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hi there everyone.

i'm going to try to share a little about me on this blog, so you all can gain a better understanding of who i am, my past, and why it's lead me to be the person i am now and my desire to be a sister wife.

I'll try to write a little each day in an ongoing way, but let me start by saying a grew up in a very liberal and highly educated household. I love my parents deeply. They raised me in the things they believed, which were things like compassion for those less fortunate, empathy, and honesty.  They are feminists and also more left-learning, but they never demanded I be so as well.  They encouraged me to keep core values of love and faith, but to allow them to manifest however my beliefs evolved.

As it became clear to me, as i tried hard to fit in as a hair-under-the-armpits feminist that it just wasn't for me, they supported my decisions to become more involved in the christian church, to seek strong men who set the tone for me and our relationship, to be more conservative in my politics, and eventually to find my journey here, where i hope to find a loving Husband and His alpha wives where i can serve in a beta role. While they are proud of my career and support me, i don't think this is where they anticipated their daughter ending up.  But they love and support what i choose to be. And what i choose to be is a subservient and devoted wife to a King who can ensure my role is cherished but also i doing things in my proper place, at the feet of the Man i'm devoted to.

I need some advice, what’s the best way to bet for a Queen to add to our family how can jealousy be elevated?

Why is it so hard to find a woman who is serious about joining our family. So many times we have came across fakes and spam bots. were is the lady for us.

Why is it so hard to find a woman who is serious about joining our family. So many times we have came across fakes and spam bots. were is the lady for us.

Websites like this gives us the opportunity to build networks and relationships with people who are like minded with us. It is understood that we are here to find a match first and foremost, but we also have an opportunity to build networks and give support to each other. Don't be afraid to reach out to someone just to say hi, how is your search going? Platonic friendships here can also go a far way and lead to powerful relationships. 

As I look at the animals with the closest DNA and realise they all reject monogamy, then I look at most creatures in nature and even plants and realise that polygamy is the preference of nature, I feel blessed to be pursuing something so amazing. Then I looked at history and realised that most human societies practiced polygyny; I feel for sure that this is the right way. So many people in monogamy cheat and have secret affairs or flirting episodes (when they are already in a committed relationships) that it makes me realise that as the desire for polygamy grows in North America; we have an opportunity to create something special and beautiful. Polygamy would allow us to fix those parts of relationships that monogamy consistently lets us down. We have the opportunity to build better families, better man and woman dynamics, better understanding of sexuality and functionality. We would have less families experiencing dysfunctions and breaking up. There would be a lot of pains that could be avoided. As polygamy grows in this new world; we have the chance to live better lives. Let us make use of this current opportunity. 

how much can u love two people at the same time? depends on how much love you receive back i suppose. i love my girlfriend more than anything. i want someone to help me love her as much as she loves me which i know is more and i still have not figured out how she does

In this time of uncertainty; My wife and I are wishing all of you safety and freedom from sickness and the Coronavirus. This polygamy community is important to us and we want you all to be well in this time. Stay safe everyone. 

Hey all. Am new to this site and just trying to figure things out on here. If you have any ideas, recommendations or whatever. Let me know. Accepting of all. Just need some new friends who will accept me. Thanks, enjoy your day☺

So researchers and scientists admit that humans are the only ones that enforces mandatory monogamy. But we also have to understand that for thousands of years before enforced monogamy, human societies mostly practice polygamy, and the little that didn't was not opposed to polygamy and would do it if they got the chance. Most people today would not understand how to fully see monogamy as "wrong". So what do I mean by wrong? Is it wrong if you are in a monogamy relationship? No, that would be silly of me to say. What I mean is that monogamy is not nature's way, and as I stated in my last blog scientists are now finding out that even animals that they believed were fully monogamists are turning out to be the opposite of that. I think we get confused when we follow the model of  human societies, which consistently changes not because nature wants it changed, but because we keep interfering with the way nature has life.  As a husband, father and polygynous man, my life and the life of my family gets better in polygyny, we have seen our happiness increased a 100 times more because when we look at nature and say that's how it is done and not by man's philosophy or changes in social structures (which often times brings pain and destruction), then life gets better. I think we are also afraid because we are scared of the unknown. We don't want to know that polygamy really should be what we should accept, we want to know that we can have the option of falling back on monogamy. My family  realises that is moving backwards and accepting the same failures. As a monogamist people said I had a great relationship with my wife, when they saw that it got even better with polygamy they were like " I have to try polygamy". Monogamy puts unfair burden on one person. Nature built that to spread out, that's how kind nature is to us. It's not just the unfair burden to bare children; cause these days people only want few, but it's the unfair burden of even the humongous task of raising only a few, especially in today's society. The unfair burden to say this person bares all my emotional struggles, no sister wife to turn to, friends are not really part of our inner core.  Plus only your inner core family really understands and feel my interest is in this and I can make a better decision than someone looking in. Everybody these days saying they don't want to get married, my kids at school saying their elementary friends saying they don't want to marry cause monogamous couples scare them, it's all falling apart, monogamy has run it's course and time to bring back polygamy. I end with what one young lady said to me a few years ago "Monogamy clearly is not working, what's not natural cannot stand for long"