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JamieNatalie
As a husband and wife, we’ve only had negative experiences online so far in finding anyone who is actually for real and genuine. It’s mostly scam artists who send us messages, followed by a few immature individuals looking for “fun” aka a fling/hookup, or they don’t have a grasp on reality and think life is about constant “traveling” instead of building a loving family and putting down roots.

So with the above being said, I’m going to make this very simple. To start off… If a person hasn't taken the time to read our profile and understand who we are as a family, and what we are seeking as far as sister wives, we will know because will check to see. Why would someone expect to chat if they haven’t even taken the time to know anything about who they are chatting with???! It doesn’t make any sense unless the person behind the account is a fake which is more than likely. If people are for real, they will actually view one another’s profile and blogs if applicable to find out as much about each other as possible. Assuming true marriage and family is what’s wanted.

Secondly, we are here for serious biblical plural marriage aka “polygyny” only! Not this mentality of “I’m checking out this lifestyle.” This is actually serious! For everyone involved, it has to be an “all in” and 100% dedication forever with a willingness to be humble and learn. If not, we aren’t interested because we cannot bring a weak link into our family. That messes up lives, family, and most importantly the children. Spelled out, proper plural marriage (polygyny) is a husband who is in multiple (3-5) marriages (one man and one wife per marriage) which means a different marriage bed and master bedroom per marriage/wife but we still live as a larger family unit in the same home. It is very much patriarch/matriarch based. That means there isn’t a single big marriage where we are all married together, but rather it means I am married multiple times (3-5) individual marriages and concurrently to each wife. So for each wife, it’s technically still monogamous. In our family, we are 100% heterosexual and seek a wholesome family unit based on this orientation only! We believe in plural marriage based on Christian principles/values, and will not participate with the family in any alternative perversions beyond what is correct and holy. Absolutely no polyamory, polyandry, or even polygamy in general. Only polygyny!

Those who are obsessed with “traveling” or think life must constantly be about “fun” all the time, will not be a good fit. Now understand, we aren’t sticklers. Of course we like to have fun as a family with quality time together, but we are also about building our ranch up and living self sufficient which requires focus, reality, and being responsible. Being a plural family is about everyone contributing their time and talents of their own free will toward the betterment of the family and homestead as a whole. It’s about selfless giving. It’s about teaching and home schooling children. It’s about wives treating each other as sisters who have each other’s back to share the load as mothers without jealousy and without an attitude of who can one-up the other. It’s about a husband who treats each wife with the upmost respect, compassion, love, and takes time to be romantic with each one. Him truly knowing each wife and her unique needs so she can be who and what she wants to be in life to her fullest potential.

On the physical side of things, this might sound harsh but I must be truthful up front for the benefit of everyone. We are looking for sister wives who aren’t into partying, clubbing, drinking, tattoos, piercings, etc. As a husband, I’m not looking for the fashion model types but rather a simple down to earth righteous woman x2-3 who takes care of her body in a healthy manner, is comfortable in her own skin, confident in herself, dresses modestly, doesn’t cake on excessive makeup, or doesn’t remove her womanly and physical maturity attributes by modifying her body with all the modern aesthetics trends and fads. Being a natural woman who isn’t fake, who can be free and confident to be herself, the way God created her is important for a healthy and happy life. For a husband to expect more or less of a woman is akin to saying that she isn’t good enough as she comes. As a family, we want the REAL you in every aspect.

We’re also looking for wives who are more naturally oriented when it comes to diet. That means farm/ranch raised non GMO, pesticide free produce that we raise as a family. Also, meat that we raise and other animal fats that are healthy and free of growth hormones, etc. We are into preserving food, freeze drying, etc. While we respect and believe in modern medicine for emergencies, we are not into vaccines in general or other therapeutics which mask symptoms. We believe in proper nutrition as a means to avoid morbidity and as the primary preventive. The body is amazing at healing when treated correctly. We especially do not subscribe to anything COVID related. We are in with reality and not blindly trusting of government or the official narrative. We believe in true liberty and freedom through constitutional principles as our founding fathers did.

