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    SoulShepherd and 3love are now friends
    May 11
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    SoulShepherd commented on Dr_Daddy_Mistress_Mommy's blog post
    An important question:
    Someone asked ".... seems like you are more interested in the sex aspect"

    Thought we would post the response in case someone else has that question...
    sadiahh
    Nov 12 '17
    I second and third that.
    SoulShepherd
    Nov 15 '17
    WHen I was involved in the swing lifestyle, initially the lure of wild sex was the draw. We quickly realized that sex was a small part, maybe the smallest part, and that our friendships and loves were more about the deep trust and intimate emotional connections. Being able to expose yourself, warts and all, bare your soul to someone, and for them to be able to bare their soul to you creates bonds of friendship and trust that extend miles past the bedroom. You cannot build that trust any other way. There will always be drama, but that bedrock trust is so so key. We arent meat on sticks, no one is.WHen I was involved in the swing lifestyle, initially the lure of wild sex was the draw. We quickly realized that sex was a small part, maybe the smallest part, and that our friendships and loves were...See more
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    SoulShepherd created a new blog post
    For those who do not necessarily want kids
    Most poly families are REALLY big!  Are there any ladies that do not necessarily want children of their own?  Do you want a multi wife famil...
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    SoulShepherd and Abby are now friends
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    SoulShepherd commented on their blog post
    Thinking of a life as yet unlived
    I met a single mom the other day. She is stressed, exhausted, miserable. She has an adorable 4 year old son. She's young, 25 or so. She is working her...
    txcouple1967
    Nov 10 '17
    I think women are looking for too much , they want the prince with all the things a prince has money , good looks etc, in today's world that's hard to find
    SoulShepherd
    Nov 10 '17
    True. I cannot believe the social stigma still attached to poly families. As long as the man is doing his job and leading, sheltering, providing, loving, etc... why wouldnt a woman relish and desire a relationship where there is more help, support, love, etc?? Ego, insecurities, etc lead us to so many bad choices...True. I cannot believe the social stigma still attached to poly families. As long as the man is doing his job and leading, sheltering, providing, loving, etc... why wouldnt a woman relish and desire a...See more
    LenaOwl
    Nov 10 '17
    Very well said, love. The stigma around the poly lifestyle is literally killing single parents. It is heartbreaking.
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