Since then we have dealt with dishonesty, lack of chemistry, differing views on raising children, ghosting, aspirations that needed to be chased, and outright psychopaths. We are exhausted but we know this is where our family is supposed to be. We want the stability for our children, the extra love. We want to share everything with someone. We aren't unethical "unicorn hunters". We're too old to be risking one night stands anymore, atleast on a regular basis.
My dilemma is how do we find this wonderful person? How do we find someone who wants what we want? I am honest from the get-go and yet we still have a miscommunication along the way. I am hoping for a resolution soon, to make someone happy with us.
Thank you for listening to my rant. I appreciate it.
I think we're hearing pretty much the same tune: you adjust to me, but don't expect me to do any adjusting.My statement to them is that you are joining a family already in process/ progress.
This was a conversation between a couple of my Poly male friends about potential SW’s wanting to join the family.
For those of you who are believers, or know anything about Christianity, Does Christ accept you as you are? Of course! Do you really want to remain in the condition you were in when He accepted you into His family?
If your answer is that you dont want Christ to change you to be more like Him every day, then I’d humbly submit that you have bigger Spiritual problems. In my mind, that means you do not understand Christianity at its simplest form. Our goal as believers is to be transformed into someone that He can present to His Father without spot or wrinkle. This is just our reasonable service Romans 12:1&2
Joining a believing family is much the same idea. As husbands, our primary job is to be able and willing to cover and shelter women who want to know and be more like Christ, and to help steward them to be more like Him, and to be fruitful and multiply, both physically and spiritually.
Who doesnt believe that theres a better version of you just waiting and longing to emerge? Your New Years resolution just told on you! God gave the world husbands to facilitate that incredible transformation into your best you.
Just my .02, and not every married man is a husband, just like not every married woman is a wife.
Peace, Love and all the Fuzzy Stuff!
I'm Just keeping faith she'll come our way and wants a family that can offer her lots of love and compassion.someone hung up on in exterior looks but really seriously settling down and growing ❤ together. As a family.
Growing together spiritually as one big happy family.