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I get very discouraged the longer we've been actively seeking (6-7 years). In the beginning, we knew we had found the absolute dream. She was shipped to Kuwait for a year and came back in one piece. Sadly she was killed in a training exercise not a month later. We still have a hard time with that separately.

Since then we have dealt with dishonesty, lack of chemistry, differing views on raising children, ghosting, aspirations that needed to be chased, and outright psychopaths. We are exhausted but we know this is where our family is supposed to be. We want the stability for our children, the extra love. We want to share everything with someone. We aren't unethical "unicorn hunters". We're too old to be risking one night stands anymore, atleast on a regular basis. 

My dilemma is how do we find this wonderful person? How do we find someone who wants what we want? I am honest from the get-go and yet we still have a miscommunication along the way. I am hoping for a resolution soon, to make someone happy with us.

Thank you for listening to my rant. I appreciate it.

Its great to see consistent new faces on this site. That means the movement is alive and well. Plural relationships are the best...simply the best. In plural relationships we get a chance to work as a team. Teamwork...true teamwork is not a strength of monogamous relationships. Looking forward to seeing plural relationships dominating the future of our world!

Apparently, these world events are repetitive. From my parents time to ours, these seem to be speeding up up from one thing to another. All we can do is hug our love ones tighter and play with our kids.....lots and lots of sidewalk chalk really takes the edge off of things. Or if you can't do outdoor light life, Bob Ross will help in a pinch. I am getting tired of TV though.

What is a man's estate? his wife or wife's. Why ? because the very foundation of an estate is the earth and the woman is the natural earth that produce the natural heirs of the earth estate. Without the woman there is no continuation of the estate. Now look at this closely, if we don't operate from the foundation of an estate our natural heirs, children become the property of someone else's estate by default. What am I talking about, in the natural system of the estate children are the natural production, property and labor of the estate of which become the natural heir of the estate within a constant cycle of the continuation of life. This is the family bloodline estate. Mostly supper wealthy people are known by their family name because to truly be wealthy you must function as a family unit like the Rothschilds, Dupont's etc

Family it's passed time to get our house in order. Family must operate as it's own governing body or some other governing body will by default. It is time to clan up! and rebuild our family institution. Civilization is built around commerce and the fundamental aspects of commerce is labor to develop good and perform services which is used to trade or barter. The woman is the key figure that equates to the family estate or estates because she produce the natural value of family commodities called children. Just as stocks, children are investments that has to mature in order to cash in on their labor which is a system and cycle of family enterprise that is pass down from generation to generation. If we fail to organize our children to work for us they will work for others by default and contribute to the wealth of another family estate and not truly benefit from their own labor as the heirs of their natural family estate.

Thoughts from Minko Yakaba

I'd just like to say hi to everyone here. As much as we believe polygamy is in itself a very good option according to biblical faith, in much the same way as monogamy, but to the next level, I must admit we are quite intimidated by the unknown and quite timid. 

However since we do hold this conviction yet are in a geographic location where polygamy is pretty much unheard of, especially Christian polygamy, I am looking for like minded friends. If God clearly leads us to someone one day, that would be a blessing, but honestly our primary objective right now is just to make a few more lasting friendships.

I'd love to hear the story of your faith journey and how polygamy became acceptable and desirable to you. If you are in a polygamous relationship I'd love to hear your story and how things are going. So whether you are a couple or man or woman, feel free to look me up and introduce yourselves.

This site along with certain tv shows is the foundation of the future of Sisterwifehood. I believe things will only get better for this beautiful life and its influence in society. When you meet people on this site it gives you an opportunity to change your perspectives on relationships and life. We are so influenced by society and often those influences are filled with unfair judgements. I am friends with many people who are on this site and who are no longer on the site and that is the beauty of all this; its not just about finding a wife or husband or partner. One of my best friends that came from this site is so sweet. She decided poly is not for her but we remained great friends. We talk everyday and we have encouraged each other during the covid 19. Make great friends everyone!

i have been an inactive member for some years now (actually) and i have not drawn much attention to my profile either. i am not particularly extroverted for one ... the poly community is fickle for another, i know it well, as i am not new to the poly experience. that said, i feel like i am new to the site; i think i started as a paid member around the beginning of this month. 

judging by whether or not i am able to connect with people, obviously, determines whether or not i remain as a paid member ... i expected to be having lots of inviting and intelligent conversation ... in fact i came here looking for consensual relations, to build my family and to enlighten anyone that i can as per my experience, study and perspectives ...

so then, using my subscription and taking a forward step towards meeting people, seems like a good idea to me ...  

Fall in love with the process of being strict with who you allow in your life. You must be very selective with who you choose to give access to. The energy you take in says a lot about how you will feel, how you will think and who you will become.

I retired from dealing with fake versions of people. I only want your authentic self, nomater how dark or deep it is. I dont expect perfect from myself or you, but I do expect real, I do expect honest.

To ones moving for a poly family, Sometimes, moving gives you the total freedom and fresh start you deserve. 

Dear (Brian)

 Seduction was on my mind today. Is it the same for men and wemon? To seduce in its basic definition is to attract powerfully. Our understanding and subsequent caring out of this seduction usually interacts with sex in some shape or form. We are taught that in order to utilize seduction effectively, actions that are rooted in sexuality must be weaponized to achieve a goal. Usually that goal is realized by getting another human being to comply with our wishes by motivating them sexually , be it sincere or not. Seduction isnt bad , I'm just reflecting on what we call in to make it happen. 

I believe the ability to weaponize sexuality with is auxiliary components like good looks is like a privilege in a way. And since many privileges are advantages not shared by all. In a society that tries it's best to make us feel bad about ourselves and our life style choices, appearances , status and personality.  The ability to feel you are ABLE to seduce is lost to many.

I think that attracting powerfully is more than sex and that if we had a heavier for who we are as people , feeling like one has the ability to seduce would fall more so in the nuances of the human experience .

Would you wrather call on the fleeting aspects of your existence or with who you are as a person.

Your amazing,  I'm amazing. Let's all be swayed by those who are dope, kind and are trying to make the world brighter

Brian (Dear)