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JamieNatalie
As a husband and wife, we’ve only had negative experiences online so far in finding anyone who is actually for real and genuine. It’s mostly scam artists who send us messages, followed by a few immature individuals looking for “fun” aka a fling/hookup, or they don’t have a grasp on reality and think life is about constant “traveling” instead of building a loving family and putting down roots.

So with the above being said, I’m going to make this very simple. To start off… If a person hasn't taken the time to read our profile and understand who we are as a family, and what we are seeking as far as sister wives, we will know because will check to see. Why would someone expect to chat if they haven’t even taken the time to know anything about who they are chatting with???! It doesn’t make any sense unless the person behind the account is a fake which is more than likely. If people are for real, they will actually view one another’s profile and blogs if applicable to find out as much about each other as possible. Assuming true marriage and family is what’s wanted.

Secondly, we are here for serious biblical plural marriage aka “polygyny” only! Not this mentality of “I’m checking out this lifestyle.” This is actually serious! For everyone involved, it has to be an “all in” and 100% dedication forever with a willingness to be humble and learn. If not, we aren’t interested because we cannot bring a weak link into our family. That messes up lives, family, and most importantly the children. Spelled out, proper plural marriage (polygyny) is a husband who is in multiple (3-5) marriages (one man and one wife per marriage) which means a different marriage bed and master bedroom per marriage/wife but we still live as a larger family unit in the same home. It is very much patriarch/matriarch based. That means there isn’t a single big marriage where we are all married together, but rather it means I am married multiple times (3-5) individual marriages and concurrently to each wife. So for each wife, it’s technically still monogamous. In our family, we are 100% heterosexual and seek a wholesome family unit based on this orientation only! We believe in plural marriage based on Christian principles/values, and will not participate with the family in any alternative perversions beyond what is correct and holy. Absolutely no polyamory, polyandry, or even polygamy in general. Only polygyny!

Those who are obsessed with “traveling” or think life must constantly be about “fun” all the time, will not be a good fit. Now understand, we aren’t sticklers. Of course we like to have fun as a family with quality time together, but we are also about building our ranch up and living self sufficient which requires focus, reality, and being responsible. Being a plural family is about everyone contributing their time and talents of their own free will toward the betterment of the family and homestead as a whole. It’s about selfless giving. It’s about teaching and home schooling children. It’s about wives treating each other as sisters who have each other’s back to share the load as mothers without jealousy and without an attitude of who can one-up the other. It’s about a husband who treats each wife with the upmost respect, compassion, love, and takes time to be romantic with each one. Him truly knowing each wife and her unique needs so she can be who and what she wants to be in life to her fullest potential.

On the physical side of things, this might sound harsh but I must be truthful up front for the benefit of everyone. We are looking for sister wives who aren’t into partying, clubbing, drinking, tattoos, piercings, etc. As a husband, I’m not looking for the fashion model types but rather a simple down to earth righteous woman x2-3 who takes care of her body in a healthy manner, is comfortable in her own skin, confident in herself, dresses modestly, doesn’t cake on excessive makeup, or doesn’t remove her womanly and physical maturity attributes by modifying her body with all the modern aesthetics trends and fads. Being a natural woman who isn’t fake, who can be free and confident to be herself, the way God created her is important for a healthy and happy life. For a husband to expect more or less of a woman is akin to saying that she isn’t good enough as she comes. As a family, we want the REAL you in every aspect.

We’re also looking for wives who are more naturally oriented when it comes to diet. That means farm/ranch raised non GMO, pesticide free produce that we raise as a family. Also, meat that we raise and other animal fats that are healthy and free of growth hormones, etc. We are into preserving food, freeze drying, etc. While we respect and believe in modern medicine for emergencies, we are not into vaccines in general or other therapeutics which mask symptoms. We believe in proper nutrition as a means to avoid morbidity and as the primary preventive. The body is amazing at healing when treated correctly. We especially do not subscribe to anything COVID related. We are in with reality and not blindly trusting of government or the official narrative. We believe in true liberty and freedom through constitutional principles as our founding fathers did.

We are looking for sister wives who are closer in age to Natalie (my wife) so there can be some relation in terms of life experience. A woman in her 20’s to early 30’s is the right fit for many reasons. There will be no such thing as a so called “1st, 2nd, 3rd, or 4th” wife in our household. Just the title of “wife” and equal for each woman. Each woman who is a wife is entitled to be a queen and mother in our home with the upmost respect and dignity in her own right. As a husband, I wish to have at least one or more children with each wife so the family can all be related through both blood and marriage. Having siblings from each mother makes each wife a mother to all and it links/bonds the family together.

