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Polyamorous Commitment Ceremony: a Guide

Unfortunately, most countries and regions in the world do not permit polyamorous weddings. Naturally, there are exceptions like Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, or South Africa; however, in most cases, these only legalize a man having multiple wives and not the other way around. This is why commitment ceremonies take place in polyamory. They are just like weddings, with one simple difference, they bear no legal validity. In this article, we look at such ceremonies and guide you through their ins and outs. We invite you to read on.

What Is a Commitment Ceremony in Polyamory?

If you ever tried to come out as polyamorous to your parents, you either experienced or at least read about others experiencing a sort of backlash. This is because most of society still does not accept polyamorous relationships. This is also one of the reasons why commitment ceremonies exist in polyamory. 

Polyamorous marriages are illegal in most countries around the world, including the US. Commitment ceremonies are, therefore, non-legally binding marriages, a sort of wedding that isn’t a wedding.

Polyamorous commitment ceremonies include vows and all the other elements known from regular marriages, though what they look like depends on those organizing them. They are organized mainly to symbolize “the next step” by two (or more) people in a poly relationship, increasing their commitment to each other.

Are Commitment Ceremonies Legal?

Commitment ceremonies are completely legal, they aren’t legally binding marriages; hence, you can participate in them in all 50 states.

What is really important here is that anyone can organize a commitment ceremony. Although they are primarily prepared for those living in poly relationships, such an event might also be held by, for instance, a gay couple if the state does not allow same-sex marriages.

Can Only Two People Vow in a Commitment Ceremony?

There are no rules or strict frameworks regarding commitment ceremonies—after all, they aren’t legally binding. Whether you want to participate with only one of your non-primary partners or… all your partners in a non-hierarchical relationship is entirely up to you.

Naturally, the number of people exchanging vows at a commitment ceremony will affect how you organize this event. For instance, as a throuple, you should arrange a ceremony where you all face your guests rather than each other. This will make it much easier for the photographer to take wonderful, memorable photos of your ceremony.

A Few Tips for Polyamorous Commitment Ceremonies

Are you keen on organizing your polyamorous commitment ceremony? Then, here are some helpful tips from our team to help you make it perfect!

Decide Who’s Vowing Commitment Early On

If you’re in a larger relationship or poly network, start planning your ceremony by deciding who will exchange vows and why. This will help you avoid misunderstandings later on.

Establish How Others Will Help

When you know who is going to exchange vows, you need to decide on the role of other partners in your poly commitment ceremony. Should they just be guests, or perhaps you want them to help with the preparations? Check whether you’re all on the same page and establish the roles early on.

It’s Good to Create a Ceremony Outline, So Do It

Another useful tip: create an outline of the ceremony. We don’t want to provide you with an example, as there are numerous ways to approach your commitment vows; nevertheless, you should decide what elements will make it to such an outline together with your partners. This way, you’ll plan the perfect ceremony.

Don’t Use Marriage-Related Words

Polygamous marriages are illegal in the US and penalized in most states. Thus, stick to naming your event a commitment ceremony and avoid using words like “marriage,” “wedding,” “spouse,” or “wife.” This way, you will avoid being accused of breaking the law.

Time to Celebrate Your Love!

Commitment ceremonies are a great way to strengthen your bond and show your love in a polyamorous relationship. While you might need to avoid calling them weddings, they represent the same level of intimacy and commitment; thus, if you feel like marrying someone in your poly relationship but cannot do that due to the legal state of poly marriages, don’t hesitate to organize such a ceremony!

And if you’re still looking for “the ones,” see our polyamorous dating app.

Published By: Sister Wives 

Matchmakers Inc

Sister Wives Family Tree: The Brown Family Tree Explained

The Brown family tree in Sister Wives can get quite confusing. After all, it’s quite large, so it’s not difficult to feel lost or forget who’s who. But do not worry. In this article, we offer you a comprehensive overview of the whole Sister Wives family tree. Do you want to learn more? Then keep reading!

The Brown Family Tree in Sister Wives

Knowing how many seasons of Sister Wives have aired already (spoiler alert: 18), it’s not surprising that the Brown Family Tree might get quite complicated. Nevertheless, we want to break it down for you. Below, you’ll find all the information and relationships between the family tree members; we’ve organized them by each of the wives to make the information easier to navigate.

Meri

Meri is Kody’s first wife. As such, they were legally married at the beginning of the show. However, they divorced in 2014 since Kody wanted to marry Robyn (and adopt her children) legally. They have officially ended their relationship at the beginning of 2023.

Meri and Kody have one child:

• Leon: you may also know them as Leo since Leon revealed that they are transgender only in 2020.

Janelle

While the Brown family tree on the side of Meri is pretty straightforward, things get quite complicated with Janelle. Although she isn’t Kody’s first wife, she’s the one with whom he has the eldest child…and six children in total! These children include:

• Logan: Kody Brown’s firstborn, currently childless and married to Michelle Petty.

