LetsdoLove's blog

Its great to see consistent new faces on this site. That means the movement is alive and well. Plural relationships are the best...simply the best. In plural relationships we get a chance to work as a team. Teamwork...true teamwork is not a strength of monogamous relationships. Looking forward to seeing plural relationships dominating the future of our world!
This site along with certain tv shows is the foundation of the future of Sisterwifehood. I believe things will only get better for this beautiful life and its influence in society. When you meet people on this site it gives you an opportunity to change your perspectives on relationships and life. We are so influenced by society and often those influences are filled with unfair judgements. I am friends with many people who are on this site and who are no longer on the site and that is the beauty of all this; its not just about finding a wife or husband or partner. One of my best friends that came from this site is so sweet. She decided poly is not for her but we remained great friends. We talk everyday and we have encouraged each other during the covid 19. Make great friends everyone!
Hello Everyone, hope you are all keeping safe during these uncertain times. Just wanted to briefly say a few words about community building and friendships with those who seek this similar life of polygamy. Polygamy is found more in nature than monogamy (which barely exist). This means nature has a reason why this life of polygamy is innate and effective, However, we have for thousands of years been influenced by many philosophies and social behaviours that might not aid in a polygamous life. Many times the women or men we meet on here just do not work out because of those philosophies and social behaviour.  Don't expect to always find someone quickly. Build a mental community. Build bonds with people who know that you like this life. Figure each other out and get to know ways in which you can create a new path from the many different paths you are all coming from. My wife and I came from different paths, and we are able to be fully united and free from arguments because we got to know each other's path and form a new path. Monogamous relationships sometimes are painful and a lot of that has to do with the influence of society. Society transforms us into what it wants and oftentimes that conflicts with nature. This brings the many complex problems relationships face today. Polygamy is a beautiful but nature strategic way of living. It can be powerful, it can be effective, but should be done with joy and patience as we learn this new/old and natural way of living. 
Websites like this gives us the opportunity to build networks and relationships with people who are like minded with us. It is understood that we are here to find a match first and foremost, but we also have an opportunity to build networks and give support to each other. Don't be afraid to reach out to someone just to say hi, how is your search going? Platonic friendships here can also go a far way and lead to powerful relationships. 
As I look at the animals with the closest DNA and realise they all reject monogamy, then I look at most creatures in nature and even plants and realise that polygamy is the preference of nature, I feel blessed to be pursuing something so amazing. Then I looked at history and realised that most human societies practiced polygyny; I feel for sure that this is the right way. So many people in monogamy cheat and have secret affairs or flirting episodes (when they are already in a committed relationships) that it makes me realise that as the desire for polygamy grows in North America; we have an opportunity to create something special and beautiful. Polygamy would allow us to fix those parts of relationships that monogamy consistently lets us down. We have the opportunity to build better families, better man and woman dynamics, better understanding of sexuality and functionality. We would have less families experiencing dysfunctions and breaking up. There would be a lot of pains that could be avoided. As polygamy grows in this new world; we have the chance to live better lives. Let us make use of this current opportunity. 
In this time of uncertainty; My wife and I are wishing all of you safety and freedom from sickness and the Coronavirus. This polygamy community is important to us and we want you all to be well in this time. Stay safe everyone. 
So researchers and scientists admit that humans are the only ones that enforces mandatory monogamy. But we also have to understand that for thousands of years before enforced monogamy, human societies mostly practice polygamy, and the little that didn't was not opposed to polygamy and would do it if they got the chance. Most people today would not understand how to fully see monogamy as "wrong". So what do I mean by wrong? Is it wrong if you are in a monogamy relationship? No, that would be silly of me to say. What I mean is that monogamy is not nature's way, and as I stated in my last blog scientists are now finding out that even animals that they believed were fully monogamists are turning out to be the opposite of that. I think we get confused when we follow the model of  human societies, which consistently changes not because nature wants it changed, but because we keep interfering with the way nature has life.  As a husband, father and polygynous man, my life and the life of my family gets better in polygyny, we have seen our happiness increased a 100 times more because when we look at nature and say that's how it is done and not by man's philosophy or changes in social structures (which often times brings pain and destruction), then life gets better. I think we are also afraid because we are scared of the unknown. We don't want to know that polygamy really should be what we should accept, we want to know that we can have the option of falling back on monogamy. My family  realises that is moving backwards and accepting the same failures. As a monogamist people said I had a great relationship with my wife, when they saw that it got even better with polygamy they were like " I have to try polygamy". Monogamy puts unfair burden on one person. Nature built that to spread out, that's how kind nature is to us. It's not just the unfair burden to bare children; cause these days people only want few, but it's the unfair burden of even the humongous task of raising only a few, especially in today's society. The unfair burden to say this person bares all my emotional struggles, no sister wife to turn to, friends are not really part of our inner core.  Plus only your inner core family really understands and feel my interest is in this and I can make a better decision than someone looking in. Everybody these days saying they don't want to get married, my kids at school saying their elementary friends saying they don't want to marry cause monogamous couples scare them, it's all falling apart, monogamy has run it's course and time to bring back polygamy. I end with what one young lady said to me a few years ago "Monogamy clearly is not working, what's not natural cannot stand for long"  
It's great to have a site like this. Let us all keep supporting it because this is the first stage of socialization and normalization. Monogamy as law came as force upon the world just like slavery, forced not a choice. Over 90% of nature shows polygamy, the rest is cheating and animals that stay for short while. They often say the fox and wolf and some others are monogamous, many researchers state that this is incorrect as many of these male animals are territorial; which means they mate with other females that come into their territory. Polygamy was the choice of many human society for thousands of years until Rome and Christianity force it unnaturally upon the world. The bible even agrees with polygamy and Christians today fight it. So I know many of us here are excited about what you think is the newest lifestyle and all but this is not new and in a lot of ways it is not even to be considered old, but rather plain and simply the way of the earth! The way nature says it should be. 
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