Cherry and I have a Christian background from our childhood. So out of curiosity I studied the bible, especially the Old Testament concerning polygamy. Despite so many mainstream denominations assuming or interpreting scriptures against polygamy every way they can, I don't see it that way. I don't want to start too big of a biblical discussion (if anyone really cares) because what is really important or most important is what do the mutually consenting adults want for their lives? If a man has two women who want to share a loving marriage relationship with him and he with them, than that is their choice. If the throuple marriage is based on love & family and not sex, there should not be any jealousy between the wives and happiness will be shared through their mutual companionship and sharing love together. Love is choice. Judge less and love more.
If our personalities are compatible and the desire to choose love is there - I think more people would be happier if they take the chance. I think I've met too many older people, especially ones who are divorced, who are wanting to take a chance but are just way too cautious about it. They are so afraid they might pick the "wrong" person again. The women want everything to be just perfect this time. I understand those feelings. Just saying some divorced women reading this just consider what I'm saying with a grain of salt and maybe something to think about for whatever it is worth.