• Madison (Maddie), fourth of the Brown children in terms of age, married to Caleb Brush. Currently, they have three children:

○ Axel,

○ Evangalynn,

○ Josephine.

• Hunter: The sixth child in the Brown family.

• Garrison: Born right after Hunter; died on March 5, 2024, at the age of 25 by committing suicide. The impact of his death is bound to affect what the next seasons of Sister Wives will be about.

• Gabriel (Gabe), born in 2001; he’s the 10th child in the Brown family.

• Savanah: one of the youngest children in the Brown family, though still much older than their younger siblings; Savanah is the 15th child by age.

Christine

Christine’s the third wife in the Sister Wives family tree, but she still managed to tie in with Janelle regarding the number of children:

• Aspyn: the oldest child of Christine and Kody and the 2nd oldest child in the whole Brown family tree. Aspyn was born on March 14, 1995, and currently remains married to Mitch Thompson.

• Mykelti: born on June 9, 1996, the fifth child in the Brown family. Married to Antonio Padron (their wedding was documented on the show!). Currently, they have three kids:

○ Avalon: daughter.

○ Archer: son, Ace’s twin brother.

○ Ace: son, Archer’s twin brother.

• Paedon: born on August 7, 1998, he’s the 8th oldest child in the Brown family.

• Gwendlyn (Gwen): Born on October 15, 2001, she’s the 11th oldest child in the family; married to Beatriz Queiroz.

• Ysabel: born on June 13, 2003, thirteenth oldest child.

• Truely: born on April 13, 2010, she’s one of the youngest children in the Brown family only Solomon and Ariella are younger, making her the child no. 16.

Robyn

Finally, there is Robyn, the only wife who brought her children from the previous relationship to the Brown family tree. More importantly, Kody decided to adopt them; this is why he legally divorced Meri (although he remained with her) and married Robyn.

The three children Robyn had with David Jessop are:

• David (Dayton): the 9th oldest child in the Brown family; adopted by Kody in 2015.

• Aurora: the 12th oldest child in the Brown family; adopted by Kody in 2015.

• Breanna: the 14th oldest child in the Brown family; adopted by Kody in 2015.

Moreover, they have two children on their own, who are also the youngest offspring in the whole Sister Wives family tree:

• Solomon: the youngest son and second youngest child, born on October 27, 2011.

• Ariella: the youngest child in the Brown family, born on January 10, 2016.

Time for a Family Reunion!

We hope that we’ve explained the intricacies of the Brown family tree from Sister Wives. It might sound complicated, but as you watch the show and have our cheat sheet open, you shouldn’t quickly learn all about family relations in the program.

And if you want to become like Sister Wives heroes, check out our polygamy dating app and find other like-minded people

Published By: Sister Wives 

Matchmakers Inc

Be clear about what you want, use protection, remember about your partner’s consent and boundaries, and communicate your issues and expectations clearly, does it feel like a list of “to-do’s?” It should, as these are some of the most important polygamy relationship rules. In this article, we look at them (and several others) in more detail. We invite you to read on.

The ABC Rules of Polygamy: 5 Principles You Should Follow in a Poly Relationship

Whether you regularly use a poly dating app or are in a committed poly relationship and don’t look for other partners, there are some ground polygamy rules that you need to follow, for everyone’s sake. What are they? We’ve gathered the most important ones here, take a look at them below.

1. Consent and Boundaries Are Key

The first rule is simple and will help you manage your expectations and fulfill all your poly relationship goals: be mindful of your partners. They have their own boundaries and might not always be up for the same things as you are.

For starters, if your partner does not agree to polygamy or polyamory, don’t ignore it. They won’t feel comfortable in such a setup, so you need to make a hard decision, either to leave them and go poly or to stay monogamous. The same goes for partners who agree to a polygamous relationship but with certain limitations, don’t do more than you’ve agreed to.

Secondly, each partner will have their own boundaries, so not all relationships will be equal, and that’s completely fine. You should remember that and treat your partners’ boundaries properly. 

For instance, one partner might want you to meet their family, while the other doesn’t.In such cases, you shouldn’t remind the latter about that and hold a grudge against them; it’s their right to set such a boundary.

2. Communicate Your Issues and Expectations Clearly

The second crucial polygamy dating rule is to be clear about your expectations and issues. After all, to know which boundaries not to cross, you first need to be aware of what boundaries exist. This is why, when a problem arises, you shouldn’t get angry or store it in you, talk about it with your partner.

3. Always Use Protection

Did you know that… the STI rates in polygamous relationships are lower than for those in monogamous relationships? Do you know why? Because of this crucial polygamy relationship rule: use protection at all times.

