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Sooner86
Sooner86 Apr 29 '18
Curious if anyone is having success with finding someone? 


Are you finding that many of the women do not respond to messages or friend request?


My situation is a bit unique but I still think I am at the right place to search for what I am looking for.

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robynk
robynk Apr 29 '18
Sometimes this takes a while. A long while. But if your patient it will be worth it in the end.
EarleHeidiandMolly
EarleHeidiandMolly May 1 '18
It does take a long time. Dating is just the first step, too. Have a couple of weeks with everyone living together during a visit as a test run. The wait can be 10 years or more. The courting process can take a year after that. Just keep after it when you are able to fit it in.
Sooner86
Sooner86 May 1 '18
A long time!!! That is discouraging! 


donq2
donq2 May 9 '18
We have talked to a bunch of people and never nothing has come from it, we text back and forth and then it dies off. Seems like there a ton of couples here and we are looking for that sister wife, our problem i think is that we live in Michigan and not that many people are wanting to relocated to this state.


but don't give up, you never know when the right one will come alone.



Sooner86
Sooner86 May 9 '18
You are right, the number of couples here does far exceed the number of active single females!! Also, far too many inactive members to have to weed through.












AB6280
AB6280 May 9 '18
We had have the same issue, not too much contact, but honestly the ones we contacted allowed us to learn something new about ourselves, and about the way we approach things. Some ladies are here but are terrified and they just want to test the water, so they get scared and don't respond, some are not really buying the idea of a sisterwife so they pretend for a bit then when they see the husband is solid in his first marriage they flake out...some are looking for a couple to save them from their own lives and that is the worse kind.  You have to be a whole person before you join a couple.  


I feel what every is saying is true, patience and the right one will come along.  

donq2
donq2 Aug 11 '18
That is true you have to be comfortable and love yourself before you can love another or even two people, but also think that if you start a conversion with a couple and you find yourself not interested just be honest and say hey thank you but, not just don't answer or worse yet lead them on.


look at the show searching for a sister wife wonderful couple and they put in a lot time and effort to a lady and she didn't even get on the plane to meet them. it is very scary when your one person getting involved with a couple that is already married and has a life.


but you have to want this to do this, and yes you have to be very slow and easy and patience and honest with yourself that this is for you.

Swords17
Swords17 Aug 12 '18
We are having a lot of the same issues and it is very frustrating. Paying for this website and spending the time to read a profile then deciding to message someone .... only to end up finding out that the last time they were actually on here was a year or 2 ago. There are way too many inactive profiles on here and I dont even know if the single ones can even respond if they are not paying for this website so if that is the case then what good is it to even send a message if they cant respond and most dont even look at them. 
robynk
robynk Aug 15 '18
You have to remember that this life takes time sometimes alot, And these women get bombarded with messages its hard for them to answer all of them. Have patience there are alot of members that meet on here. stay strong in your searches it will happen when its the right time. 
ParadiseRanch
ParadiseRanch Aug 16 '18
My experience with this website is it borders on being scamish, as in they know they don't produce the single woman basis, so old profiles are kept online.  Do a search of single women right now, and you will scarcely find 20-30ish that are current, of those several have messaged us, once or twice and only when our membership was almost up, or was expired, then when you buy the membership back to answer their message, they literally never respond.

I have flagged 2 single, woman profiles on here, that have photos from a BOT that texted me photos that are on this site and another poly site, for a combined total of 4 profiles, 4 different locations, yet they keep these profiles up.


I have had much better success just using normal monogamy dating sites and just describing in detail what we are looking for.  The single woman that aren't looking for poly on these sites have been very nice and courteous if they aren't interested and we have several that are interested.


My experience and opinion.

donq2
donq2 Aug 28 '18
All sites are about the same in my opinion, i live in Michigan and a lot of times the wife and i will bring it up at parties if we feel comfortable but not a lot of women in my area  have these feelings or even want to talk about it. Granted we are an older couple and that could have something to do with it we always say age is just a number.


has anyone had any luck so far these few months would love to here those stories.


