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letsbehapy
Never give up on your pursuit of this natural way of living. Monogamy is really not even seen in nature. For thousands of years humans lived polygamy. Recorded history shows that most human society have been polygamous. Rome forced the world into monogamy and today we are seeing so many relationship problems...as one young lady said to me " monogamy is just not working...what's out there is clearly not working". Normalisation is a process and soon rights will come but don't wait for that to live your freedom and to live what makes you happy.  
letsbehapy Oct 24 '19 · Comments: 1
frayad
hy my husband and me are Polygam and would be very happy if we can found a girl that be with us ^^ , but pls . we looking only for girls ,  that wants to join our poly relationship , we realy looking only for a second girl in our relationship :)    #lookingforamate   #lookingforapartner
Kathryn21692
New
New to the Polygamy field. But very interested. Not too sure how to meet couples here. But if anyone is willing to teach I’m willing to learn
Kathryn21692 Oct 15 '19 · Comments: 5
lindanorman76
i am very intrested about learning about pologamy
lindanorman76 Oct 12 '19 · Tags: pologamy
vegemite
Reflecting as an adult on my childhood, I think my parents had two separate only children rather than two children, siblings.  My parents showered us both with a lot of love and attention, meeting all our needs.  Certainly that was a fantastic experience but left me unprepared in some ways for the cruel world and independent adulthood, where there is not always someone there to help you and fulfill your wishes.  There is an old saying that if you give a child and a pig everything they want, you will end up with a good pig.


What does this have to do with polygamy?


Do we have multiple independent husband and wife relationships, or a sharing, or both?


The two shall become one of Genesis implies a singularity of pairing, exclusive of others.  Extending that to polygamy would imply multiple one flesh pairings, each unique in its bonding.


But what of sister wives?


The name itself implies a relationship between wives.


How many women raised in western society really want the sister aspect of polygamy, rather than engaging in a tug of war with the other wives, the objective being to secure the greatest share of the man's time, energy and resources?


Is the maths simply 1+1, and another 1+1, and so on, an additive process?


Or are there synergies, sharings, benefits, where 1+1+1 = more than 3?


In chemical terms, the synergy would be covalent bonding with the women the atoms and the male the electron.


Surely the highest and best form of polygamy is where each person seeks to bring out the best in the others, being true agape.


Something to think about.




vegemite Sep 10 '19 · Comments: 2
calypsoshade
I am new to the site ,, I don't really no where to start and kinda nervous. My husband gave me the idea to try this site after so many fumbles on other dating sites(looking for a girlfriend is hard smh), from women only wanting me to some only wanting him . Now I just hope to make at least a friendship out all this. So hit me up?
calypsoshade Aug 12 '19 · Comments: 5
southernsass
On this site u have to have a lot of forgiveness in your self and others or it won't work. You have to be willing to say I'm sorry! If it works , great. If not , move on. Their are other fish in the sea. You can't be Judgemental or mean on this site and get any where!
southernsass Aug 4 '19 · Comments: 2
theoneo
I was reading a Q&A site recently about polyamory.  In the middle of the response the answerer wrote:


"If you can't do monogamy, then you won't be able to do polygamy."


As tortological as it sounds, this person touched on an important point.  Some people come to polygamy from a desire to be freer than they would get from a monogamous relationship; to have less to do, less to consider or commit to, and more independence.


In polygamy there are more people and a tighter bond between them, which means yes, there are more people who can and will love you, and more people who can and will help you through anything, but that also means more people to care for, more people to be considerate of, more emotion, and more lives to contribute to.  This true for everyone, including the husband.


Many successful monogamous relationships have the same qualities that polygamous relationships do, and many failures of marriages are similar whether they be monogamous or polygamous.


This means, unfortunately, that women suitable for polygamy are probably already in monogamous relationships.  The good news is that this also means there are more women suited to polygamy in the general population than seek it out.  So don't hide your polygamy from people you trust just because they're happily monogamous.


If you're a natural giver, listener, and communicator, then you will find polygamy much easier than monogamy, and you probably already know this from the close friendships you nurture already. :-)

theoneo Jun 22 '19 · Tags: thoughts, monogamy
tonig
I'm polyamorus/ Bisexual married woman looking for a partner and bad ass girly friend!!!??? My husband is an amazing father and partner!! We've been married 8 years friends 15yrs! 
tonig Jun 21 '19
PecanTan29
New to this site
Don’t be rude
Say wassup besides that don’t bite unless asked lol
PecanTan29 Jun 19 '19
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