Even though people in poly relationships have more sexual partners on average, they are more cautious when it comes to physical intimacy. The truth is that you are more exposed to STIs when being poly, so you should ensure that you and your partners are always protected from them.

4. Establish Ground Rules

The fourth polygamy dating rule on our list is quite simple. You need to establish ground rules with each partner at the beginning of your relationship. This way, you will avoid misunderstandings that could lead to jealousy or even break-ups.

5. Don’t Take Things Personally

Sometimes, your partner just doesn’t have time to meet you; it’s not that they don’t want to. A busy schedule is a characteristic trait of many poly people. At other times, your partner might break up with you, it doesn’t mean you’re any lesser, but they might just be looking for something else or even find it hard to maintain a relationship with all their partners. Hence, you shouldn’t take such things personally, they might happen, and it is fine.

Time to Put These Principles into Practice!

The above 5 rules are the ABC of polygamy, so remember about them when dating. They will help you build stronger relationships but also avoid disappointments and dangers. Thus, we believe that it’s crucial to follow them!

You might also read: Financial Etiquette in Polygamous and Polyamorous Dating

Published By: Sister Wives 

Matchmakers Inc

Sister Wives Unveils a New Era of Tailored Dating Services

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Contact: Sister Wives

Phone: 1-601-514-0787

Email: contact@sisterwives.com

Website: www.sisterwives.com

Sister Wives®, a leading platform founded in 2008 and officially registered with the United States Patent and Trademark Office (USPTO), is ushering in a new chapter in dating services for the polygamous and polyamorous community. Long recognized for providing a safe, inclusive, and understanding environment, Sister Wives is shifting from a purely self-service dating model to a more personalized experience. The platform now offers a VIP Membership with optional coaching upgrades, alongside a comprehensive Professional Matchmaking service. These new pathways are designed to support a range of relationship goals, from guided coaching to fully curated match introductions.

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Responding to a Changing Dating Landscape

Since its inception, Sister Wives has served people interested in polygamy, polyamory, and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. As the community's expectations have grown beyond simple search-and-message functionality, the platform has adapted to meet the desire for deeper support, coaching, and carefully facilitated introductions.

A spokesperson for Sister Wives shared that feedback from members revealed two distinct needs: some users wanted more personalized support through dating coaching, while others were looking for hands-on matchmaking. This inspired the development of two new membership options: VIP and Professional Matchmaking, both designed with privacy, guidance, and results in mind.

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VIP Membership: Platform Access With Coaching Add-Ons

The VIP Membership gives members enhanced platform features and the ability to upgrade with optional coaching and support services. While the membership itself is focused on access and visibility, users can tailor their experience by adding services such as:

1. 1-on-1 Coaching Sessions

Available for purchase as an add-on, members can consult with a dating coach for support on profile optimization, messaging strategies, and date preparation.

2. Profile Review and Enhancement

Offered as an upsell, members can request professional input on their profile to improve visibility and match quality.

3. Exclusive Online Events and Webinars

Some virtual meetups and educational events are available to VIPs, with others offered as paid experiences.

4. Discounted Service Upgrades

VIP members receive preferred pricing on additional services, including the opportunity to apply those costs toward Professional Matchmaking if they choose to upgrade.

This tier is ideal for those who prefer autonomy but still want the option to receive strategic guidance along the way.

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Professional Matchmaking: Curated Matches With Full-Service Support

For those seeking a concierge-level experience, Professional Matchmaking offers the most personalized service Sister Wives has ever provided. This premium membership includes:

1. Dedicated Matchmaker Support

Members work closely with a personal matchmaker who assists with compatibility screening, introductions, and relationship goals.

2. Guaranteed Vetted Introductions

A set number of in-person matches is included, with each candidate undergoing thorough background checks and lifestyle vetting.

3. Full Travel and Logistics Coordination

For long-distance matches, Sister Wives can assist in arranging travel or organizing high-touch meeting experiences.

4. Luxury Lifestyle Add-Ons

Members can enhance their journey with styling, travel planning, and other exclusive services upon request.

5. Ongoing Relationship Coaching

Post-introduction support ensures members are equipped with tools for communication, boundary setting, and long-term relationship success.

This tier is tailored for individuals who want a private, results-driven matchmaking experience with ongoing expert support.

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A More Personalized Approach to Non-Traditional Dating

Mainstream dating platforms often fall short for those in ethical non-monogamous relationships. Sister Wives aims to fill that gap by combining technology with human connection. Whether through optional coaching under the Basic VIP plan or through hands-on matchmaking, the platform focuses on:

• Expert Guidance: tailored to poly and polygamous lifestyles.

• Discreet, Vetted Introductions: aligned with personal goals.

• Customizable Services: that grow with the member’s needs.

