The elusive "throuple" from JupiterKamaya24's blog

I get very discouraged the longer we've been actively seeking (6-7 years). In the beginning, we knew we had found the absolute dream. She was shipped to Kuwait for a year and came back in one piece. Sadly she was killed in a training exercise not a month later. We still have a hard time with that separately.

Since then we have dealt with dishonesty, lack of chemistry, differing views on raising children, ghosting, aspirations that needed to be chased, and outright psychopaths. We are exhausted but we know this is where our family is supposed to be. We want the stability for our children, the extra love. We want to share everything with someone. We aren't unethical "unicorn hunters". We're too old to be risking one night stands anymore, atleast on a regular basis. 

My dilemma is how do we find this wonderful person? How do we find someone who wants what we want? I am honest from the get-go and yet we still have a miscommunication along the way. I am hoping for a resolution soon, to make someone happy with us.

Thank you for listening to my rant. I appreciate it.


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Polywifen
Sep 1
Triads are not usually 'found' they are made, by people who don't expect them, that's your problem right there. Don't be exhausted, just stop trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. Look for PEOPLE who you find special and let HER find the relationships she wants to have with each of you instead of insisting how they MUST feel or behave and you might find the right person for your family, rather than your fantasy. IMHO. N xTriads are not usually 'found' they are made, by people who don't expect them, that's your problem right there. Don't be exhausted, just stop trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. Look for PEOPL...See more
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