Envy and vexing from VV76's blog

Isaiah 11:13. The envy also of Ephraim shall depart, and the adversaries of Judah shall be cut off: Ephraim shall not envy Judah, and Judah shall not vex Ephraim

 

This seems to be the primary source of contention within the poly household.  It is also one of the biggest fears that can exist within the household.  The first wife’s fear of being marginalized by the husband as his infatuation for a new wife overcomes his sense of decency and order.  This coupled with the new wife’s inexperience in how to be a good wife to her husband and sister to her sister wife,  tends to lend itself to a perspective and attitude that is destructive to the wellbeing of all parties and the household in general.  It’s a perspective of selfishness that manifests as vexing the first wife.  The first wife becomes jealous and envious of the second, and the second, misunderstanding and misconstruing her influence in the house, begins to build her own house by dividing his house.

 

This entire dynamic is completely and easily avoided, simply by the presence of a strong husband who clearly articulates his vision and boundaries to all the family, and secondarily by the women practicing and exampling the fruits of the spirit to each other.


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RedBeard
Aug 24
Sirach 26 is a wonderful tool for marriage, it's also known as Ecclesiasticus especially going down to verse 6 "But a grief of heart and sorrow, is a women that us jealous over another woman, and a scourge of the tongue which communicates with allSirach 26 is a wonderful tool for marriage, it's also known as Ecclesiasticus especially going down to verse 6 "But a grief of heart and sorrow, is a women that us jealous over another woman, and...See more
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