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I can’t say that I’m a blog kind of guy, even though I enjoy writing from time to time, on my own behalf. This is an interesting way to give a little more context into what brought my wife and I into the understanding of this family structure (biblical polygyny).
What a weird thing to ever consider, I thought, coming from a traditional background that ostracizes those who didn’t adhere to the one wife for life normalcy bias.  But, for years this tug in my heart has persistently grown. Not being the kind of man that bends easily to the will of others, or impulsive, and understanding that I’m also not perfect in any way… I had doubts about moving in this direction. I’m a man who places my relationship with Jesus first, and if this was the direction He wants me to lead our family, I’m more than willing to devote myself to it.
While reading scripture and pondering the biblical applications of a moral relationship with several women within one household… I found this family structure to be fitting, but only to those who understand the responsibilities and devotion they require of a man. I asked the Lord, “If there is one thing in scripture contrary to this marital structure of wives, I will not continue this path but maintain the life-long commitment to my wife and our children, only.” Needless to say, I haven’t… My family knows that I’m an honorable man, and once I chose this path, my wife, children, mother and father are just as eager to see where this leads our family as I am.
What I’ve taken from my studies is, men are given three options when it comes to companionship with the opposite sex. One, celibacy… never taking a wife and maintain only the relationship he has with God. Two, monogamy… an unbreakable bond before God to one woman, after Christ. Three, polygyny… the unbreakable bond before God to several women, after Christ. Each choice is measured by the abilities and gifts of the man to endure, provide and the ability to maintain his relationship with God. Simply put, a humbled man in right standing with God understands his weakness or his strength in carrying the burden of wives, and choses his path to walk. And burden, isn’t to say that a woman is a burden, a Godly woman is as close as a man can get to the nature of God Himself on earth, but she is a responsibility of the husband to hold her and his family up and comfort them in a brutal world… to lay his life down as Christ did for the Church. Outside of Christ… this family structure will always succumb to the world.

I am seeking someone who also has made mistakes but persevered and is the head of his family. I do hope and pray that I can find that here.

I never thought I would find myself wondering about polygamy. As a Christian, I grew up with one clear model of marriage: one man and one woman joined together before God. And yet, somewhere along my spiritual and personal journey, the thought of polygamy began to spark a deep curiosity in me.

At first, I wrestled with guilt just for being curious. Was it wrong to even ask these questions? But the more I leaned into prayer and reflection, the more I realized that curiosity itself isn’t sin — it’s an invitation to learn, to test what I believe, and to draw closer to God’s truth.

Polygamy is a topic that shows up often in Scripture. Abraham, Jacob, David, and Solomon all lived within polygamous arrangements at different times in their stories. Reading these passages with fresh eyes, I realized that while polygamy isn’t presented as the ideal in the New Testament, it is undeniably part of the broader biblical story. And that makes me wonder: what can we learn from it today?

For me, the draw isn’t about breaking rules or chasing something forbidden. It’s about the possibility of community, support, and expanded family. I imagine the richness of shared responsibilities, children growing up with multiple role models, and the depth of love that might exist in a network of devoted relationships. Of course, I know it wouldn’t be simple — human relationships never are — but beauty often shines brightest in the midst of complexity.

This journey of thought has been both humbling and exciting. I feel encouraged to continue asking questions, reading Scripture with an open heart, and talking with trusted mentors about what it means to follow Christ while remaining open to discovering perspectives that are new to me.

Whether or not polygamy ever becomes part of my lived experience, I see value in the courage to explore. For me, trying to understand polygamy isn’t about rebellion; it’s about seeking beauty, truth, and connection in the many ways love can take shape.

If you’ve ever been curious about something that seems outside the “Christian norm,” I want to encourage you: don’t be afraid to ask questions. Sometimes, the very act of seeking understanding can deepen our faith and expand our appreciation for God’s design in ways we never expected.

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The individuals that do not have the same expectations and desires when it comes to their love life are not a good match, especially if they only believe in what is considered to be the norm – that a couple should be a connection between two persons and that is it. Most probably, you telling them that you are already in a relationship and that you want to add someone new in the mix is going to make them judge you and will hear all sorts of remarks. If you have tried this before on regular dating sites, you have probably already dealt with such a situation.

The same happens when you meet people the regular way, in a restaurant, on your way to work and so on. The hard part here is telling them that you prefer polygamous relationships. Fortunately, when you visit our website, you know exactly what kind of persons you will comes across here. Forget about them judging you for your preferences and be yourself. You will feel so relaxed knowing that there does not need to be an elephant in the room. Here everyone already know a bit you and what you want because these bits of information are available on your profile. 

If you are interested in being one of the Sister Wives that are already involved in a relationship or would like to find one, you can sign up on our website and create a profile. After sharing a bit about yourself, you can perform a simple search and see which of the existing members could be a perfect match. It might take a short while before you find exactly what you are looking for, depending on your preferences. Nevertheless, the entire process of chatting with all kinds of new people will be more than exciting and fun.

When it comes to Polygamy, you need to set some basic rules based on what you want and share them with the people that you meet. The best part about looking for these new matches online is that the entire process is simplified. Of course, the most important advantage in this case is that every single person that you are going to find on our website is looking for a polygamous relationship, one way or another. Some will be interested in starting a relationship with another woman or another man, while others will want to do that with a couple. 

Another major advantage that you will enjoy when you look for dates online, on our website would be the fact that you can flirt regardless of your location. You can be in the same country as the person that you are contacting or you can be half a world away. It does not really matter. Our site will allow you to talk to them for as long as you want. If you are wondering how you can get started, you should know that it is as easy as 1 – 2 – 3. 1 – Visit our website and create your account, 2 – Edit your profile and add a photo, 3 – Perform a search and contact the members that you like.

You might also want to keep in mind the fact that you can keep up with your notifications such as any messages that you might have received from people who you have already talked to or that have just contacted you for the first time. You would just need to log into your account on our social network on a daily basis. Regardless of your current location – you might be at home, at work, on the train or even in a park. As long as you have an internet connection, you can flirt away.

It is interesting to know that one of your soulmates might be a few clicks away. The question that you have to ask yourself is: why wait? Instead of wasting any more time that you could otherwise spend having amazing conversations with people that understand you, it would be a much better idea to just create your account. You will not believe just how many dating opportunities you will have once you have the option of contacting our members. 

At the same time, you might not even finish editing your profile and might get contacted by someone that shares your Polygamy values. Truth being told, the chances of finding love here are much greater than anywhere else. Why? Because in today’s society it is much easier to find someone who understands your principles if both of you meet in a place that was specifically created for individuals just as open minded as you are. Even if you have tried other social networks, you should give ours a try and see for yourself what makes us so different. If you have any additional questions regarding our social network, do not hesitate to leave us a message!