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Relationships is based off of the word relate. In order to build something or see if each other can become involved, you have to be able to communicate. What’s the purpose of being on this site or any other site that involves wanting to be in a relationship, if you do not know how to prioritize your time? Meeting each other and talking on the phone gives the parties involved a basis of how life maybe in that persons company. It’s too many hurt people that hurts people on this site and many others. Know what you want and “pursue” what you want period! Life is not complicated but indecisiveness causes complications. We hope everyone happiness and love ❤️

Have you ever come home from work, close your door behind you, and realize that your life isn’t as fulfilling as you’d like it to be? We are all moving so fast these days, and time seems to have sped up faster that we aren’t able to grab hold of it. As a result, we find ourselves playing catch-up to meeting the goals and aspirations we all dreamt about. Nevertheless, in order for us to actually begin to achieve our goals and aspirations, we must first have a solid foundation and support system. Family should be the construct that facilitate our achievements in life. From the beginning, a large family group were instrumental in building stability, strength, and increased productivity whereby each individual equally benefited. As this world continues to wrestle with whether polygamy/polygyny is appropriate for our day and time, the more unstable the monogamous family structure suffers to keep up with achieving their goals and aspirations.

Peace is everything we are cool calm and collective trying to build an Kingdom!

We have been on this site for two years now.

We have met a few potentials in person and talked to many others on here, and done a lot of video chats.

We have found that a lot of people are here for unspoken reasons.. in our opinion, for the wrong reasons.

We are not judging anyone we are just posting our experiance with this site.

This site is not responsible for the people it attracts, to make that clear.

But if you're looking for a real fit for your family you should take time to make sure its 100% or your in a world of hurt.

So many just want to escape their current living situtations or join a existing family because of their poor choices.

Ultimately its up to you, what you want..

Don't compromise on your views because if you do, you will lose in the end.

We have a newborn and nothing matters more than God first and second our home..

But to help couples, we would stress, be a unit and Vet everyone you talk too.

Don't rush into anything because your family will pay the price.

If your certain this lifestyle is for you, what's wrong with taking your time? You have everything to gain, but also evrrything to lose if your man, lays with this new addition and she becomes his wife.. If she leaves, say hello to 18 years of child support your man is liable for. 

In otherwords, be aware of the wolves wrapped in sheepskin.

If your not careful you could invite the devil in your home, with your children and your responsible in the Lord's eyes for those children He loaned you! So be wise and not foolish.

If your a believer of the Word of God, seek the Lord.

You know, scripture teaches us, the Lord BROUGHT Adam his wife.. Adam did not go looking, and that is something why we stopped 'looking' and if He brings another He does. If not, let it fall at the wayside and stay focused on the Lord.

We are guilty of making a mess and then wanting the Lord to sort and fix it. Bless Him for fixing it for us all, but we should learn and grow, not remain like babies, but mature like adults do.

We learn a lot from Solmon who the Lord said, Do not take women from these tribes.

In otherwords, do not take a women from another faith outside the Lord, for she WILL turn his, yours, and your children's hearts from the Lord.

Also,

Look for good characteristics..

How she dresses speaks volumes of character.

A lady is not a women because she is a women.

Just like the Virtues Wife is a true real lady!

Dressing in provocative ways shows many things.

But scripture says, we should not put stumbling blocks infront of our brothers or sisters.

What is she politically?

Are you a Conservative and she a Liberal?

Your in for conflict.. or if your Liberal and she is Conservative your looking at the wrong "tribe".

We believe the Lord holds high regard for the home and it must be a well organised unit, not full of chaos...

We deal with enough chaos already, why bring it into your home?

I am not saying this to stop anyone from doing what their God given rights are to do. But instead putting some advice out there for couples or singles to consider and decide together how they want to proceede. 

Its good to have a good family dynamic and system in place.

So when you finally find the 'Right' one for you, she isn't thinking you people are crazy lol.

Also get a good list of important topics that could or are deal breakers, you will save yourself so much time.

Instead of not having that, you or your other says or does something that person is not for and there is a conflict.

I remember the first lady we had over, I was talking to her about politics and beliefs and we got into a debate over the LGBT topic and I refuse to have a wife that supports such a Abomination, but she didn't see it that way.

I want to teach the children the Lord loaned me, that the Rainbow is a sacred covenant the Lord made with the world.

Not, its about gay and lesbian rights.

See the conflict there??

Sure I could have compromised on God, but I am not that way, im stubborn and I won't have a wife that teaches any of my children the opposite of what I want.

A house that is divided will surely fall, and a house that stands together will not.

The Word of God is pure truth and those who do not agree will find the truth out for themselves the easy or hard way, in this life or the next to come.

So, 

Wrapping this up and hopping off..

We hope that this helps you couples who are looking tirelessly and helps you.. for we wish someone helped us when we were 'new' to this lifestyle and the search.

May the Lord of Hosts guide us all, and give us open ears and eyes that truly see.

Peace be with you all.

Hey, my husband and I are new to the sit . We've been together since 2006. We are looking for someone to complete our life. We're looking for a female, 25-50 yrs old, financially stable, wants or have kids, a big heart, and someone that likes to have fun.

Hello I would like to introduce myself my name is Monique and I am brand new to the site I have been thinking about this for a while after I got divorced five years ago because lately I’ve been kind of the second will in a relationship so why keep such a gem a secret when she can be out in the open.

Very intelligent and confident, a leader, teacher, and caring. Dork humor to break up the seriousness. I love our Creator. Avid studier who cares only about truth and natural design. Zero bull. Super fit and healthy by natural means and will help you be the same. Calm and collected yet quite passionate in an intelligent conversation. Listener to whom you can talk about anything with exactly zero awkwardness. Yay! I'll care for your being and look after your soul.

Looking for a kind, teachable, submissive, healthy second wife between 18-25 who wants to build a big, strong family (children). Must be a fan of a simple, natural, and cozy-as-heck life with me and my amazing first wife of 11 years. :)

I am looking for a maiden (virgin) who has saved herself sexually for her husband.

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No homosexuals or bisexuals. Polygyny only.

 It was not easy to come to this path in life. Some people do it for the "excitement" factor and that can never last. How long can physical relations go ? True relationships are built on common values, common interests and a common vision.

  We are a pretty calm bunch. We were married in April, my original plans were to open a small museum here locally, but no long after getting settled, my wife's headaches got to bad we went to the doctor. The short version is she has damage from an old car wreck. It causes her sometimes to have a hard time with sentences or directions. Sometimes she does not notice simple things others might. She can fall too and that is scary for me.

  We love each other very much, but came to the conclusion quickly that both of us really need a sister wife. Somebody to grow with, do stuff with and share life with. Both of us are technically disabled, but I stay active in business with some travel. She often has visits with doctors and it is difficult for me to always be there to go along.

  There is no real drama between us, I have more arguments with fast food people not getting stuff right than her. We are really good together in temperament, plans, vision, and morals. We are both believers in leave things as they are if you can't improve the situation for sure. Do no harm has real meaning here. This home is violence free among relatives.

  Drop us a line if you want to correspond more.

Dave and Tera 

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