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JamieNatalie
As a husband and wife, we’ve only had negative experiences online so far in finding anyone who is actually for real and genuine. It’s mostly scam artists who send us messages, followed by a few immature individuals looking for “fun” aka a fling/hookup, or they don’t have a grasp on reality and think life is about constant “traveling” instead of building a loving family and putting down roots.

So with the above being said, I’m going to make this very simple. To start off… If a person hasn't taken the time to read our profile and understand who we are as a family, and what we are seeking as far as sister wives, we will know because will check to see. Why would someone expect to chat if they haven’t even taken the time to know anything about who they are chatting with???! It doesn’t make any sense unless the person behind the account is a fake which is more than likely. If people are for real, they will actually view one another’s profile and blogs if applicable to find out as much about each other as possible. Assuming true marriage and family is what’s wanted.

Secondly, we are here for serious biblical plural marriage aka “polygyny” only! Not this mentality of “I’m checking out this lifestyle.” This is actually serious! For everyone involved, it has to be an “all in” and 100% dedication forever with a willingness to be humble and learn. If not, we aren’t interested because we cannot bring a weak link into our family. That messes up lives, family, and most importantly the children. Spelled out, proper plural marriage (polygyny) is a husband who is in multiple (3-5) marriages (one man and one wife per marriage) which means a different marriage bed and master bedroom per marriage/wife but we still live as a larger family unit in the same home. It is very much patriarch/matriarch based. That means there isn’t a single big marriage where we are all married together, but rather it means I am married multiple times (3-5) individual marriages and concurrently to each wife. So for each wife, it’s technically still monogamous. In our family, we are 100% heterosexual and seek a wholesome family unit based on this orientation only! We believe in plural marriage based on Christian principles/values, and will not participate with the family in any alternative perversions beyond what is correct and holy. Absolutely no polyamory, polyandry, or even polygamy in general. Only polygyny!

Those who are obsessed with “traveling” or think life must constantly be about “fun” all the time, will not be a good fit. Now understand, we aren’t sticklers. Of course we like to have fun as a family with quality time together, but we are also about building our ranch up and living self sufficient which requires focus, reality, and being responsible. Being a plural family is about everyone contributing their time and talents of their own free will toward the betterment of the family and homestead as a whole. It’s about selfless giving. It’s about teaching and home schooling children. It’s about wives treating each other as sisters who have each other’s back to share the load as mothers without jealousy and without an attitude of who can one-up the other. It’s about a husband who treats each wife with the upmost respect, compassion, love, and takes time to be romantic with each one. Him truly knowing each wife and her unique needs so she can be who and what she wants to be in life to her fullest potential.

On the physical side of things, this might sound harsh but I must be truthful up front for the benefit of everyone. We are looking for sister wives who aren’t into partying, clubbing, drinking, tattoos, piercings, etc. As a husband, I’m not looking for the fashion model types but rather a simple down to earth righteous woman x2-3 who takes care of her body in a healthy manner, is comfortable in her own skin, confident in herself, dresses modestly, doesn’t cake on excessive makeup, or doesn’t remove her womanly and physical maturity attributes by modifying her body with all the modern aesthetics trends and fads. Being a natural woman who isn’t fake, who can be free and confident to be herself, the way God created her is important for a healthy and happy life. For a husband to expect more or less of a woman is akin to saying that she isn’t good enough as she comes. As a family, we want the REAL you in every aspect.

We’re also looking for wives who are more naturally oriented when it comes to diet. That means farm/ranch raised non GMO, pesticide free produce that we raise as a family. Also, meat that we raise and other animal fats that are healthy and free of growth hormones, etc. We are into preserving food, freeze drying, etc. While we respect and believe in modern medicine for emergencies, we are not into vaccines in general or other therapeutics which mask symptoms. We believe in proper nutrition as a means to avoid morbidity and as the primary preventive. The body is amazing at healing when treated correctly. We especially do not subscribe to anything COVID related. We are in with reality and not blindly trusting of government or the official narrative. We believe in true liberty and freedom through constitutional principles as our founding fathers did.

We are looking for sister wives who are closer in age to Natalie (my wife) so there can be some relation in terms of life experience. A woman in her 20’s to early 30’s is the right fit for many reasons. There will be no such thing as a so called “1st, 2nd, 3rd, or 4th” wife in our household. Just the title of “wife” and equal for each woman. Each woman who is a wife is entitled to be a queen and mother in our home with the upmost respect and dignity in her own right. As a husband, I wish to have at least one or more children with each wife so the family can all be related through both blood and marriage. Having siblings from each mother makes each wife a mother to all and it links/bonds the family together.