We are looking for sister wives who are closer in age to Natalie (my wife) so there can be some relation in terms of life experience. A woman in her 20’s to early 30’s is the right fit for many reasons. There will be no such thing as a so called “1st, 2nd, 3rd, or 4th” wife in our household. Just the title of “wife” and equal for each woman. Each woman who is a wife is entitled to be a queen and mother in our home with the upmost respect and dignity in her own right. As a husband, I wish to have at least one or more children with each wife so the family can all be related through both blood and marriage. Having siblings from each mother makes each wife a mother to all and it links/bonds the family together.

Simply put, we are only interested in plural marriage if every adult is in it for the right reasons. That means being patient with one another, loving, giving, and quick to forgive with no tribal behavior or a breaking out into teams mentality within the family, no abuse, no manipulation, no jealousy, no divide and conquer, no coveting, and no complicating of situations. Neither husband nor wives can be a complex person, nor exclusively driven by either pure emotion or pure logic. All must have a good balance of both when needed in order to work a problem or deescalate a situation in a mature manner. This is a must. There is no room for drama or immaturity. Polygyny requires the upmost maturity and comprehension of reality.

Finally, we will not entertain any scammers or people who message us, causing us to get our hopes up, and then just disappear into thin air, aka stop answering texts, calls, etc. Its essential to be mature enough to just be honest up front and not lead people into thinking you are into them, only to ghost them and play games! Anything less than being completely open and honest disqualifies a person for monogamous marriage, let alone plural! Honestly, everyone should be adults and start talking by using real communication soon after meeting on-line and establishing trust. That means the texting needs to level off and be replaced by real voice and even visual communication. Real communication is essential for people who are serious about success in business, family, friends, and marriage. It’s the only way to read one other through tone of voice, body language, etc.

Sorry but not sorry to be so direct. It has come to the point where we must be assertive in what we are seeking and in our expectations. When enough people take advantage of your heart, it becomes necessary to go about things differently. We have almost 0% faith that there is anyone real when it comes to online dating. We feel beaten. We are here for the real thing. We pay to be a VIP on here at times so we can meet and communicate with with potential people, but as it turns out, many are either fake accounts, or a complete flake out in the end. It’s a complete waste of time!!! This is serious! Marriage and family is serious. Hearts are on the line and children are in the mix! Genuine people make themselves vulnerable in order to be honorable and honest with the goal in mind to find a family member in holy marriage. Playing mind games, seeking hookups, and scamming when someone is trying to be genuine and vulnerable by putting their heart on the chopping block is wrong, irresponsible, and grossly shows a lack of moral judgement and integrity on the part of the person taking advantage! It’s cruel!!!

We will keep our account here and check our messages often in the event that someone genuine and also in search for something real finds us. If we end up being compatible, that’s wonderful! But we will no longer actively seek for sister wives online. We will be transitioning to more of the in-person courting with only local people who are truly raised up in families who practice plural marriage, or are well familiar with the correct practice. It is painfully evident that true biblical plural marriage cannot be achieved in an online environment where too many people abuse and mock the practice of plural marriage with all the modern counterfeits, dishonesty, and immature sex perversions!
Chris

Where Can a Couple Seeking a Sister Wife Go?

  


Sister wives aren’t really a common subject for discussion for people outside of the polygamous scene, but thanks to various TV reality-shows and an expanding internet database, they have started to become more accepted as a phenomenon. Although the idea of having more than one wife might tempt some, when seeking a sister wife, one should understand that even though it might be a less than traditional arrangement, certain rules still apply. That is why one is recommended to do some serious research about what it means to have more than one wife and how to handle such a relationship.

 

What Are Sister Wives?

 

For most people involved in traditional marriages, the idea of multiple spouses might seem ridiculous, weird or even shameful to even discus. They might think that being in a monogamous relationship is the only way things should be done and any kind of alternative to this lifestyle is wrong. But what is for some normal might not mean the same thing for somebody else. Thinking back to the old days, arranged marriages were considered normal back then and parents deciding their children faiths since birth was widely accepted. In some parts of the world this is still the norm. But normality is relative to the individual and his background, and that is why judging somebody for doing things differently isn’t always the best course of action.

