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LetsdoLove
In this time of uncertainty; My wife and I are wishing all of you safety and freedom from sickness and the Coronavirus. This polygamy community is important to us and we want you all to be well in this time. Stay safe everyone. 
LetsdoLove Mar 16 '20 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 2
Mizzy
Hey all. Am new to this site and just trying to figure things out on here. If you have any ideas, recommendations or whatever. Let me know. Accepting of all. Just need some new friends who will accept me. Thanks, enjoy your day☺
Mizzy Mar 10 '20 · Comments: 2
LetsdoLove
It's great to have a site like this. Let us all keep supporting it because this is the first stage of socialization and normalization. Monogamy as law came as force upon the world just like slavery, forced not a choice. Over 90% of nature shows polygamy, the rest is cheating and animals that stay for short while. They often say the fox and wolf and some others are monogamous, many researchers state that this is incorrect as many of these male animals are territorial; which means they mate with other females that come into their territory. Polygamy was the choice of many human society for thousands of years until Rome and Christianity force it unnaturally upon the world. The bible even agrees with polygamy and Christians today fight it. So I know many of us here are excited about what you think is the newest lifestyle and all but this is not new and in a lot of ways it is not even to be considered old, but rather plain and simply the way of the earth! The way nature says it should be. 
LetsdoLove Mar 4 '20 · Comments: 2
vegemite
Reflecting as an adult on my childhood, I think my parents had two separate only children rather than two children, siblings.  My parents showered us both with a lot of love and attention, meeting all our needs.  Certainly that was a fantastic experience but left me unprepared in some ways for the cruel world and independent adulthood, where there is not always someone there to help you and fulfill your wishes.  There is an old saying that if you give a child and a pig everything they want, you will end up with a good pig.


What does this have to do with polygamy?


Do we have multiple independent husband and wife relationships, or a sharing, or both?


The two shall become one of Genesis implies a singularity of pairing, exclusive of others.  Extending that to polygamy would imply multiple one flesh pairings, each unique in its bonding.


But what of sister wives?


The name itself implies a relationship between wives.


How many women raised in western society really want the sister aspect of polygamy, rather than engaging in a tug of war with the other wives, the objective being to secure the greatest share of the man's time, energy and resources?


Is the maths simply 1+1, and another 1+1, and so on, an additive process?


Or are there synergies, sharings, benefits, where 1+1+1 = more than 3?


In chemical terms, the synergy would be covalent bonding with the women the atoms and the male the electron.


Surely the highest and best form of polygamy is where each person seeks to bring out the best in the others, being true agape.


Something to think about.




vegemite Sep 10 '19 · Comments: 2
Sarah19
Life is really hating on my family right now...
Sarah19 Jun 17 '19 · Comments: 2
tomv
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Commune style living in harmony with Nature. No chemicals, harmful rays or artificial stuff. Only Real and Natural Living.

tomv Apr 3 '19 · Comments: 2 · Tags: group love
aibhlinf
Hi everyone,  how are you?
aibhlinf Jan 28 '19 · Comments: 2
Swinson
Love is a funny thing to describe. We all think we know what it is, yet it always seems difficult to explain. Some say that love in a relationship is either there or it isn't. From personal experience, that is the lazy approach. 


Imagine that everyone is standing on a personal sized iceberg with ropes connecting them. The ropes are not unlimited and can fall off the icebergs if not held onto. When two people pick up the rope connecting them, if they do nothing else, they will remain that distance to each other. If one starts pulling, they will slowly come closer. If they both pull, the they will quickly come together. If one let's go and the other pulls, they will drift apart and the rope will run out. If one throws the rope away, same thing, only no chance of picking the rope up again.


Once the two are together, they simply need to maintain it until the icebergs become one. If the two become complacent and let the rope go, they will drift apart again. It could be fast or slow, but they will need to pull together again to not lose each other. 


This scenario can work for any amount of people, such as a relationship of three people. The more they all pull together, the more unified they will become. It must be noted that even with relationships containing more than two people, that each individual relationship must be nurtured. You can love any number of people, but if you do not pull together on both ends, it can be difficult.


Those that desire the love pull the rope. Those that don't truly care, don't even hold the rope. Those that reject the love throw the rope away. And those that want it, but limit their effort, merely hold the rope and there is no progression in the relationship. 

Swinson Jan 16 '19 · Comments: 2 · Tags: love&work
Miluv
I've recently embark on a journey with a couple and in the beginning it was everything a girl could ask for ,until I began to discover that the wife of the relationship would say one thing and then it turned out to be another she wasn't ready to be a sister wife it was a pretty much total lead on the husband was all for  it. in the relationship getting to know me the courting  began. We took a trip the beginning of the trip was great but then due to her uncertainties and jealousy it became unbearable so you know I tried to give them a second chance  when i was  inviteded to their home and things were okay until the husband steppeded out and made a store run his wife approach me informing me that she didn't want this this is you know not what she expected or so I just brought me to know that I am very serious about living a polygamous of lifestyle I am seeking a sister wife and a husband I'm seeking a unit of unity so I am still kind of torn due to my past experience I don't want to quit I don't want to give up someone please help me what should I do.
Miluv Oct 24 '18 · Comments: 2 · Tags: help
loveandgratitude
What are red flags? Yellow flags? White? Do we create issues that aren’t even there because we are scared? Think about it. Everyone has a goal. A relationship they seek. Is it ok to go into the world blind in this lifestyle? What do people truly need to prepare? Do extended families need to know the plan? What secrets must you keep from the world in order to live a polygamist or polyamorous life? Is everyone on the same page or do some people not know their own page? What is self sabotage? I always question doubts. My own. Those of others. At what point does everyone go forward in the same direction? I agree that communication is everything. I think we all do.
loveandgratitude Sep 21 '18 · Comments: 2
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