Simply put, we are only interested in plural marriage if every adult is in it for the right reasons. That means being patient with one another, loving, giving, and quick to forgive with no tribal behavior or a breaking out into teams mentality within the family, no abuse, no manipulation, no jealousy, no divide and conquer, no coveting, and no complicating of situations. Neither husband nor wives can be a complex person, nor exclusively driven by either pure emotion or pure logic. All must have a good balance of both when needed in order to work a problem or deescalate a situation in a mature manner. This is a must. There is no room for drama or immaturity. Polygyny requires the upmost maturity and comprehension of reality.

Finally, we will not entertain any scammers or people who message us, causing us to get our hopes up, and then just disappear into thin air, aka stop answering texts, calls, etc. Its essential to be mature enough to just be honest up front and not lead people into thinking you are into them, only to ghost them and play games! Anything less than being completely open and honest disqualifies a person for monogamous marriage, let alone plural! Honestly, everyone should be adults and start talking by using real communication soon after meeting on-line and establishing trust. That means the texting needs to level off and be replaced by real voice and even visual communication. Real communication is essential for people who are serious about success in business, family, friends, and marriage. It’s the only way to read one other through tone of voice, body language, etc.

Sorry but not sorry to be so direct. It has come to the point where we must be assertive in what we are seeking and in our expectations. When enough people take advantage of your heart, it becomes necessary to go about things differently. We have almost 0% faith that there is anyone real when it comes to online dating. We feel beaten. We are here for the real thing. We pay to be a VIP on here at times so we can meet and communicate with with potential people, but as it turns out, many are either fake accounts, or a complete flake out in the end. It’s a complete waste of time!!! This is serious! Marriage and family is serious. Hearts are on the line and children are in the mix! Genuine people make themselves vulnerable in order to be honorable and honest with the goal in mind to find a family member in holy marriage. Playing mind games, seeking hookups, and scamming when someone is trying to be genuine and vulnerable by putting their heart on the chopping block is wrong, irresponsible, and grossly shows a lack of moral judgement and integrity on the part of the person taking advantage! It’s cruel!!!

We will keep our account here and check our messages often in the event that someone genuine and also in search for something real finds us. If we end up being compatible, that’s wonderful! But we will no longer actively seek for sister wives online. We will be transitioning to more of the in-person courting with only local people who are truly raised up in families who practice plural marriage, or are well familiar with the correct practice. It is painfully evident that true biblical plural marriage cannot be achieved in an online environment where too many people abuse and mock the practice of plural marriage with all the modern counterfeits, dishonesty, and immature sex perversions!
Taylorfamilyempire
Relationships is based off of the word relate. In order to build something or see if each other can become involved, you have to be able to communicate. What’s the purpose of being on this site or any other site that involves wanting to be in a relationship, if you do not know how to prioritize your time? Meeting each other and talking on the phone gives the parties involved a basis of how life maybe in that persons company. It’s too many hurt people that hurts people on this site and many others. Know what you want and “pursue” what you want period! Life is not complicated but indecisiveness causes complications. We hope everyone happiness and love ❤️
PaterFamilias
To each their own and all...

That being said, one of the things that is jumping out to me a fair amount is just how many profiles demonstrate that several people are here looking for a good time, for new partners for sexual liaison or seeing the plural marriage pop culture boom and thinking it would be some kind of yolo adventure and that it might be cool for a while. That is what I see in the single women's profiles. In some of the couples profiles however it is far more of the predatory to desperate spectrum and I do not even slightly wonder at the fact that many are mystified by the lack of any response. In other couples profiles you will see the it is all about the ego stroke for the man equation being played out.

At the end of the day, personally I don't particularly care about being perceived as judgemental when so many are approaching plural marriage for all the wrong reasons. All that it will end up with is games being played, hearts being broken and families pulled apart. 

Plural marriage is first and foremost a marriage. It is about love, permanence, giving each other support and the bonds of family. Plural marriage is not about jumping on the latest fad, it is not about your sexual fantasies or pumping up your ego. 


Yeah yeah... standing on my soap box and preaching to an empty room. I know. Lame and pointless. It is frustrating though to browse through the site and see a handful of those who clearly take the idea of polygyny seriously and who are seeking their family or their new wife that are clearly having to wade through a sea of those who might be more suited to plenty of fish or some other hookup app. 


This is supposed to be about love and family not being part of a fad.



PaterFamilias Feb 21 '19 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 6 · Tags: family, familynotfad, notabouthookups
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