One House or Multiple Houses | Forum

My opinion tends toward one house. I think it has to do with maintaining a good connection with both partners. My wife brought this up to me one time, and we really thought through it.

I think it would depend on the levels of intimacy. Say, if the two wives were acquaintances, you wouldn't want to spend every waking hour in a house you felt was never truly yours. So I see a compromise:

If you are to have two wives, you should make a considerable sum of money. Mainly because of the risk associated with having two partners, it's best to pad your lifestyle with plenty of savings and a large house. If you have a large enough house, split the house into wings and spend nights in separate bedrooms with either partner.

But of course, it's not that simple. Women, like men, are quite territorial. So, the default position here is two separate houses, with a compromise of a shared house with the stipulation of it being a very large house.

The next level of intimacy would be the two being friends, and I think that would increase the likelihood that the shared house idea, with separate wings, is a good idea.

The next level of intimacy seems to be friends with benefits, in this case, a house, with separate rooms seems reasonable.

The next level of intimacy is an intimate relationship, if this is the case a shared house seems likely and reasonable. Not just a shared house, but possibly a shared bed.

The next level of intimacy is a common law marriage between the women and the man, where it's likely that you'll share a house and a bed.

Thoughts?

Agreed. It depends on the dynamic. We're looking for a single house with intimacy between all of us. Committed intimacy and true family. 

That is a interesting question. My dream would be for everybody to live under one roof. Possibly have a four bedroom house. That each of us get our own room plus a room we can all share in the beginning to make the transition easier for everybody. Then once everyone is comfortable with each other on the intimacy level we talk about how the house arrangements should be. That way no jealous can come to the bedroom department. I think it's important to stay under one roof to keep connection on all parties strong.