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I awake from my slumber deep

Pulse quickening

Blood thickening

Restraints from days gone by chafe

Anchored to toil; lack of sleep

Resisting time to keep them safe

 

Whirring thoughts come back to life

New elevator music plays

Commitments engage; unsheathed knife

Heart ember glows

Vent system blows

Smoldering passion becomes a blaze

 

Producing sounds of snapping ropes

Courage slices

Slothful vices

Willpower prevails against the clock

I don the day’s armor, gird with hopes

Feet set firmly upon this Rock

 

Gathering morsels of stable fuels

I fill my lungs with fresh ambition

Pockets and sacks with trusty tools

Cold machines

Backlit screens

Embrace the challenge of the mission

 

Putting out fires and filling cups

Strengthened muscle

Daily bustle

Inspiring others and crafting thoughts

Feeding birds and watering turnips

Cooking love in boiling pots

 

Patching up holes and building bridges

Chastening children to stay in form

Conduits, lights, fans and fridges

Sharpening skills

Picking up spills

Maintenance of a healthy norm

 

I reach the end of journeyed day

Remember blessing, and thankful, pray

Basking in joy and purpose found

Exemplify peace and order all around

Firmly planted roots will stay

Treasure in heaven will abound

And myself a moment, if I may

Cry tears in song

Teach right from wrong

And bring your willing heart along

As I write my story through text, scene and sound

Hi I am Joshua. I just wanted to reach out and invite anyone who wants someone to talk to to hit me up. We can share experiences and grievances. We can chat about life or about nothing is up to you. Single, married couple, Would love to hear from you!

Relationships is based off of the word relate. In order to build something or see if each other can become involved, you have to be able to communicate. What’s the purpose of being on this site or any other site that involves wanting to be in a relationship, if you do not know how to prioritize your time? Meeting each other and talking on the phone gives the parties involved a basis of how life maybe in that persons company. It’s too many hurt people that hurts people on this site and many others. Know what you want and “pursue” what you want period! Life is not complicated but indecisiveness causes complications. We hope everyone happiness and love ❤️

To each their own and all...

That being said, one of the things that is jumping out to me a fair amount is just how many profiles demonstrate that several people are here looking for a good time, for new partners for sexual liaison or seeing the plural marriage pop culture boom and thinking it would be some kind of yolo adventure and that it might be cool for a while. That is what I see in the single women's profiles. In some of the couples profiles however it is far more of the predatory to desperate spectrum and I do not even slightly wonder at the fact that many are mystified by the lack of any response. In other couples profiles you will see the it is all about the ego stroke for the man equation being played out.

At the end of the day, personally I don't particularly care about being perceived as judgemental when so many are approaching plural marriage for all the wrong reasons. All that it will end up with is games being played, hearts being broken and families pulled apart. 

Plural marriage is first and foremost a marriage. It is about love, permanence, giving each other support and the bonds of family. Plural marriage is not about jumping on the latest fad, it is not about your sexual fantasies or pumping up your ego. 

Yeah yeah... standing on my soap box and preaching to an empty room. I know. Lame and pointless. It is frustrating though to browse through the site and see a handful of those who clearly take the idea of polygyny seriously and who are seeking their family or their new wife that are clearly having to wade through a sea of those who might be more suited to plenty of fish or some other hookup app. 

This is supposed to be about love and family not being part of a fad.