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I just finished my regular live Thursday radio show and podcast, which I've been doing for many years, called, "Come out of her, My people," from the admonition in Revelation 18:4. It's about why, and especially HOW, we should be preparing to do that, in many ways - physically, spiritually, economically, and from a so-called 'church' that is more about religiousity, and in too many cases just plain paganism, than it is His Word, as Written. And the same goes for those that still think we have a Constitution in AmeriKa-with-a-K.
There are SO many things that are literally "coming to a head" THIS WEEK.
The suggestion I make, and the evidence to support that, is the subject of the show.
It has never been more important to be aware, and prepared, for what has BEEN coming, but is now HERE, in any of our lifetimes.
This may be the most important "Come out of Her" Show I've done:
"Come out of her, My people" Show for 10 March, 2022
https://hebrewnationonline.com/come-out-of-her-my-people-show-mark-call-weekly-130/
...and single mothers with children, especially young ones...
Hopefully by now you can see what's coming. Myself and others have been warning about it for a long time now, and we're there.
You have probably already seen empty shelves. It will get worse - much worse. And if you thought the riots were bad before, wait until this country sees genuine widespread hunger for the first time in its history. The major cities will be a nightmare.
Which is why I am thankful many here are able to see the benefit of a larger loving family. ESPECIALLY in a more rural area - and the further from major populations, the better.
I also encourage people to understand the fragility of the power grid (as an electronic engineer, this has been on my mind for well over a decade now). It's why we are 100% off-grid here, in every way (solar, primarily).
Be thinking now about what is coming, and what you are able to accomplish. By the time most people wake up to what has already happened, it will be too late.
Blessings...
It was a study of marriage that was primary to my coming to see that, not only may a man take more than one wife, but we "have inherited lies" in a number of areas, as the prophet Jeremiah said we would one day come to understand. And as the Messiah, Yahushua (or Yeshua, but His mother never once called him 'jesus' -- and neither did anyone else on planet earth for about 16 centuries) put it - what we have "heard it says," is too often really not at ALL what He actually Wrote.
And the way we can discern the 'truth from the lies' about what the Bible really says is CONSISTENCY. If we see what looks like a contradiction, it's either our misunderstanding, or even the translator's, but not His. Often those 'apparent contradictions', BTW (as in the case of marriage) are where we can find the greatest insight into distinctions we might otherwise miss.
Much of the 'twisting', however, is deliberate. Too many men in positions of power (even if not real Authority) believe they know better than the Author of Scripture what He SHOULD have written, if He was as smart as they think they are. That's the history of much of the 'sunday church' -- that outlawed and changed much of what He Wrote. Prohibition of polygyny about 800 years after they killed Him was followed by 'priestly celibacy' less than a century later, for obvious reasons, that have now reaped a nasty fruit.
And all of that, by the way, is why the whole world is such a
Steenkin' Mess today - it's not just society having utterly twisted the
concept of marriage, but everything from diet to what is "money" (and
what is not - which is why we have the biggest debt bubble and coming
collapse of the 'global reserve currency' in human history.) Yeah,
ultimately they call evil, 'good,' and good, 'evil'. They're proud of
it, too.
Some, hopefully even many, here, may understand that they have been "called to polygyny by God," which might well be true. If so, then He will also call you to study and understand the rest of what He Wrote for us as well. The tremendous beauty of that is, once you see how the "pieces fit together" - they will ALL fit together! Every "yod and tittle", from Bereshiet or "In the Beginning" of the Book to Maps at the end...
For anyone who's gotten this far - I do a number of radio shows every week, both live and podcasted later. One is a daily news summary and commentary, from a Scriptural perspective; the are Torah/Bible teachings, and my longest-running show, called "Come out of her, My people". (All available at: www.hebrewnationonline.com )
Many here might find a teaching I did recently from the Book of Exodus particularly interesting, even challenging, but it will certainly make this whole topic more clear:
Back to Slavery - but NOT the Exodus 21 Kind!
As for the practical side of things, I'm refering to basic pros and cons of this type of family. The biggest appeal to me is the idea of 'more'. More members of your tribe. More real coonections. More skills and ideas in your household. More people to back you up and for you to back up. More family members to share the challenges/burdons of child-rearing, home-ownership, and general living. Now, the 'more' I speak of sounds self-serving, but it's a means to an end. It allows you to have more time to devote to your loved ones, raise you children into better people, enjoy life, and help your family, friends, neighbors, and even strangers to enjoy their lives more too. With mre people, each of you requires less time to devote to the ratrace of life, and therefore, more time to devote to yourself and each other.
