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 Seduction was on my mind today. Is it the same for men and wemon? To seduce in its basic definition is to attract powerfully. Our understanding and subsequent caring out of this seduction usually interacts with sex in some shape or form. We are taught that in order to utilize seduction effectively, actions that are rooted in sexuality must be weaponized to achieve a goal. Usually that goal is realized by getting another human being to comply with our wishes by motivating them sexually , be it sincere or not. Seduction isnt bad , I'm just reflecting on what we call in to make it happen. 


I believe the ability to weaponize sexuality with is auxiliary components like good looks is like a privilege in a way. And since many privileges are advantages not shared by all. In a society that tries it's best to make us feel bad about ourselves and our life style choices, appearances , status and personality.  The ability to feel you are ABLE to seduce is lost to many.


I think that attracting powerfully is more than sex and that if we had a heavier for who we are as people , feeling like one has the ability to seduce would fall more so in the nuances of the human experience .


Would you wrather call on the fleeting aspects of your existence or with who you are as a person.


Your amazing,  I'm amazing. Let's all be swayed by those who are dope, kind and are trying to make the world brighter


Brian (Dear)

Hi I'm  Brian, the Dear half of dear and Love. I'm uncertain what happened to my last introduction blogs but here we go again. I'm not sure where the nicknames came from but literally everyone knows us as that.


I'm certain love will post her own intro later


I'm 6'2 35year old bear of a man. I can talk about anything from astrophysics to child psychology to the perfect pokemon deck but I'm in finance by trade. I love 80s movies and black and white movies from like the 40s. Though i look quite intimidating, I'm very gental. I'm an anime gamer nerd daddy dom 3rd dan in judo


I've been told I'm not what someone would have expected in a dom. There are many misconceptions about BDSM and kink. I have no tattoos or piercings and I don't wear leather.  Primarily I'll be blogging about my experiences that brought me to BDSM and kink.  I claim no expertise only experience and what it means to be a daddy dom.


You will have to get through Love to talk to me until you connect enough. After all you sisters must get along. But I might say hi


TTFN

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