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gopnik

 It was not easy to come to this path in life. Some people do it for the "excitement" factor and that can never last. How long can physical relations go ? True relationships are built on common values, common interests and a common vision.

  We are a pretty calm bunch. We were married in April, my original plans were to open a small museum here locally, but no long after getting settled, my wife's headaches got to bad we went to the doctor. The short version is she has damage from an old car wreck. It causes her sometimes to have a hard time with sentences or directions. Sometimes she does not notice simple things others might. She can fall too and that is scary for me.

  We love each other very much, but came to the conclusion quickly that both of us really need a sister wife. Somebody to grow with, do stuff with and share life with. Both of us are technically disabled, but I stay active in business with some travel. She often has visits with doctors and it is difficult for me to always be there to go along.

  There is no real drama between us, I have more arguments with fast food people not getting stuff right than her. We are really good together in temperament, plans, vision, and morals. We are both believers in leave things as they are if you can't improve the situation for sure. Do no harm has real meaning here. This home is violence free among relatives.

  Drop us a line if you want to correspond more.

Dave and Tera 

gopnik Jan 1
franzschneider

Hi! Just joined the site today–so if you previously messaged me, I can reply now. Yay!


Let's talk.

franzschneider Dec 30 '19 · Tags: newarrival
DLBMYB01
We are wanting to find a sister wife to become a part our family, her family and enjoy the Blessings we have been given. There is no us and you, but only equals. We are DRAMA free 99% of the time. Live out in the country but not too far from San Antonio. We have enough rooms that you will have your own, plus a room for one of your children. Additionally you have your own bathroom for those two rooms upstairs. Second floor is all yours and the view from the balcony is awesome. Faces west so really amazing sunsets! Plenty of beautiful stars at night. We have dogs and cats in house. We would cover your costs for travel if you come for a visit. As well as you would have use a car and even a hotel room to start off. That why you are in control of your options. We offer unconditional love, respect and honesty and only ask for the same in return. We are non smokers. Not looking for a maid, but since this is your home then just a shared responsibility. If you want to have a career then that is your choice. If you need a fresh start and a safety net to get back into life then we are okay with that as well. Even if you decided to stay a day, a week, a month.... we are a bilingual family as English/Spanish are spoken and even a little “dog and cat” as well! ?. An excellent environment to raise a child in and to feel at home. For an example, a dog was left in our neighborhood and we took him in and after less than two hours he felt like he lived here his whole life! Hope to chat with you soon!! Have a Blessed Christmas!


Beautifulinsideandout51
Hello beautiful people.... I have been on this site for a week have made friends and just wanted to introduce myself. I don't have any experience in the poly lifestyle but this has been on my mind for yearssss. I am a loving, giving, and patient being. Thanks for reading.
vegemite
To build a large family.


A tribe.


A powerful integrated unit.


Of course this is my purpose, I am sure there are a plethora of alternative opinions here.


My chosen purpose has focus, and consequences.


For example of consequence, a potential wife needs to be of healthy childbearing age.  Note this is aligned with the historical use of polygamy throughout human history.


If there is no one suitable for that purpose, that is fine, I am already fully engaged in my mission.  Any wife/wives are here to support me in that mission.


As I said, I am focussed.


Any feeding frenzy over a new single woman is counter to this philosophy and of no interest to me.  The head of the family is the prize, and not visa versa.


Perhaps this is not the time or place. It doesn't bother me one bit.


Polygamy is a belief, which may or may not have the opportunity to be put into practice.


PS I am pleased to announce the successful arrival of child eleven, who is a delight.

vegemite Nov 13 '19
Polycouple219
Well I’m back at this site again I had a really bad experience on here back in October but I promised my self I wouldn’t let her take me out of the game ... I saw she is back on here .. and I’m not going to let her bring me down ... also I am here to let people know watch ur back and everything u have she isn’t here for a relationship she is here to Destroy you and ur family ... keep ur eyes out for her as well I believe she changed her name she was kicked off her but she now goes by Kariann she was on here by sweetlikehoney or what not I have said in the passed just keep a eye out on her she a very evil ... but guys I hope u find out sooner than later don’t let her come over to ur house please bewear of her ....
Polycouple219 Nov 13 '19 · Comments: 2 · Tags: crazy girl on high alert
letsbehapy
For those who have had a taste of how good the poly life feels...then you know how right it feels. We the people have always known what is good for us. It is not governments who have initiated all of the great changes in society...it was always us! Everyone should have the right to choose...but more than that the freedom to be...whatever we wanna be. Coming on a site like this can be interesting and enjoyable, but until we come together to speak for our rights and to be forceful for our freedom; those who are interested in this life will never have true education on this life. There are no highlighted examples out there for them. Media is full of the same old failed monogamy examples. Lets get together and start expressing our desire to be free.  
letsbehapy Nov 2 '19 · Comments: 3
mtmercedes
Where should I start?
mtmercedes Oct 28 '19 · Rate: 5 · Comments: 1
loveandgratitude
Take a moment of reflection. Close your eyes and truly envision the picture of your relationship happiness. Hang onto that. I have my vision and I hope one day that a family will have the same one.
I am not complaining, as this goes for ALL of us —Please reflect. Everyone.
loveandgratitude
I wonder how many single women begin talking to families to ultimately only find out that the couple isn’t ready and now knows it.
I don’t like being anyone’s experiment.
I am not practice.
I wish I could count how many times in the last two years I’ve been told, “you’re an amazing beautiful woman and you deserve a couple who can commit to you.”
How about this one: “We have realized we aren’t ready for this lifestyle now. But we wish you the best and we’d like to stay friends.”
Oh gosh I have so many examples by now. I open up and become vulnerable only to find out a month in, that they don’t want a third.”
People...Families...Please please make sure you know what you want. Or give it a chance before suddenly dropping it with some epiphany that you don’t want another woman in the relationship.
My favorite *sarcasm* is when people admit their own insecurities and never think of mine.
“We are too busy to pursue this kind of relationship.”
Oh gosh I could go on and on.
I Still allow myself to stay open and vulnerable. It’s difficult. I am exhausted by the same story almost every time (outside of a very painful breakup with a more long term relationship).
Some of my friends and family wonder why I would keep looking. I know 100% what I want and seek. I wish everyone did. My feelings get hurt most when I feel like a trial run.
People
Be
Honest
With
Yourselves
loveandgratitude Oct 27 '19 · Comments: 4
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