Solo polyamory
Build romantic relationships while maintaining your independence, without the expectation of sharing a home or finances.
Polyamory & ethical non-monogamy
Polyamory dating that fits your life
Sister Wives is a polyamory dating site and app for singles, couples and groups interested in ethical non-monogamy (ENM). Meet people who share your interests and relationship goals, whether you are dating on your own or with partners.
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The foundation
What is polyamory dating?
Polyamory means having, or being open to, more than one romantic relationship at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.
Polyamory dating can mean meeting partners independently, dating with an existing partner or exploring a relationship with a couple or group.
Different structures
Explore different styles of polyamory
Polyamorous relationships can take different forms. Here are a few approaches to consider as you meet potential partners.
Kitchen-table or parallel
Kitchen-table polyamory involves socializing with your partners’ other partners. Parallel polyamory keeps those social connections more separate.
Triads & polyfidelity
A triad involves three people dating one another. Some triads or larger groups choose polyfidelity, keeping romantic and sexual relationships exclusive within the group.
Getting to know each other
Talk about the relationship you want
- Time togetherTalk about how often you would like to see each other and how dating fits around existing commitments.
- PrivacyDiscuss what you are comfortable sharing about your relationships with friends, family and online.
- ExpectationsKeep talking about your needs and revisit relationship agreements together as things change.
A focused community
Find your next polyamorous relationship
Date independently or together
Look for a relationship of your own, or meet people interested in getting to know you and your partners.
Find common ground
Explore profiles and exchange private messages to discover shared interests, values and what you each want from a relationship.
Active monitoring
Text-message verification, account checks and ongoing moderation help protect our dating community.
Web and mobile
Keep conversations within reach
Download Sister Wives for Apple or Android.
Personal support for poly dating
Get help finding the relationship you want
Let a matchmaker introduce you to potential partners, or get one-to-one coaching to improve your dating experience. Both services are tailored to your goals and your approach to polyamory.
Curated connections
Polyamory Matchmaking
Receive personal introductions based on your values, lifestyle and the polyamorous relationship you want. Our matchmakers look for potential matches within and beyond Sister Wives.
Explore Polyamory Matchmaking →Practical dating guidance
Polyamory Dating Coaching
Build dating confidence with one-to-one guidance on writing your profile, talking about polyamory with potential partners and moving from messages to dates.
Explore Polyamory Dating Coaching →Helpful answers
Polyamory dating FAQs
What does ENM mean?
ENM stands for ethical non-monogamy. It describes relationships where everyone involved agrees that partners may have other romantic or sexual relationships. Polyamory is one form of ENM, but ENM also includes other arrangements, such as open relationships.
Can I join if I am single or already have partners?
Yes. Sister Wives welcomes singles, couples and groups interested in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Whether you are single or already have partners, you can meet people who share your interests and relationship goals.
Do I have to date a couple?
No. You can look for individual partners without dating an established couple or joining a group. Sister Wives welcomes people who date independently as well as those interested in dating with partners.
Ready when you are
