why do you want to be in a polygamy relationship? | Forum
But to your question, I’m not sure either of us “want” to but we are willing to. After talking with others over the years we have found that to do it correctly it is more effort than a mono marriage for everyone.
If in fact you are wanting sex with other than your mate you have now. It is easier on you health well being and bank account to just get a lover or hook up buddy. Because to do this and do it correctly is a lot of work.
Imhopie MAR 10
I personally feel like I have so much more love to give. I dont want a hook-up. I want Love and Marriage and good friendships. You've got to become friends first, it's got to be about love, honesty, respect.. It's not just about a man it's much more...
We agree 100% I don’t understand how people can jump from chatting a few times a video chat to “ hey we are all in love come move in” ! . Friends first if you can become best friends and naturally want to be in contact then maybe love develops and after that, who knows. I’ve know lots of couples that were madly in love but couldnt live together — forget adding a whole nother soul in the mix.
Biggest down fall of online dating = just words, need deeds that is what shows character.
Cherry and I have a Christian background from our childhood. So out of curiosity I studied the bible, especially the Old Testament concerning polygamy. Despite so many mainstream denominations assuming or interpreting scriptures against polygamy every way they can, I don't see it that way. I don't want to start too big of a biblical discussion (if anyone really cares) because what is really important or most important is what do the mutually consenting adults want for their lives? If a man has two women who want to share a loving marriage relationship with him and he with them, than that is their choice. If the throuple marriage is based on love & family and not sex, there should not be any jealousy between the wives and happiness will be shared through their mutual companionship and sharing love together. Love is choice. Judge less and love more.
If our personalities are compatible and the desire to choose love is there - I think more people would be happier if they take the chance. I think I've met too many older people, especially ones who are divorced, who are wanting to take a chance but are just way too cautious about it. They are so afraid they might pick the "wrong" person again. The women want everything to be just perfect this time. I understand those feelings. Just saying some divorced women reading this just consider what I'm saying with a grain of salt and maybe something to think about for whatever it is worth.
