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It is so nice to finally have a place where we can be 100% open and free to search for love in our own ways. Happy hunting everyone and we can’t wait to meet you.

Driving to Florida from the poconos for thanksgiving. Planning on seeing Savannah and Luray cavern on the way back. Stuck in traffic on 95. Ugh

Hey there! 🌟 It’s so amazing to have this platform where we can connect with like-minded folks who share our passions and dreams. It really feels like we’re building a little community here, doesn’t it? Each post, comment, and interaction just adds to the vibe, and We are so grateful for all the positivity that flows through this space. Honestly, I think we’re all in such a unique spot right now. It’s like we’ve stumbled upon this treasure trove of inspiration and support! 💖 Whether it’s family, hobbies, or just sharing our journeys, it’s incredible how we can uplift each other. I love seeing everyone’s stories and experiences—it's a reminder that we’re not alone in our pursuits. So, here’s to many more moments of sharing and growing together! 🥳 Let’s keep this energy going and make the most of this opportunity. Big shoutout to everyone who participates and contributes—you all rock! Can’t wait to see what’s next for all of us! 💪✨

I can’t say that I’m a blog kind of guy, even though I enjoy writing from time to time, on my own behalf. This is an interesting way to give a little more context into what brought my wife and I into the understanding of this family structure (biblical polygyny).
What a weird thing to ever consider, I thought, coming from a traditional background that ostracizes those who didn’t adhere to the one wife for life normalcy bias.  But, for years this tug in my heart has persistently grown. Not being the kind of man that bends easily to the will of others, or impulsive, and understanding that I’m also not perfect in any way… I had doubts about moving in this direction. I’m a man who places my relationship with Jesus first, and if this was the direction He wants me to lead our family, I’m more than willing to devote myself to it.
While reading scripture and pondering the biblical applications of a moral relationship with several women within one household… I found this family structure to be fitting, but only to those who understand the responsibilities and devotion they require of a man. I asked the Lord, “If there is one thing in scripture contrary to this marital structure of wives, I will not continue this path but maintain the life-long commitment to my wife and our children, only.” Needless to say, I haven’t… My family knows that I’m an honorable man, and once I chose this path, my wife, children, mother and father are just as eager to see where this leads our family as I am.
What I’ve taken from my studies is, men are given three options when it comes to companionship with the opposite sex. One, celibacy… never taking a wife and maintain only the relationship he has with God. Two, monogamy… an unbreakable bond before God to one woman, after Christ. Three, polygyny… the unbreakable bond before God to several women, after Christ. Each choice is measured by the abilities and gifts of the man to endure, provide and the ability to maintain his relationship with God. Simply put, a humbled man in right standing with God understands his weakness or his strength in carrying the burden of wives, and choses his path to walk. And burden, isn’t to say that a woman is a burden, a Godly woman is as close as a man can get to the nature of God Himself on earth, but she is a responsibility of the husband to hold her and his family up and comfort them in a brutal world… to lay his life down as Christ did for the Church. Outside of Christ… this family structure will always succumb to the world.

Are you a husband who is the head of your family? What does that mean to you? What does that mean to your wife or wives? I am a widow of a scripturally polygynous family. My sister wife decided she doesn't like the winter's in Oregon. When our husband died, she chose to dissolve our family and move to Florida. I am left alone and lonely here where we tried to have a family. Yes we made mistakes, that is part and parcel to trying things in life. 

I am seeking someone who also has made mistakes but persevered and is the head of his family. I do hope and pray that I can find that here.

I never thought I would find myself wondering about polygamy. As a Christian, I grew up with one clear model of marriage: one man and one woman joined together before God. And yet, somewhere along my spiritual and personal journey, the thought of polygamy began to spark a deep curiosity in me.

At first, I wrestled with guilt just for being curious. Was it wrong to even ask these questions? But the more I leaned into prayer and reflection, the more I realized that curiosity itself isn’t sin — it’s an invitation to learn, to test what I believe, and to draw closer to God’s truth.