In a world filled with societies that are seeming more and more predatory, there is strength in numbers, in unity.
Dear Friends, If you are interested in poly, you might wonder how everything actually works out. There is a lot of theory out there and many people have opinions, but what is it really like to live it day by day?
The truth is, most of the time poly families are pretty much like extended or blended families you might find through divorces, except the people get along and love each other. Multiple women share the house work (if you are in one home) and birth parents have the primary responsibility to care for and discipline children. Moreover, some stay home and some work out. Usually the man is the main bread winner with some or all of the girls holding down full or part time jobs.
The main things that comes into play that are different are sleeping arrangements - it works best if each woman has a set day. What goes on during the mornings is open for whomever wants, but having a set time does bring some order and gives the woman a sense of security.
If everyone gets along, date nights or vacations can be done together. However, often times the wives desire some alone time with their husband while the other girls hold down the fort. All in all, a lot of "living poly" boils down to common sense and a desire for everyone to work together for the common good.
One thing that a man needs to do is be as fair as possible so that each woman has the perception that she is being considered and cared for. Sometimes this does not work out, but most women understand that if a man is making an good faith effort, perfection in that area isn't required.
In the end, promoting a sense of family and "we're all in this together" is essential. If everyone is on board, most of the details will work themselves out. In our family, since we are spiritual filled, christian believers, we try to practice God's Love towards each other. It is His love from above that is part of the Tabernacle Experience. This way, it is not just us doing the loving, but God loving each other through us.
Big hugs and lots of love,
Michael
Dear Friends, I personally believe there is great value in being authentic. First of all, when you are authentic, it helps people know how to interact with you. You are not vague or misleading, so it saves a lot of time that may otherwise be lost by people not understanding where you are truly coming from.
It demonstrates credibility and honesty to those whom you speak with. A real conversation with a person who is being authentic, has a certain "ring" to it. Therefore, from the outset, trust begins to be established which forms the basis of any meaningful dialogue.
It demonstrates that you are serious about meeting someone. When you are authentic and open, it lets people know that you don't have hidden agendas, but rather are up front about who you are and what you are looking for in a relationship.
Authenticity, tends to discourage those who are not authentic themselves, thus saving both parties a lot of time.
A poly relationship must be based upon authenticity so that those who are participating can know what is really going on. In my experience, the poly scene is rife with people who really are not sure what they are looking for and thus don't have a clear idea of how to communicate what they want. It would be better to know what you really want and then be honest about it with others.
Being authentic also gives you confidence to talk with others in a sincere and open way. You are, for instance, able to share about your life and your goals with others without having craft some answer you think they might like to hear. I really lowers the threshold of anxiety a lot.
I encourage all to open up and share honestly with one another. There is little down side to doing that. After all, friendship takes time and their is plenty of opportunity to get to know if others are the one or ones you are compatible with along the way.
Big hugs and lots of love,
Michael
Dear Friends, To begin with, I am not judging those who are strictly or primarily interested in finding a sexual partner. That is your business and I think everyone understands that. Moreover, people have a lot of different types of lifestyles and beliefs and it is agreed that it is best to recognize that everyone should have the right to live as they wish.
What I am going to discuss today is the
question: when is the right time to talk about sex? The answer to that
is often times not so simple. Being as I am not into swinging I am going
to examine this question from the standpoint of someone who is really
looking for a permanent life partner.
To begin with, when I look over a profile one
of the things that puts me off is displaying sexual pictures. No matter
what the woman is really like, I tend to make assumption if I see too
much of body right off the bat. I like a woman's form as much as anyone
else, but if a woman reveals herself right away to me (an everyone else)
that sends the message that she is advertising her body for a romp in
the hay and not a really, lasting relationship (so to speak). Being as
fidelity is of paramount importance to me and my family, I ask myself,
"could I ever trust such a woman to be faithful?
Furthermore, if the first thing out of my mouth
(or in text) is a "come-on: full of sexual innuendo, am I worth a real
relationship with the person I'm talking to? Again, I think not.
In my opinion (which I realize is just that), I
don't think that women who are really wanting a good man, wants him to
zero in on her body or sexual acts right away. I suppose, if both
parties are just interested in hooking up, that would be a different
matter, but for those who are honestly looking for someone to add to
they hearts and home, that is not what we're looking.
