The fear that Monoagamy is "wrong" from LetsdoLove's blog

So researchers and scientists admit that humans are the only ones that enforces mandatory monogamy. But we also have to understand that for thousands of years before enforced monogamy, human societies mostly practice polygamy, and the little that didn't was not opposed to polygamy and would do it if they got the chance. Most people today would not understand how to fully see monogamy as "wrong". So what do I mean by wrong? Is it wrong if you are in a monogamy relationship? No, that would be silly of me to say. What I mean is that monogamy is not nature's way, and as I stated in my last blog scientists are now finding out that even animals that they believed were fully monogamists are turning out to be the opposite of that. I think we get confused when we follow the model of  human societies, which consistently changes not because nature wants it changed, but because we keep interfering with the way nature has life.  As a husband, father and polygynous man, my life and the life of my family gets better in polygyny, we have seen our happiness increased a 100 times more because when we look at nature and say that's how it is done and not by man's philosophy or changes in social structures (which often times brings pain and destruction), then life gets better. I think we are also afraid because we are scared of the unknown. We don't want to know that polygamy really should be what we should accept, we want to know that we can have the option of falling back on monogamy. My family  realises that is moving backwards and accepting the same failures. As a monogamist people said I had a great relationship with my wife, when they saw that it got even better with polygamy they were like " I have to try polygamy". Monogamy puts unfair burden on one person. Nature built that to spread out, that's how kind nature is to us. It's not just the unfair burden to bare children; cause these days people only want few, but it's the unfair burden of even the humongous task of raising only a few, especially in today's society. The unfair burden to say this person bares all my emotional struggles, no sister wife to turn to, friends are not really part of our inner core.  Plus only your inner core family really understands and feel my interest is in this and I can make a better decision than someone looking in. Everybody these days saying they don't want to get married, my kids at school saying their elementary friends saying they don't want to marry cause monogamous couples scare them, it's all falling apart, monogamy has run it's course and time to bring back polygamy. I end with what one young lady said to me a few years ago "Monogamy clearly is not working, what's not natural cannot stand for long"  

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