Polygamy is a topic that shows up often in Scripture. Abraham, Jacob, David, and Solomon all lived within polygamous arrangements at different times in their stories. Reading these passages with fresh eyes, I realized that while polygamy isn’t presented as the ideal in the New Testament, it is undeniably part of the broader biblical story. And that makes me wonder: what can we learn from it today?

For me, the draw isn’t about breaking rules or chasing something forbidden. It’s about the possibility of community, support, and expanded family. I imagine the richness of shared responsibilities, children growing up with multiple role models, and the depth of love that might exist in a network of devoted relationships. Of course, I know it wouldn’t be simple — human relationships never are — but beauty often shines brightest in the midst of complexity.

This journey of thought has been both humbling and exciting. I feel encouraged to continue asking questions, reading Scripture with an open heart, and talking with trusted mentors about what it means to follow Christ while remaining open to discovering perspectives that are new to me.

Whether or not polygamy ever becomes part of my lived experience, I see value in the courage to explore. For me, trying to understand polygamy isn’t about rebellion; it’s about seeking beauty, truth, and connection in the many ways love can take shape.

If you’ve ever been curious about something that seems outside the “Christian norm,” I want to encourage you: don’t be afraid to ask questions. Sometimes, the very act of seeking understanding can deepen our faith and expand our appreciation for God’s design in ways we never expected.

Hello world… What is Biblical Polygyny(BP)? Biblical Polygyny is one man having multiple wives. The reason it is important to have the correct definition is because there are many other forms of multiple/poly relationships/lifestyles and not to confuse the reader. There are many different beliefs, denominations, religions surrounding the Holy Scriptures that some people call the Bible. For those people who say they believe in the Holy Scriptures to be The Truth, my question to them is can they show ONE Biblical law that says Biblical Polygyny is a SIN? No, you cannot … because it is not a sin according to the Biblical laws. 1 John 3:4 Sin is breaking the law. Matter of fact, the Biblical law required Biblical Polygyny under certain circumstances; and in other cases it made provisions for it to be executed (Exodus 21:10, Deuteronomy 21:15-17, Deuteronomy 25:5-10, Deuteronomy 17:17, and Genesis Chapter 29-30. If Biblical Polygyny was a SIN, The Most High (God) would have made a law forbidding it in lieu of supporting its practice. Be fruitful and multiply. Biblical Polygyny was an Eastern custom and societal practice for the Hebrew Israelites all through the history of the Holy Scriptures. Today in this Western culture we practice under a religious Roman Catholicism/Christianity custom which is FORCED monogamy. In 1563 the Roman Catholic Church Council of Trent Canon ll Said it is unlawful to have several wives. Again, Man’s Religion has set these Western culture traditions that are practiced today that came from Rome. Here are some of the men in the Holy Scriptures who practiced Biblical Polygyny: Abraham (The father of faith)Genesis 16:3, Moses (The person that gave us The Law/Torah) Exodus 2:21, Exodus 18:2-5, and Numbers 12:1, Jacob (who had 4 wives and without them we would not have the 12 tribes of Israel or Jesus (Yahshua) who came out of his linage Genesis 29, Genesis 30:4-9, king David (A man after God’s own heart had multiple wives) 1 Samuel 30:5, The Most High gave David his masters wives and if that were not enough He would have given more 2 Samuel 12:8, Elkanah had two wives 1 Samuel 1:2, Gideon Had many wives Judges 8:30, Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines 1 Kings 11:3, Joash did that what is right in the sight of the Lord and took two wives 2 Chronicles 24:1-3, and the list goes on and on. Hopefully you see my point. And my last point about Biblical Polygyny is The Most High (God) had two wives. Ezekiel Parable chapter 23, Israel an Judah Jeremiah 3:6-14, I was a husband unto them Jeremiah 31:31-32. Why would The Most High use this analogy of two wives for Himself if Biblical Polygyny was a Sin.  Even Jesus (Yahshua) himself uses a parable of the 10 virgins not condemning Biblical Polygyny, but affirming it’s practice though a parable in Matthew 25:1-13. Jesus (Yahshua) also spoke on Levirate Marriage which can at times require Biblical Polygyny. Deuteronomy 25:5-6, Mark 12:18-24, Matthew 22:24-29, and Luke 20:28-35. I hope this fines you well as you do your own research and as you seek The Truth….

