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One of the things we like doing on our days off is our mini road trips along the river or through the foothills. We enjoy our regular places, stopping off here and there, but most of all, the different people we come across and the great conversations we get to have. Since it’s been raining or snowing with the roads blocked off, that’s been a no-go for the usual places.

It’s the little community of folks that we miss the most. Although, it’s also drawn us to check out new places which has brought us into new experiences! These mini getaways are not taken for granted. With all there is to see and do, we take time to stop and just be present in the moment. It’s been amazing.

And while we are open to seeing if we connect with someone specifically on this site, in all honesty, we are not holding our breath on that. It is a challenge to figure out the scammers, fakes and non-serious individuals. What we do appreciate is connecting with like minded people who have shared their insights and experiences in the poly community. Just reading through posts of those who’ve been willing to put it out there and give others a heads up, it has prevented us from negative outcomes. We have met great people, made some friends, and look forward to more friendships ahead!

Healthy masculinity is important in all types of relationships, including polyamorous ones. In polyamorous relationships, healthy masculinity is essential for maintaining open communication, respecting boundaries, and building trust.

One aspect of healthy masculinity in polyamory is the ability to communicate openly and honestly with partners. This means being able to express one's needs and desires while also listening to and respecting the needs and desires of others. Communication is key in polyamorous relationships, and healthy masculinity involves being able to have difficult conversations and resolve conflicts in a constructive and respectful manner.

Another important aspect of healthy masculinity in polyamory is respecting boundaries. In a polyamorous relationship, each partner may have different boundaries and limits regarding physical intimacy, emotional connections, and time commitments. Healthy masculinity involves respecting these boundaries and not pressuring partners to do anything they are not comfortable with.

Trust is also a crucial component of healthy masculinity in polyamory. This means being reliable, accountable, and honest with partners. Men who practice healthy masculinity in polyamorous relationships understand that building trust takes time and effort, and they are committed to doing the work necessary to maintain the trust of their partners.

Finally, healthy masculinity in polyamory involves challenging toxic beliefs and behaviors. This can include challenging societal norms that promote possessiveness, jealousy, and competition among men. Men who practice healthy masculinity in polyamory are committed to creating a culture of respect and inclusivity where all partners feel valued and supported.

In conclusion, healthy masculinity in polyamory involves open communication, respecting boundaries, building trust, and challenging toxic beliefs and behaviors. By cultivating these qualities, men can become better partners in polyamorous relationships and contribute to a more positive and respectful culture.

The average person sees a dude with a Lambo.

Do they think:

"This man followed every rule. School, College, Uni. He did what he was told by society. Good for him!"

or

"This man broke all the rules! I could never afford that. How can you achieve so much without cheating or manipulating others? How do I look compared to him?"

When you hear someone hate on you as a man, or shame you as a woman, for living an abundant life, what do you really think is going through their mind?

"He must be manipulating these poor women! They only want his money!"

Or

"I could never have that life... I don't understand how that works.

People are MUCH more self absorbed than you think. 

They don't care about YOU, but rather how you make THEM feel...

When we can't "make sense" of something, can't wrap our minds around it... That is when we get frustrated and upset.

If people are not happy to see you thriving, it is because they are barely surviving. They are not living up to their egos. Because hate doesn't come from above.

I have found it VERY insightful to see who appreciates you, who's opinions you should value, and to know who sees you as a threat to their ego by just being honest in everything I do in life.

Don't associate with the hate.

Let the haters HATE while we CREATE!

If you have any stories about people not accepting your big family tell us how you overcame the situation. 

Hi I am Joshua. I just wanted to reach out and invite anyone who wants someone to talk to to hit me up. We can share experiences and grievances. We can chat about life or about nothing is up to you. Single, married couple, Would love to hear from you!

Asian couple here and looking for a female to connect with. Anyone here have any experience with this website? 

Can’t wait to find our sister wife to travel with us.  Two is fun, 3 is a party!  

I don't know how many here are interested in paranormal investigations, but my daughter and I sure are. I am going through footage from our trip to investigate the Trans-Allegheny Lunatic Asylum in Weston, WV. Just from the little bit on her phone, we caught what sounds like a "hey" and "Hi!" also some long drawn out sighs after my daughter said she was done for the night. When I started, still have a ways to go, to watch some of her video recording, she caught what looks like orbs and caught on video the necromancer saying the name and age of a possible spirit. So far, all is looking great that we caught some fantastic evidence! I can't wait to finish her recordings and then check out to see what I caught! I do know that I went through at least 4, maybe 5 of my fully charged batteries while there. With one draining almost immediately after I installed it! Can't wait and will update later!

Now that my husband and I have decided we'd love to add another love into our lives, I learned quite quickly this will be no easy task. Finding A creative that's vibrant & willing to actually talk seems to be the impossible. 

I am getting a lot of people that are not really on here seeking a real unity. I am at the point where I have done the research in poly and pro and cons and then figured out this is truly what I am seeking in my journey. I have done the mental work with my life coach as far as toxic past relationships and just self love and now can be able to love someone else. I want not only a husband that I am able to be fully submissive to but also have my sister wife that we are able to come together and love the same king and just pour our love not only into home but also into the family unit I just want peace and positive energy.

A friend here has been giving me some critiques from the single woman seeking point of view. 

Apparently I write too much when i send a multi paragraph introduction. I have no idea with the huge number of poly ie swinger hedonist types that are here vs woman seeking plural marriage, if it will make any difference. I guess I should limit myself to 3-4 lines and leave it be.

Will have to give that a try and see if it makes a difference. 

Would appreciate some feedback from the woman who read through the blogs about what sort of introduction gets their attention. Well, positive attention.