 

For instance, sister wives might seem like a difficult concept for many people to wrap their head around, but for others it makes perfect sense. In the world of polygamy this is a normal thing. It refers to at least two women sharing the same husband and acting as if they are sisters. There is nothing sordid or unnatural about it. Although it might offend some people and go against some civil laws that doesn’t mean that the act itself is bad by nature.

 

Sharing the same husband, and even the same household, has been a common happening in many cultures around the world. The man would marry multiple wives and even have children with more than one of them. The views would take care of the household together and even raise their children together. This was their “normal”. They would behave as any other family and the husband would take care to give each wife the same amount of attention.

 

Common Misconceptions About Sister Wives

 

One of the biggest misconceptions about a polygamous relationship is that it is nothing more than accepted cheating. Some might argue that as soon as there are more than two partners in a relationship, that relationship seizes to exist because there is nothing intimate anymore. This is not the case with polyamorous relations and especially with marriages with multiple spouses. All the people involved in such a relationship are consenting adults that understand that they need to communicate and share their love and affection for one another. Although the relationship usually involves sexual relations with multiple partners, that doesn’t mean that the people involved are cheating on one another.

 

Another myth about marriages involving more than two partners is that they usually break the family apart and end in divorce. Although some of these marriages does end in divorce, that isn’t a rule. Traditional marriages end in divorce as well, and usually even more frequently than polygamous ones. Whatever reasons people might have to enter or exit a relationship don’t necessarily have something to do with the nature of the relationship. Firstly, nobody is forcing anyone else to enter that relationship in the first place. Secondly, divorcing someone doesn’t necessarily mean that you cannot continue to have a relation with that person.

 

When people decide to get involved in polyamorous relations they usually do so after careful consideration and extensive talks with their partners. The whole idea of bringing other people into a relationship is to improve one another through shared experiences and to have somebody to help you and be beside you when need be. Aside from the sexual part of the relation, polyamorous relations are about communication, being open minded and trying to improve your understanding of others.

 

What to Know When Seeking A Sister Wife?

 


Anybody who is seeking a sister wife should understand couple of things before they rush to the altar. Firstly, anybody looking to bring another woman into a relationship should know that some major adjustments have to be made. A second wife isn’t just a live-in friend for your first wife, or a permission slip to have sex with somebody else. It means that you truly understand one another, are accepting of all your qualities and flaws and agree on sharing whatever life might throw at you. Bringing another woman into a marriage is a subject that should be discussed at length with your partner and everybody should understand what is about to happen.        

 

Another thing that is very important to understand when talking about multiple wives is that finding one isn’t as simple as placing an ad in a paper. Polygamy already has a sort of a bad reputation with the more traditionalistic crowd. You might need to do a bit of searching before you find somebody that wants the same things as you do. But, as in any marriage, finding your second significant other takes time and patience.

 

Where to Go When Seeking A Sister Wife?

 

Although the alternative lifestyle scene has been getting more and more mainstream acceptance, it isn’t really there yet. People still need some help if they want to meet like-minded men and women. Luckily for them, there are people working on providing them with the necessary tools to do so. People like the ones over at sisterwives.com, which are building a dedicated platform in order to build and bring together a community of people looking for something different. Just as Tinder or other dating apps, people that practice an alternative lifestyle have their options when it comes to meeting others just like them.

 

For the ones that prefer a more traditional approach to finding another “ball and chain” there are always the well-known meeting grounds. Special clubs or other meeting spots that are dedicated to enabling people to come together, without having to be in the public eye, and indulge in their passions.









Published By: Christopher Alesich & Robyn Alesich 

Matchmakers, Inc: Sisterwives.com 


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We probably should have named this one Choosy Lovers or If we can't be lovers. Polygamy is a topic of hit debate nowadays. Join us as we discuss the fascination with people having more than one lover. The good, bad, and ugly. Is it selfish? Is it custom? Is it being open and honest? Is this what faithful is? We will have special guests from www.sisterwives.com on to speak to us about the concept and construct of how polygamy works.

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