Simply put, we are only interested in plural marriage if every adult is in it for the right reasons. That means being patient with one another, loving, giving, and quick to forgive with no tribal behavior or a breaking out into teams mentality within the family, no abuse, no manipulation, no jealousy, no divide and conquer, no coveting, and no complicating of situations. Neither husband nor wives can be a complex person, nor exclusively driven by either pure emotion or pure logic. All must have a good balance of both when needed in order to work a problem or deescalate a situation in a mature manner. This is a must. There is no room for drama or immaturity. Polygyny requires the upmost maturity and comprehension of reality.

Finally, we will not entertain any scammers or people who message us, causing us to get our hopes up, and then just disappear into thin air, aka stop answering texts, calls, etc. Its essential to be mature enough to just be honest up front and not lead people into thinking you are into them, only to ghost them and play games! Anything less than being completely open and honest disqualifies a person for monogamous marriage, let alone plural! Honestly, everyone should be adults and start talking by using real communication soon after meeting on-line and establishing trust. That means the texting needs to level off and be replaced by real voice and even visual communication. Real communication is essential for people who are serious about success in business, family, friends, and marriage. It’s the only way to read one other through tone of voice, body language, etc.

Sorry but not sorry to be so direct. It has come to the point where we must be assertive in what we are seeking and in our expectations. When enough people take advantage of your heart, it becomes necessary to go about things differently. We have almost 0% faith that there is anyone real when it comes to online dating. We feel beaten. We are here for the real thing. We pay to be a VIP on here at times so we can meet and communicate with with potential people, but as it turns out, many are either fake accounts, or a complete flake out in the end. It’s a complete waste of time!!! This is serious! Marriage and family is serious. Hearts are on the line and children are in the mix! Genuine people make themselves vulnerable in order to be honorable and honest with the goal in mind to find a family member in holy marriage. Playing mind games, seeking hookups, and scamming when someone is trying to be genuine and vulnerable by putting their heart on the chopping block is wrong, irresponsible, and grossly shows a lack of moral judgement and integrity on the part of the person taking advantage! It’s cruel!!!

We will keep our account here and check our messages often in the event that someone genuine and also in search for something real finds us. If we end up being compatible, that’s wonderful! But we will no longer actively seek for sister wives online. We will be transitioning to more of the in-person courting with only local people who are truly raised up in families who practice plural marriage, or are well familiar with the correct practice. It is painfully evident that true biblical plural marriage cannot be achieved in an online environment where too many people abuse and mock the practice of plural marriage with all the modern counterfeits, dishonesty, and immature sex perversions!
JamieNatalie
In the past two years, as my wife and I have had deep conversations with one another, the picture became very clear that plural marriage was not only the answer for our family, but it literally felt like a matter of personal inspiration from God to both of us that this is correct for our family as we are literally entering a new era in this world. Perhaps some background is warranted here in order to explain where we are both coming from…

COVID has literally changed everything in this world. It has shown us just how quickly the world can change with supply shortages, violence, and the breakdown of society. For our family living on our ranch, it is obviously critical that our family build in numbers to reach self sufficiency in our ability to grow food, take care of animals, teach children, secure our land, and have additional children. A family in our situation must become a pride, or tribe of sorts. The ability to have additional wives multiplies the number of children and creates an environment where no wives or the husband is overwhelmed with responsibility. The adults literally bear one another’s burdens. The needs of companionship and help are met for everyone involved. Wives have each other’s back and complete loyalty. The joys of life are also multiplied many times over for everyone as long as there is no jealousy but rather in place, we all have complete selflessness and consecration.

