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Plenty of men enjoy the idea of many women in their lives. It’s natural for men to desire the continuation of their name and legacy. Polygamy offers a path to having multiple women committed to a man and, if so desired, many children to call him a father. A polygamist family has its rewards but comes with big responsibilities. It takes a man that’s ready for major challenges to bring together and maintain a happy polygamist family. Before a man begins seeking sister wives there are factors to consider to ensure both he and the women he encounters are prepared for the road ahead.


The financial realities of supporting multiple wives weigh heavy on a polygamist family and home life. If a man is not earning enough income one or more of the wives will need to work. If each sister wife wants to be a homemaker the stress of working outside the home will be difficult. By making your financial situation clear with potential sister wives up front they can decide if working is a sacrifice they’re willing to make. Many women today prefer to work but women interested in traditional polygamy often enjoy the more traditional life of being a homemaker. Setting realistic financial expectations gives everyone the power to choose what will work for them. 


Relationships between women is very different than the relationship between men and women. A man that wants sister wives needs to be prepared for the struggles that will develop between them. As the center of a successful polygamist family the man must approach every situation fairly and with the ability to listen and understand each side of every issue. Some men find just one wife to be a lot to handle. It takes a special kind of man to hold together multiple women as loving sister wives. Some men simply try to be controlling and make decisions based on their personal feelings but is that really the way to keep your family happy? Being a loving and supportive husband is a huge factor in any family’s success. 


Polygamist families don’t have to be traditional. There are many ways a man can have multiple partners and each relationship can be molded to fit the individuals involved. Sister wives can all live separately, together, have more than one man, or enjoy intimate relationships with women as well. It’s important to be open minded and clear with potential partners about expectations. A man may find he enjoys his sister wives all having very different lives. He may even enjoy one core relationship with others kept separate. Compromises and exceptions can be made along the way when two people want to be involved and they’re being truthful about what makes them happy.


Finding a sister wife can seem so difficult it’s easy to start making too many compromises and straying too far from what you really want. Don’t focus on meeting as many women as possible. It’s better to meet a handful of women that suit your desires than hundreds that will never be a good fit. Come up with a list describing your perfect polygamist family and prioritize the factors from most important to least. Don’t discount every woman that doesn’t meet every priority but use the list as a guide to ensure you aren’t straying too far from what works for you. You might even share the list with potential dates and compare it to their ideals.  


For most people the best resources to find sister wives are online. Having complete profiles and plenty of photos to share will expose you to more quality and relevant options. Whether you’re a couple, family, or single man looking to date polygamy minded women you’ll want to provide enough details for the right ones to find you. Staying active and responsive on a polygamy dating site will attract promising prospects. Start searching today for that perfect sister wife to start growing your happy family.












Published By: Christopher Alesich

Matchmakers, Inc - Sisterwives.com

A common accusation launched at the myriad of polyamorous people is that they essentially are sexual deviants incapable of loving and being satiated by one monogamous lover. Polyamorous men simply can’t ‘keep it in their pants’. Poly women must have daddy issues. The absurdly uninformed opinions of people opposed to any polyamorous lifestyle can become very cruel very fast. How could you possibly love someone you’re not solely committed to sexually? 


It’s human nature to oversimplify ideas in order to reach some understanding even when the understanding reached is completely inaccurate. Love is a broad term that comes in many forms and ‘true love’ is not limited to family connections or monogamous commitments. Love between two people in a polyamorous relationship may or may not involve sexuality at all! The relationships we build with people we love have limitless and deeply personal possibilities. 


A woman thats wants to be a sister wife may have very little interest in a sexual relationship with the male core of a polygamist family. She may be relieved that another sister wife satisfies that need. She may also be a lesbian that desires a non-sexual relationship with a male while enjoying a sexual connection to her sister wives. There is simply no box the ideal relationship can be neatly packed into then delivered to every doorstep.


Imagine a woman that enjoys sex immensely but has no interest in a romantic relationship. She can meet one or more partners that share her sex drive as well as her disdain for romance. To the outside world it’s easy to call these sexual partners only ‘friends with benefits’ but that assertion completely disregards the amount of love the partners may have between them. Not everyone is interested in being woo’d into a socially approved romantic situation. This does not equate to a lack of ability to love. 


