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Rich_
It really can happen! Don't give up everyone, takes awhile but worth the wait!
Rich_ May 19
Rich_
It really is possible to find the woman you're looking for on here, I did! Good luck to everyone!
Rich_ May 19 · Comments: 1
Boedega1
New
We're new to this. Any adivce?
Boedega1 May 1 · Comments: 4
robynk
We used to do weekly group chats, Is anyone interested in doing these please let me know what days and times work so we can plan accordingly
robynk Mar 6 · Comments: 15
LLLounge6983
Well our search has still come up empty. We are still searching for that special someone. Surely there is someone out there!! Are you the one?
LLLounge6983 Feb 25 · Comments: 2
SweetSamMarie
Hi I don't come on here much but I'm still single and looking
SweetSamMarie Feb 15 · Comments: 1
txcouple1967
we are back
txcouple1967 Jan 25 · Comments: 6
Chris
We would love to know, If you had one thing that you really wanted to see or one function you really wanted, What would you want to add to sisterwives.us
Chris Jan 24 · Comments: 6
PolyGirl78
Just like its hard finding a sw....it's very tough finding a couple that is truly ready for this.
PolyGirl78 Jan 15 · Comments: 9 · Tags: unicorn
KelsonFamily
Dual monogamy comes in a couple of well-known forms. First up there’s the monogamous marriage and the other one in the affair. Then there’s the dual monogamy so frequently misunderstood as polygyny. Both these have incredible similarities and I’m certain my adult audience can use this brief blog post to launch into a more comprehensive list. Dual monogamy in the affair scenario is when the husband has two (or even more) women in his life but they are completely separate and the mistress cares for herself (mostly) and has him to herself on a very limited basis. Dual monogamy in the mind of many considering the polygyny marriage choice is where the second wife comes in with a list of demands which demonstrates more that she wants a good man on her terms other than a woman looking to “join a family”. The man sees polygyny as a means of having other women but not included within his family structure. Frequently the new wife’s demands include absolute equal sharing of the husband in her separate living quarters. Often eager husbands, who want another woman, will agree to this. This is not joining a family, this is finding a man/woman perhaps one moral step up from having an affair. Dual living quarters and completely separated lives despite the fact of the common husband is dual monogamy. This arrangement will destroy the husband, I speak from experience; this will drive him crazy let alone drain his bank accounts. Husbands who agree to this will have lots of trouble in the flesh. Folks, our view is that polygyny is family in marriage, not convenient arrangements to have a good man or another woman without respect to the other family members. Polygyny must not destroy but build up and make more wonderful. Polygyny is not satellite monogamy with minimal connection to the “other” wife and his family. If you are considering polygyny you are considering joining a family. The items I’d like on top of the polygyny consideration list are these; What does joining a family really mean? Do I really want to join a family or have a man on my terms? (Joining a family means just that, coming in and participating in the family from breakfast to supper, every day, not just on “my day”, or worse still, in my living quarters). What can I bring to the existing wife or wives and any children he might have? How can I enrich his life as a good father and husband? What will this marriage/family structure demand I give up and am I willing to give anything up? Polygyny is not a series of deal breakers but seal makers. What is it about having equally divided time that removes the husband’s right to initiate intimacy or to be with the one on his mind? Granting him the right to have her on your day is not giving him the spiritual headship in his family, in fact, quite the opposite. Would I demand equal “sharing” of the husband if monogamy was in view? (That is, would I list the days I would be available to him and demand equal time with his golfing buddies or work demands?). What does taking another wife really mean? Do I really want to expand my family or have another woman on my terms? (Expanding the family does not mean taking more time away from it to cater for the new wife and her whims). What can me and my family offer another lady? How can I enrich the new wife’s life while at the same time continue to enrich my existing family members? How can I avoid diminishing my love for my first wife? What will polygyny demand I give up? Do I have the strength and commitment to make this work? How can I love and reassure all my wives constantly and not fall into the divided equal time sharing disaster. How do I lead when both are making contrary demands? Do I have quality leadership skills? Is my first marriage strong? If not polygyny will destroy it. I’m praying these points help everyone as they consider this incredibly enriching marriage option. We thank God every day that He brought us together. Brian from the Kelson Family
KelsonFamily Jan 6 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 2 · Tags: polygamy, polygyny, dual monogamy, divided time
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