Another facet in which plural marriage can be a benefit is that more women who wish to be loved and honorably married in this day and age have the chance. I’ve witnessed over the past 16 years in my line of professional work how many women are objectified by society in such a way that they are dehumanized and used for self gratifying pleasure. Many younger guys as well as an increasing number of older guys have been conditioned by modern society that having feelings for a woman and/or marriage is somehow a weakness. I’ve heard many women in their 20’s and 30’s complain that they can’t even get a guy to ask them out on a formal respectful date, yet he will not hesitate to ask her for physical benefits, or compromising pics/videos in a virtual only relationship. I’ve heard story after story about how many younger women reluctantly endure disrespectful and unnatural acts during sexual intimacy in a friends with benefits type of relationship. Pornography, the fashion industry, and Hollywood have poisoned the natural and loving behaviors between men and women in this modern and perverse world. It has caused unrealistic expectations in the way guys view the bodily aesthetics of a woman, and how he thinks her body should function sexually. Many of these women won’t admit to being used and mistreated while it’s happening, because there’s a part of her that is selfless and giving in hopes at some point that the guy will grow feelings toward her in return, as she allows him to do what he does. In most cases, him developing feelings for her and the chance at marriage never occurs. Inevitably, the guy moves on once she expresses her disappointment and hurt. She is dismissed in his mind as somehow being crazy or overly emotional. He cannot understand that sex is a powerful expression of love within her natural brain construct in which he has recklessly toyed with that powerful and divine set of emotions. This is not without consequence. It’s a vicious and cruel cycle of playing with fire. There is a simple antidote however… A component of true plural marriage is a man who clearly sees the realities of how men and woman should naturally interact lovingly and therefore, he’s in a more mature state of mind. A man who seeks plural marriage is deeply committed to the holy and sacred institution of marriage. His commitment to her is forever. He sees womanhood and motherhood as the most noble and sacred of all. He is capable of having and replicating feelings of true love. He is therefore respectful and willing to treat women as queens through marriage of each one. Every woman who wishes for the true happiness of love, marriage, and children in this world should have that chance. Every woman should have someone to protect and take care of her needs. Plural marriage can be a counterbalance to increase her chances of true love and honorable marriage due to the inability or lack of willingness in so many younger men now days.

In our deep and connecting conversations, my wife Natalie expressed her desire to have sisters in which she could share her life and husband with. For her, it’s a loyal support group of women necessary to combat life and this daily world together, while also supporting each other’s individual talents, needs, interests, and even careers. She has a very giving heart. She is full of sisterly love.

For myself, it’s the ability and need to love additional wives equally at 100%. It’s the desire to connect with the divine female mind and experience the lovely and diverse personality of each one. I love deep intellectual conversations with people as it is. Having multiple wives where I can share my thoughts, hear her thoughts, and discuss the universe with each one is a joy. For myself, it’s also the joy of making a woman laugh, to see the happy look in the eyes of each wife knowing she feels loved, safe, cherished, adored, and realize daily for certain that she is literally a queen in the eyes of her husband.

As my wife, and soon to be wives travel down this path, we have come to the realization that there will be some people who cannot or will refuse to understand why we choose to have our family in this seemingly non-traditional arrangement. Most within even my own faith cannot comprehend plural marriage despite it being an inseparable part of our history and still a core part of our doctrine. Additionally, the biblical roots of plural marriage are undeniable. It’s indeed interesting and troubling that so many in this world can disparage, mock, and be critical of plural marriage while also being hypocritical in championing affairs with multiple partners and groups involving any gender or declared gender.

What cannot be mistaken however is the proper and moral method of plural marriage. As with all good and holy things, this world will find ways to corrupt and cause counterfeits. Polygamy is a general term which is often used to describe any poly relationship. It does not however properly describe biblical plural marriage. As my wife and I discussed the rules of how we go about this, we assured one another that we would have strict standards of which we are both unanimous. We recognized that the only way would be specifically to practice “polygyny” which involves the husband and each wife to be strictly heterosexual. Polygyny is not one marriage where everyone is married as a group, but rather one marriage per wife and a different marriage bed per wife. Each marriage is between one man and one woman with the same husband in each marriage as the common factor as head of the family. Not to be a ruler but to be a leader and protector with each wife as equal. It is a Godly inspired order of patriarch and matriarch(s). Unfortunately this is a foreign concept today even though it has been the ways of God from the beginning.

Despite what the world and select friends/family may think in ignorance, our desire to practice plural marriage is not a result of some perverted mid life crisis to “spice up our marriage” as a group with a girlfriend or two. I did not pressure my wife Natalie into accepting plural marriage. She had more vision and understanding of it than even myself. She was quicker to adopt living this way than I was because she understands it so well. I on the other hand was more reserved in my timing to actually put it into motion. I married a very mature, wonderful, and wise woman beyond her years! I love being married to her ❤️
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