Learning to express and live by your true desires in healthy and honest ways will lead you to true love the way it’s meant to be for you. Respecting the choices and boundaries of everyone around you helps ensure we live in a world where true passion can be followed. Some level of love is present in all personal relationships. Sex is a factor that may not even play a role in our CORE relationships. Sex could also be an exhaustive factor among many polyamorous lovers, which is a beautiful thing. Moral judgments of relationship’s based on sexual inclinations only works to damage the connection between two or more people. Don’t tarnish another’s love with your words.


If a woman wants to be a sister wife, respect her. If a man wants to find sister wives, respect him. If a person wishes to maintain a sexual relationship with 20 partners, respect them. Nobody owes anyone their happiness to ensure we’re conforming to narrow arbitrary standards. What’s love got to do with polyamory? Damn near everything. Sex is just an optional cherry on top.












Published By: Christopher Alesich

Matchmakers, Inc - Sisterwives.com

Money can make or break a person. Too little, or too much, money is one of the largest factors determining a  life’s outcome and often there is little an individual can do about their financial standing. In monogamous relationships money is among the top causes of a breakup. There are few statistics available that give a clear picture of money’s influence in polyamorous relationships. Poly people tend to be well educated and more open minded leading one to believe money trouble may not bring harm to relationships so easily, but, money has a way of bringing great joy or terrible pain into every walk of life. 


Financial stability is the overall goal. Avoiding the big ups and downs money can bring will provide a sense of peace. It allows you to focus on your lovers, relationships, and personal goals. Whether you seek many lovers, seek to become a sister wife, would like to find sister wives, are looking to date a couple, or whatever polyamorous lifestyle suits you, it will be difficult if you’re not financially sound. Protecting your solid foundation is equally important regardless of the relationships you find. 


Say you begin to date a potential sister wife. She has wanted to be a sister wife for a long time and has worked hard to ensure she has much to offer her new polygamist family. She knows her new family is likely to desire she focus on building the home and she wants exactly that. It would be unconscionable to simply take her money and absorb it into the family funds with no protections of her contributions. Prior agreements to protections can be made in case of an unfortunate separation later down the road. Take the time to work out details with a sympathetic and supportive attorney. Working out the details during the good times is vital to ensuring nobody is unfairly harmed in a separation. 


Outside of traditional polygamy there is a vast world of diversity in polyamorous relationship lifestyles. Many polyamorous people, myself included, choose to maintain private finances. A number of issues can be avoided by keeping money separate in a relationship (of any type). In reality financial situations are as diverse as the many forms of polyamory. A partner may be incapable of working, works only seasonally, needs to stay home for child care. Nesting partners may choose to join finances in order to simplify their home life or purchase property together. A wealthy lover may not want their partners to work at all! Here is another great article on poly finances along with real life stories. Regardless of the situation it is important to protect yourself from possible unfortunate circumstances in the future. The same rule applies. Work out details beyond verbal agreements while life is good. 


On a lighter note. Dating is expensive even for monogamous people. Polyamorous dating can add up much faster! Courting multiple sister wives or keeping up with three different dinner dates a week is expensive. This is where transparency and creativity will benefit your love life. Cheap date ideas are fun because you can build new and original experiences together. It’s also easier to go on cheap group dates everyone will enjoy if you develop a fun plan all together. Dinners at home, hiking trips, afternoons on the beach. They all become more exciting when everyone contributes something more than money. 


Love will always win over money because money truly does not buy happiness. Lack of money makes happiness more difficult but not impossible. With a smart and respectful approach to finances in polyamorous relationships you can ensure your lovers and yourself avoid unnecessary harm. Creativity and planning joined with love and support leads to incredible lasting joy. Whether you want to be a sister wife, want multiple lovers, or seek a polyamorous home life, money will be an important factor to consider. A little personal planning now will have you prepared for an exciting love life ahead of you.











Published By: Christopher Alesich

Matchmakers, Inc - Sisterwives.com

Polyamorous people enjoy a variety of possibilities for incredible home lives. Every individual involved in a poly relationship can carve out their own place within the relationship according to their needs. This leads to families looking very different from nuclear families often expected by society. There will be struggles finding exactly the right fit for everyone but with some give and take you can paint your perfect family. Love, trust, respect, and understanding are key.


