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As I look at the animals with the closest DNA and realise they all reject monogamy, then I look at most creatures in nature and even plants and realise that polygamy is the preference of nature, I feel blessed to be pursuing something so amazing. Then I looked at history and realised that most human societies practiced polygyny; I feel for sure that this is the right way. So many people in monogamy cheat and have secret affairs or flirting episodes (when they are already in a committed relationships) that it makes me realise that as the desire for polygamy grows in North America; we have an opportunity to create something special and beautiful. Polygamy would allow us to fix those parts of relationships that monogamy consistently lets us down. We have the opportunity to build better families, better man and woman dynamics, better understanding of sexuality and functionality. We would have less families experiencing dysfunctions and breaking up. There would be a lot of pains that could be avoided. As polygamy grows in this new world; we have the chance to live better lives. Let us make use of this current opportunity. 

how much can u love two people at the same time? depends on how much love you receive back i suppose. i love my girlfriend more than anything. i want someone to help me love her as much as she loves me which i know is more and i still have not figured out how she does

We've started the process of looking for another wife to add to the family.  The last one as the concensus is that four is a perfect number.

So far we've started talking to three different ladies with the typical results.  Two fakes/flakes/scammers, one princess.  0 for 3.

We tend to be practical (rural farm family) and, since we have been thru the process a few times before, have gotten pretty good at spotting the fakes, flakes, frauds, scammers and con artists.

The first (not from here, Brittany) wanted assurances and $2000 per month guaranteed income, paid apartment (living in a suite in the farmhouse not good enough), separate phone (not part of family plan), car, etc.  In other words a paid mistress.  I'm not going to repeat the wives comments....

The second and third were the typical damsels in distress.  These types always have horrible stories about their horrible lives.  So much so that they have gotten to be 'over the top' - you'd think they were auditioning for Springer.  And, they almost always say 'I'm not looking to be rescued'.  What they all  seem to have in common is that they want to go slow (not a problem) and have all sorts of things that keep them from being able to actually relocate or consider relocating soon.  Times tend to vary but they are always looking at 3 to 9 months.  They don't like talking to the wives - independently or as a group, but will always chat up and often get a bit risque with me.  Then, when they realize that 1) we are REAL, 2) we compare notes, 3) they will have to interact with all of us, 4) we won't 'help them' with bills etc. while they are dithering, 5) want to verify their existence thru other means, 6) ask point on questions about leases, debt, family ties, stuff to be moved, etc., they ghost and block.

Both #2 and 3 were from here. H & J.

I'm not sure why these folks seem to pop up in poly so much.  But they do...  they seem to be a very active bunch, and put in quite the effort.

Anyway, we are here for the long haul.  We will succeed eventually - despite the catfishing cretins.  And we will have tons of fun identifying the chaff.

In this time of uncertainty; My wife and I are wishing all of you safety and freedom from sickness and the Coronavirus. This polygamy community is important to us and we want you all to be well in this time. Stay safe everyone. 

Hey all. Am new to this site and just trying to figure things out on here. If you have any ideas, recommendations or whatever. Let me know. Accepting of all. Just need some new friends who will accept me. Thanks, enjoy your day☺

So researchers and scientists admit that humans are the only ones that enforces mandatory monogamy. But we also have to understand that for thousands of years before enforced monogamy, human societies mostly practice polygamy, and the little that didn't was not opposed to polygamy and would do it if they got the chance. Most people today would not understand how to fully see monogamy as "wrong". So what do I mean by wrong? Is it wrong if you are in a monogamy relationship? No, that would be silly of me to say. What I mean is that monogamy is not nature's way, and as I stated in my last blog scientists are now finding out that even animals that they believed were fully monogamists are turning out to be the opposite of that. I think we get confused when we follow the model of  human societies, which consistently changes not because nature wants it changed, but because we keep interfering with the way nature has life.  As a husband, father and polygynous man, my life and the life of my family gets better in polygyny, we have seen our happiness increased a 100 times more because when we look at nature and say that's how it is done and not by man's philosophy or changes in social structures (which often times brings pain and destruction), then life gets better. I think we are also afraid because we are scared of the unknown. We don't want to know that polygamy really should be what we should accept, we want to know that we can have the option of falling back on monogamy. My family  realises that is moving backwards and accepting the same failures. As a monogamist people said I had a great relationship with my wife, when they saw that it got even better with polygamy they were like " I have to try polygamy". Monogamy puts unfair burden on one person. Nature built that to spread out, that's how kind nature is to us. It's not just the unfair burden to bare children; cause these days people only want few, but it's the unfair burden of even the humongous task of raising only a few, especially in today's society. The unfair burden to say this person bares all my emotional struggles, no sister wife to turn to, friends are not really part of our inner core.  Plus only your inner core family really understands and feel my interest is in this and I can make a better decision than someone looking in. Everybody these days saying they don't want to get married, my kids at school saying their elementary friends saying they don't want to marry cause monogamous couples scare them, it's all falling apart, monogamy has run it's course and time to bring back polygamy. I end with what one young lady said to me a few years ago "Monogamy clearly is not working, what's not natural cannot stand for long"  

Hello, my husband and I are together since 2018 we are a real and loyal family. We wanna add to our family not only another woman, we wanna add a friend and partner another member of out family.We don't have kids yet but we want a person with no kids becuase we have plans to travel and do things that sometimes is not possible do it with kids. Also the person need to be economicamente establish, We have a good jobs and we like to be drama free. We like to have fun but we don't smoke and we drink only social. Sorry for my spelling or my writing but English is not my first language am actually Spanish. I hope this will be the side we can fine that person. 

Okay for those that love breakfast,  let's have debate.  Which breakfast is the best? 

A)  Poptart 

B) Cereal

C) Oatmeal 

D) Sausages/Bacon and eggs

It's great to have a site like this. Let us all keep supporting it because this is the first stage of socialization and normalization. Monogamy as law came as force upon the world just like slavery, forced not a choice. Over 90% of nature shows polygamy, the rest is cheating and animals that stay for short while. They often say the fox and wolf and some others are monogamous, many researchers state that this is incorrect as many of these male animals are territorial; which means they mate with other females that come into their territory. Polygamy was the choice of many human society for thousands of years until Rome and Christianity force it unnaturally upon the world. The bible even agrees with polygamy and Christians today fight it. So I know many of us here are excited about what you think is the newest lifestyle and all but this is not new and in a lot of ways it is not even to be considered old, but rather plain and simply the way of the earth! The way nature says it should be. 

Hello, I am new to this site. I am a straight white female?  Looking for a loving white couple already established who is willing to accept me for who I am. I have been thinking about being a sister wife for a couple years now. I am basically a happy person, comfortable with myself... yet feel like your love is my missing link... Would appreciate some advise from others. Thank you