I am not looking to be 'added' to someone's life, I am not an extra or a thing. I am a person, I have a life and family, I want a connection, I want a blending and joining together. You will be brought into MY family just as much as I am brought into yours.
I am not an addition.
Please be aware of the language you use, you are objectifying us and you don't even know it.
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