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Not many want to metamorphosize! Even fewer realize that this path demands it!

I don’t care how ready you think you are, when someone finally comes along that actually has the potential to fit in your family it creates labor pains in every one of the parties involved.

Wives that are previously reserved but accepting of poly have to re-examine their trust in their husbands judgement and commitment to them and the family. That’s not a poly thing, that’s a people thing. For example, a wife that’s totally ok with one particular lady joining the home, may be reserved initially about a different lady or completely resistant to another.
And don’t get me started on the wives that fit the bobblehead category. When their crucible hits, Katy bar the door!

Husbands that are totally convinced that they’ve got it figured out find out that understanding theory and a commitment to being the greatest husband is just the nose under the tent flap.

Prospects that think they know exactly what they want realize (maybe) that they really have no clear idea of how to make it happen even when they’ve found the “perfect” family! It reminds me of the neighbors dog chasing cars, he wouldn’t know how to drive it if he caught it!

The point is that the metamorphosis for everyone is a litmus test of IF you can succeed at poly for life.

And butterflies aren’t made overnight. . . .

My husband and I have spent our lives separate and together giving our all to make a difference in the world even if it’s only one person. We have a strong foundation and I will bet everything I own you would think I hit the lotto with my husband. We have been on our search for two years and we have so so many people waste our time, catfish us, and play awful games with my emotions. Our daughter followed our career path and is moving into her own place in 2 weeks and has her first meaningful job following our path. All we want is to share our love compassion and life with the right woman. Yes, SHOCKER I am Bi and have been my whole life so this is not a religious thing it’s a personal (couple personals) choice. I wanted to share this individual in private conversations but I slept on it and we are who we are so I see no harm in giving basics. We are looking for a perm 3rd in our marriage. I am type A high strung very dominant and no not in a bad way, he is type I don’t even know and would leave in his underwear with two different socks if I didn’t stop him. Grew up in the system and he loves purely and genuinely and wants nothing more than to give back. I am on a pedastool that no one can reach me on and I have him to thank for that. We are looking to live as one big happy family cuddles and snuggles for movie night at home, someone for me to cook with (his nickname is sparky so it’s just me and you girl lol), some to shop and do nails and toes and hair with, BUT here is the twist we will expect completely separate sexual relationships for bonding and privacy and in our experience it really helps eliminating jealously.
Can anyone relate to the struggle????

Apparently, these world events are repetitive. From my parents time to ours, these seem to be speeding up up from one thing to another. All we can do is hug our love ones tighter and play with our kids.....lots and lots of sidewalk chalk really takes the edge off of things. Or if you can't do outdoor light life, Bob Ross will help in a pinch. I am getting tired of TV though.

What is a man's estate? his wife or wife's. Why ? because the very foundation of an estate is the earth and the woman is the natural earth that produce the natural heirs of the earth estate. Without the woman there is no continuation of the estate. Now look at this closely, if we don't operate from the foundation of an estate our natural heirs, children become the property of someone else's estate by default. What am I talking about, in the natural system of the estate children are the natural production, property and labor of the estate of which become the natural heir of the estate within a constant cycle of the continuation of life. This is the family bloodline estate. Mostly supper wealthy people are known by their family name because to truly be wealthy you must function as a family unit like the Rothschilds, Dupont's etc

Family it's passed time to get our house in order. Family must operate as it's own governing body or some other governing body will by default. It is time to clan up! and rebuild our family institution. Civilization is built around commerce and the fundamental aspects of commerce is labor to develop good and perform services which is used to trade or barter. The woman is the key figure that equates to the family estate or estates because she produce the natural value of family commodities called children. Just as stocks, children are investments that has to mature in order to cash in on their labor which is a system and cycle of family enterprise that is pass down from generation to generation. If we fail to organize our children to work for us they will work for others by default and contribute to the wealth of another family estate and not truly benefit from their own labor as the heirs of their natural family estate.

Thoughts from Minko Yakaba

Happy Victory Day for our Russian and Ukranian friends!

I'd just like to say hi to everyone here. As much as we believe polygamy is in itself a very good option according to biblical faith, in much the same way as monogamy, but to the next level, I must admit we are quite intimidated by the unknown and quite timid. 

However since we do hold this conviction yet are in a geographic location where polygamy is pretty much unheard of, especially Christian polygamy, I am looking for like minded friends. If God clearly leads us to someone one day, that would be a blessing, but honestly our primary objective right now is just to make a few more lasting friendships.

I'd love to hear the story of your faith journey and how polygamy became acceptable and desirable to you. If you are in a polygamous relationship I'd love to hear your story and how things are going. So whether you are a couple or man or woman, feel free to look me up and introduce yourselves.

This site along with certain tv shows is the foundation of the future of Sisterwifehood. I believe things will only get better for this beautiful life and its influence in society. When you meet people on this site it gives you an opportunity to change your perspectives on relationships and life. We are so influenced by society and often those influences are filled with unfair judgements. I am friends with many people who are on this site and who are no longer on the site and that is the beauty of all this; its not just about finding a wife or husband or partner. One of my best friends that came from this site is so sweet. She decided poly is not for her but we remained great friends. We talk everyday and we have encouraged each other during the covid 19. Make great friends everyone!

i have been an inactive member for some years now (actually) and i have not drawn much attention to my profile either. i am not particularly extroverted for one ... the poly community is fickle for another, i know it well, as i am not new to the poly experience. that said, i feel like i am new to the site; i think i started as a paid member around the beginning of this month. 

judging by whether or not i am able to connect with people, obviously, determines whether or not i remain as a paid member ... i expected to be having lots of inviting and intelligent conversation ... in fact i came here looking for consensual relations, to build my family and to enlighten anyone that i can as per my experience, study and perspectives ...

so then, using my subscription and taking a forward step towards meeting people, seems like a good idea to me ...  

Fall in love with the process of being strict with who you allow in your life. You must be very selective with who you choose to give access to. The energy you take in says a lot about how you will feel, how you will think and who you will become.

I retired from dealing with fake versions of people. I only want your authentic self, nomater how dark or deep it is. I dont expect perfect from myself or you, but I do expect real, I do expect honest.

To ones moving for a poly family, Sometimes, moving gives you the total freedom and fresh start you deserve. 

Dear (Brian)