Don & Dawn

Mistic
Mistic Aug 28 '18
I was getting a lot of responses in the first month or so and messages were going well then it just died off. I forgot to cancel the auto renew so we are still on here for 3 more months but I don’t have any hope of finding someone
ParadiseRanch
ParadiseRanch Sep 4 '18
I just had a SW that literally has messaged us once a month for 2 months and nothing for about 3 weeks then just messaged us, this weekend....she stated each time, that she was interested in us....yet, only messaged once a month for 2-3months, LOL.  Its a joke.

These SingleWomen are either not interested, just on here to boost their ego's or something,I don't know.  I don't understand why they even bother...........or they are BOT's or its the website's own made up profiles to sort keep you interested and on the hook for the monthly fee.

My opinion.

robynk
robynk Sep 24 '18
Thanks for posting your thoughts and concerns, as I read this I am hearing alot of what you are feeling. Let me add that we moniter accounts as needed including single women accounts. We do verify accounts if your having an issue with what you think is a bot it would be great if you could Inform us of such so we can look Into this. We do not have "bots" on this site as we strive to keep the site spam free. However if you are experiencing someone you believe is please message us and we can look into this. We can't help you if you dont let us know we strive to have a positive experience and I know it takes a while. Most other sites have many fake people on them and when and if we find them here they are removed. You have to also remember that when women get online there are so many couples messaging them it gets overwhelming for them. We are the owners we are here all of the time working there are so many girls that message us that we don't respond to because we're working here. We built this site when there wasn't another poly site as a side project, we have casted many shows dealing with poly and I'll be the first to tell you if there is someone here with the wrong intentions or a bot they are or will be removed from the platform. If you have any issues please don't hesitate to message us. We want you all to succeed in a match
Lionheat330
Lionheat330 Oct 3 '18
I just signed up today. Looks as if a majority of profiles here are couples. I'm sure the women who come here alone are getting flooded with tacky roses and diamond gifts. lol
DakotaRT
DakotaRT Oct 15 '18

Quote from Sooner86 You are right, the number of couples here does far exceed the number of active single females!! Also, far too many inactive members to have to weed through.












I agree. 
DakotaRT
DakotaRT Oct 15 '18

Quote from Lionheat330 I just signed up today. Looks as if a majority of profiles here are couples. I'm sure the women who come here alone are getting flooded with tacky roses and diamond gifts. lol
Lol
From2to3
From2to3 Mar 13
We are brand new to this site. So far, we love it. Most of the issues I have seen described above can be avoided with simple filters. Of course I would have no way of knowing if those are new or not, but glad they are in place. (At least on  the site) I do have a few questions though. 

First, why is there no options to describe sexuality? I understand that there are strong religious connotations to polygamy, many of which do nott prescribe to same gender "interactions", however, wouldn't this lesson the individual bombardment woman face and in general save everyone time? 

Also, considering that we found this site accidentally, can anything be done about advertising?  two parts here (and this may make me unpopular) but calling it sisterwives may frighten many away in general and also push the more liberal minded women away. Why not focus on the poly aspect on the site? Why keep word usage that calls to mind a specific belief system? If you Go on dating sites like plenty of fish, there are thousands of couples and plenty of women who are Bi,pan or Demi sexual and looking too meet couples or groups and despite this no other dating site has (really) bothered to tap the poly relationship pool potential. This puts this app and website in a unique position to corner that market and more importantly, help those of us in the community, find love. 

Second part, what would help this site advertise? We found this accidentally, what can the community do to spread the word? and I do believe the comminty would help as we have nothing to lose and everthing to gain.

 finally please forgiveThe numerous grammatical and spelling errors, I am posting from my cell and this webpage is constantly changing words, letters and even adding both, randomly as I type, lol.

azcpl
azcpl Mar 13
We enjoy the site, and a place to search for our sister, partner, companion, wife and soulmate. 

However, we are a little suspicious and bewildered. when we first joined this site we received at least 4 chat requests from those who seamed interested, so we made the financial commitment and responded to the 4 original chat requests, and reached out to several others who implied that they were actually interested in this lifestyle.

what we received back . . . .nothing? that's a little strange but patience is all that is expected of us.

So, we're curious. We would find comfort from anyone who has actually had any form of success or response from a serious sisterwife on this site.

We came in honesty and with a serious inquiry to find our mate, provide a loving home and secure loving family 


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