This discussion is for any one to share how they know polygamy is for them and what happened in their life to oppose monogamy. I would definitely like to here from the females on why they chose polygamy.
In addition it would be interesting to find out who thinks they have the best way to know polygamy is for you.
My need to have a large family puts a lot on one woman, plus my activities outside of normal work and parenting leave a lot. It puts a lot on two people to try and work, build businesses/run businesses and parent. Polygamy was a solution there that combines incomes, mindsets and makes a stronger unit with more than just two people.
For me, I've always had the desire/longing but didn't couldn't find what would satisfy that desire. After a while of trying things that were of a similar path yet totally different and didn't fill what my whole self was longing for; I happened across a few Sister Wife shows and immediately knew that type of relationship was what I had been seeking. Although I know without a doubt that my life experiences up to that point were preparing me for being a Sister Wife, I sure would have preferred for that revelation to have come much earlier in my life as the process to match with either a single male or couple is one that is not for those without patience.
As side note:
Relationships are living, breathing, dynamic things; like all living things, they change over time. No healthy relationship is going to stay the same forever. As long as you are willing to commit to the idea of changing in ways that include your partners, and you are willing to work with your partners as your life changes, everything will roll happily along.
