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 It was not easy to come to this path in life. Some people do it for the "excitement" factor and that can never last. How long can physical relations go ? True relationships are built on common values, common interests and a common vision.

  We are a pretty calm bunch. We were married in April, my original plans were to open a small museum here locally, but no long after getting settled, my wife's headaches got to bad we went to the doctor. The short version is she has damage from an old car wreck. It causes her sometimes to have a hard time with sentences or directions. Sometimes she does not notice simple things others might. She can fall too and that is scary for me.

  We love each other very much, but came to the conclusion quickly that both of us really need a sister wife. Somebody to grow with, do stuff with and share life with. Both of us are technically disabled, but I stay active in business with some travel. She often has visits with doctors and it is difficult for me to always be there to go along.

  There is no real drama between us, I have more arguments with fast food people not getting stuff right than her. We are really good together in temperament, plans, vision, and morals. We are both believers in leave things as they are if you can't improve the situation for sure. Do no harm has real meaning here. This home is violence free among relatives.

  Drop us a line if you want to correspond more.

Dave and Tera 

"If you can't do monogamy, then you won't be able to do polygamy."

As tortological as it sounds, this person touched on an important point.  Some people come to polygamy from a desire to be freer than they would get from a monogamous relationship; to have less to do, less to consider or commit to, and more independence.

In polygamy there are more people and a tighter bond between them, which means yes, there are more people who can and will love you, and more people who can and will help you through anything, but that also means more people to care for, more people to be considerate of, more emotion, and more lives to contribute to.  This true for everyone, including the husband.

Many successful monogamous relationships have the same qualities that polygamous relationships do, and many failures of marriages are similar whether they be monogamous or polygamous.

This means, unfortunately, that women suitable for polygamy are probably already in monogamous relationships.  The good news is that this also means there are more women suited to polygamy in the general population than seek it out.  So don't hide your polygamy from people you trust just because they're happily monogamous.

If you're a natural giver, listener, and communicator, then you will find polygamy much easier than monogamy, and you probably already know this from the close friendships you nurture already. :-)

The place is called Grounds for Sculptures or Sculpture gardens.  I had mentioned to him a few weeks back that a friend told me about the place and that I wanted to go. It was a lovely surprise.

Later he took us to Newtown, PA where we stayed overnight at a historic hotel and enjoyed time at the outdoor bar. Good food and excellent conversations.

Personally, I really look forward to wonderful loving woman that will join our family and we can take such excursions together and enjoy our life.

xox, Wifey