Some poly families are very traditional in their own way. Women that seek becoming a sister wife often expect a strong male influence at the core of a polygamist family. Polygamist home life typically involves women working in family support roles. Women interested in being a sister wife usually prefer and enjoy this lifestyle and a good man can lead an amazing traditional polygamist family. Finding polygamy dating can be difficult but there are resources out there. Sister Wives is one excellent option. 


Many poly families are less interested in traditional family and gender roles and are more focused on equality. A man with two bisexual women can feel complete comfort with the idea they are also sexually involved. Being honest about your desires and open about your family’s desires is vital to maintaining a happy home. The same goes for a family involving two or more bisexual men. If everyone is enjoying, loving, and supporting each other your home life can be simply incredible. Take it from this kid raised by very open poly parents. “I Grew Up in a Polyamorous Household.”


The financial aspect of a poly household is another huge potential bonus. Three or more adults all chipping in on a house opens up access to many more options along with more hands keeping the place in order. The more the truly merrier! If two couples date each other they may live separately or even share two or more homes with the other couple. Taking advantage of the numbers in your poly family can pay off handsomely. 


On the other hand there are people that prefer a more solitary life. Finding a poly family or multiple lovers that are also more solitary can work great for the fulfillment of love and alone time. A poly family with a partner that prefers living alone can provide just the right amount of love and family time without overwhelming anyone. Multiple partners that live alone but are seeking love and a familial group of lovers should have no trouble not spending so much time together. 


Trouble arises when individuals attempt to force themselves into situations they’re not really cut out for. A sister wife will not do well dating a polyamorous loner. It’s easy to experience new relationship energy that pushes you into making poor choices. Remember to always step back and investigate your true desires before getting yourself or others hurt. Respect the wishes of everyone you date and be clear about yours. Seldom do we get everything we want but you can come close. Not every relationship has to last forever. It’s important to enjoy dating and be open for any fitting opportunity.











Published By: Christopher Alesich

Matchmakers, Inc - Sisterwives.com


Hello Everyone!!!


As most of you are all aware of by now, TLC will be airing Seeking Sister Wife and Sister Wives the TV Show Jan 20th 2019 and this normally brings a lot of new signups on Sister Wives Dating.


If you are seeking a Sister Wife or Family, now is the time, however we would like to share some Friendly Poly Dating Advice with you all.


With all this publicity around Polygamy can also come some trouble... Cough Cough - Catfish and Time Wasters.


The Biggest issue we see this time of year are Catfish - Bored people watching TV, sitting at home in love with the idea of polygamy or poly but too chicken shit to act on it, and too narcissistic to care about hurting a real persons feelings. This Goes deep and is very hard to prevent, but we have a few Tips for you all.


Tips to Stop a catfish before you get a bo bo:


#1 Video Chat ASAP - If you cannot get the person you are pursuing to video chat with you within a day or two, NEXT...


#2 Social Media, if you cannot find the person you are pursuing on FB or other social media, He/She is probably Fake, Don’t waste your Time.


#3 Weird phone habits, Example - in the middle of a conversation - Click or I’ll call you right back, CLICK. Hell to the Naw Naw - NEXT. (Note: I would probably let it fly 1 time Max)


#4 Red Flags - Use common sense, red flags exist for a reason, DO Not Ignore them.


#5 Long Drawn out times to meet in person. As Match Makers we can honestly say that if a potential match is not willing to meet in person after 2 weeks to a month, you will most likely never meet in person and your entire relationship may not be real - Phone Based. If you click with a potential match on the phone, then talk for a week and try to meet face to face ASAP.


#6 never send money to anyone for anything ever. If you reimburse the potential match in person for travel expenses, that is OK.


#7 if you need any advice or research to be done on your behalf, please feel free to contact us. It's Free!


These are just a few important tips, we could not possibly put everything in one small article.

Please remember to practice common sense, always be honest and never be afraid to be yourself and ask questions.

Good Luck!!!











Published By: Christopher Alesich

Matchmakers, Inc - Sisterwives.com


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