Moreover, when people come at women, who are
seriously looking to join a family, with sex talk, that may tend to sour
them on the whole concept. Perhaps it even ends up driving them away
from this site and from the notion of poly altogether.
For me, personally, I will not talk about sex
with a woman until there is a relationship that warrants such a
conversation. The woman I want would not lead with sexuality either.
While we are both adults and intimacy is at the heart of any vibrant
relationship, getting to know her character and spirit, is the place to
start for me. Practically any woman can be very sexy if she is really
in love with the man she's with, so it is not necessary to advertise
that initially because it is a given.
Some women have learned that being sexy or,
appearing to be sexy, gets them a lot of attention. Furthermore, the
promise of sex with men can lead them to advantages in all sorts of
ways. However, given the choice between getting what they want through
advertising their bodies and having those things given to them freely by
a man who truly loves them as a person, I think many might prefer a
real relationship.
Also, and I think this is a valid point, just
wanting to use a woman (or a man) only for your pleasure degrades them as a
human being.
In conclusion, I think "sex talk" might be
better reserved for the time when their is a love relationship that is
appropriate for that kind of intimacy. Getting to know a woman or a man
well before sex is perhaps the safest way to know what you are getting
yourself in to.
Lastly, if hooking up is really all you want to do, are their not other places better suited for find such a situation? Why hide what you really want behind the facade of finding a sister wife if all you want is a sexual partner with little or no commitment?
Finally, everyone can do and be what they
want. I just know for myself, I want a woman good character, a sweet
heart, and a loyal disposition. If I can find that, everything else
will follow.
Big hugs and lots of love,
Dear Friends, One thing that I've noticed in living our lifestyle, is that the man needs to be a fair as possible with his women. This means, to me any way, that you know the needs of your wives and do you best to meet those needs if possible. All women are different and frankly their love language are different too. For one, it may be words of affirmation, for another, deeds of service, for another, helping them go to school, for another staying home and being a mom. It is not a one size-fits-all proposition, but a tailored approach to meeting their individual needs. At times, this is easier said than done and no man can be perfect to everyone, every time. However, even doing little things can mean a great deal to your woman and let them know you care.
It takes quite a lot of commitment on the part of the women to make this type of lifestyle work too. The girls needs to really be "all-in" and believe that this is the greatest thing since sliced bread. In fact, in all my years of being a husband to more than one, it is the women that determine the happiness of the household. They must have a love for one another that supersedes the small things they may disagree with.
Lastly, in my life I have found that, when things are not working out with a wife, it is has been my tendency to let things go on too long in hopes that the situation will resolve. If I had anything to do over again, I would have cut things off sooner, just for the sake of those who remained. When a woman goes bad and doesn't want to be part of your family anymore, it is best to let her go.
Big hugs and lots of love,
Michael
Dear Friends, It is nice to see that there are so many believers in Christ here on the site. Moreover, many people classify themselves as “Spiritual” and that signals, to me any way, that they recognize things beyond just the natural world. What I wanted to share with you today, is a revelation I had about what a “man” is.
In Genesis 1:26 God says,
“And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.”
The part I think is very interesting is that God did not
say, let Me make man in My image and likeness.
Man is made in the image of Himself and someone (s) else. What I have come to personally believe is
that we are made in the image of God and His Seraphim.
The part, though, that is relevant to those who wish to find
a life partner is that to be a whole man, you need both and man and a
woman.
God says, in Genesis 1:27,
“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them”
Therefore, it is necessary to have both a
man and a woman in order to be made in the image of God.
Thus, beyond the biological imperative to
mate, there is a spiritual component that we feel deeply. Many describe their mate as “their better
half” or “the one who completes me.” This,
in a very real sense, is absolutely true and we instinctively know this in our spirits.
Therefore, when looking for a mate or
mates, we recognize and understand that we are seeking completion and not
just physical satisfaction.
I have often thought that those who only look for sex in multiple mate
relationships, leave more than 90% of what God created intimacy to be on the
table.It is the spiritual uniting
between a man and woman that is the better part of any relationship, with our
souls and bodies coming into play as a supporting role.
Moreover, when we make love we realize that we are completing someone that God made very good. We honor the other person and care for them as God would care, knowing that they are His creation.
Big hugs and lots of love,
Michael
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