come move in” ! . Friends first if you can become best friends and naturally want to be in contact then maybe love develops and after that, who knows. I’ve know lots of couples that were madly in love but couldnt live together — forget adding a whole nother soul in the mix.
Biggest down fall of online dating = just words, need deeds that is what shows character.