Sister Wives Featured on This is Life with Lisa Ling

On November 5, 2017, the CNN series This is Life with Lisa Ling aired an episode titled Modern Love that gave viewers an inside look at nontraditional relationships. The episode explored how families across the United States are redefining what it means to love and live together. Rather than focusing only on monogamous couples, Lisa Ling highlighted people in polygamous, polyamorous, and other ethical non monogamous relationships. During this episode, Sister Wives was introduced as a leading resource for those seeking connections beyond traditional dating.

What Modern Love Explored

Each week, This is Life with Lisa Ling investigates unique lifestyles and communities that are often overlooked. In Modern Love, Lisa spoke with singles, couples, and entire households who are creating family structures outside the conventional mold. These interviews highlighted both the rewards and challenges of living in multi-partner households, including sharing finances, parenting responsibilities, and navigating emotions among more than two adults.

One of the strongest themes was the difficulty of finding understanding and acceptance. Many families featured in the episode described how lonely it can feel to live outside mainstream relationship norms. Sister Wives fills this gap by offering a dedicated dating and matchmaking platform for people interested in polygamy, polyamory, or ethical non monogamy. Unlike mainstream dating sites, Sister Wives focuses on connecting members who share similar values and goals, making it easier to find meaningful connections.

Everyday Life in Multi-Partner Families

The episode presented an honest picture of what daily life looks like for these families. Viewers saw how partners take turns cooking dinner, helping children with homework, or sharing school drop-offs. Their routines looked surprisingly familiar, with the main difference being that three or four adults share household responsibilities. Couples and groups also emphasized the importance of clear communication to handle jealousy, scheduling conflicts, and relationship boundaries.

Breaking Stereotypes About Polygamy and Polyamory

Many people associate polygamy with specific religious groups in Utah, but Modern Love showed that it is far more diverse today. Some participants were motivated by faith, while others simply felt capable of loving more than one person. Whether through polygamy, polyamory, or other forms of ethical non monogamy, each relationship was built on mutual respect, honesty, and transparency.

Polyamory often includes multiple romantic partnerships, while polygamy typically involves multiple spouses. Ethical non monogamy is the broader term covering many types of consensual open relationships. Each structure varies, but all require a high level of trust and communication. Families interviewed by Lisa Ling repeatedly emphasized that these relationships succeed when everyone is committed to ongoing conversations and agreements.

How Sister Wives Supports These Communities

Sister Wives was featured in the episode as a safe and supportive platform for people exploring nontraditional relationships. By focusing on polygamy dating, poly dating, and ENM dating, the app removes the uncertainty many experience on mainstream platforms. Users can connect with others who already understand and embrace the idea of multi-partner families. This sense of community is invaluable for people who may face judgment or misunderstanding from the outside world.

The families also described practical advantages of multi-partner households, such as shared financial support, reduced stress from dividing household chores, and extra help with childrearing. While legal recognition remains limited, many families create private agreements to protect themselves. Despite challenges, participants emphasized that the rewards of love, support, and partnership outweigh the obstacles.

Why Representation Matters

Lisa Ling approached the subject with empathy rather than sensationalism, allowing viewers to see the humanity behind these relationships. By including Sister Wives, the episode underscored how modern technology now makes it easier for people to find like-minded partners and build families that reflect their values.

Modern Love showed that there is more than one way to experience commitment and family. For those curious about polygamy, polyamory, or ethical non monogamy, Sister Wives provides a trusted space to meet others, share experiences, and discover what multi-partner relationships can offer. As society becomes more open to diverse ways of loving, resources like Sister Wives help make these lifestyles more accessible.







Published By: Sister Wives 

Matchmakers Inc 

Why do we make finding love so difficult, by creating expectations that we sometimes don't meet ourselves.

A woman that can complete our happy home. Must not have children or want children and be ok with our fur babies we have. You must be bisexual and willing to relocate to us