This new direction allows Sister Wives to offer deeper value to a growing audience seeking authentic, lasting connections outside traditional dating frameworks.

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Serving the Community Since 2008

Founded in 2008, Sister Wives has built a trusted reputation in the polygamous and polyamorous community. With its latest expansion, the company is reinforcing its commitment to evolving alongside its members. By blending digital convenience with real-world expertise, Sister Wives continues to pioneer a supportive and modern approach to ethical non-monogamy.

A company spokesperson notes:

"Our members aren’t looking for casual swiping, they want connection, clarity, and compassion. These new offerings reflect that shift and allow us to meet our users wherever they are on their journey."

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Contact and Next Steps

If you would like to learn more about either membership tier, or to schedule a consultation, can visit the official Sister Wives website at www.sisterwives.com. The site offers detailed information on each option, insights into the matchmaking process, upcoming events, and community resources.

Those ready to take the next step can also reach out directly by:

• Email: contact@sisterwives.com

• Phone: 1-601-514-0787

Sister Wives expects that its new membership model will offer a unique blend of coaching, matchmaking, and community support for a growing audience looking to explore polygamy, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures.

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About Sister Wives

Sister Wives is a trusted dating and matchmaking platform for individuals, couples and groups exploring polygamy, polyamory, and ethical non-monogamy. With a commitment to privacy, compassion, and clarity, Sister Wives offers a mix of self-service features and personalized matchmaking options. The brand is trademarked with the USPTO and has served the community for over 16 years.

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Polyamory, like monogamy, is a journey of love, connection, and commitment. But polyamorous relationships often come with unique challenges that need careful handling. Just as monogamous couples deal with disagreements, people in polyamorous setups also face conflicts that must be resolved. However, the ways to address these issues can differ a lot from typical monogamous approaches. In this detailed look, we explore conflict resolution in polyamory, including why disagreements happen and how to keep multiple connections harmonious. Join us to learn about the dynamics that support polyamorous harmony and the tools that can build long-lasting, fulfilling relationships.

Understanding the Genesis of Conflict in Polyamorous Relationships

Before trying to solve conflicts in polyamorous relationships, it’s important to understand where they come from. While many issues are the same ones you see in monogamous partnerships, polyamory can add extra layers that make problems more complicated. Below are some of the main causes of conflict unique to poly relationships:

1. Jealousy: The Double-Edged Sword of Multiple Connections

Jealousy in polyamory is a universal emotion, but its manifestation in polyamorous relationships can be more complex. The mere presence of multiple romantic or sexual partners inherently increases the potential for jealousy. Whether it's envy over the time a partner spends with someone else or insecurity about one's place in the network, jealousy can strain relationships. For instance, consider Maya, who finds herself feeling sidelined as her partner, Alex, dedicates more time to a new relationship. Without effective communication and reassurance, Maya's jealousy could escalate, leading to misunderstandings and resentment.

2. Diverse Attachment Styles: Navigating Emotional Landscapes

Attachment styles you’ll need to deal with in polyamory - secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—play a significant role in how individuals form and maintain relationships. In polyamory, the variety of attachment styles among multiple partners can create a complex emotional tapestry. For example, an anxious partner may seek constant reassurance, while an avoidant partner might value independence, leading to friction. Understanding and respecting these differences is crucial to preventing conflicts that arise from mismatched emotional needs.

3. Time Management: The Delicate Balance of Multiple Commitments

Managing time in a poly relationship is inherently more challenging in polyamorous relationships. Balancing the needs and schedules of multiple partners requires meticulous planning and flexibility. When one partner feels neglected or perceives an imbalance in time allocation, tensions can arise. Take the case of Jordan, who juggles three significant relationships. If one partner feels they are consistently receiving less attention, it could lead to feelings of inadequacy and conflict.

4. Poly-Specific Triggers: Beyond the Common Grounds of Monogamous Disputes

On top of dealing with jealousy, attachment styles, and time management, polyamorous relationships can face extra challenges like disagreements over boundaries, different ideas about commitment, and blending multiple social circles. These factors can increase potential conflicts, so it’s really important to use conflict resolution strategies designed specifically for the unique needs of poly relationships.

Strategies for Resolving Conflicts in Polyamorous Relationships

Resolving conflicts in polyamorous relationships takes a thoughtful approach that recognizes the complexity of caring for more than one partner at once. Although these challenges are unique, the ways to handle them can be both simple and meaningful. Here are some helpful strategies to promote harmony and understanding among everyone involved:

1. Embrace Non-Violent Communication (NVC): The Heartbeat of Healthy Dialogue

Non-violent communication is a cornerstone of effective conflict resolution in any relationship, but it holds particular significance in polyamory. NVC emphasizes empathetic listening and honest expression without blame or judgment. The framework consists of four stages:

o Observation: Clearly describe the situation without interpretation.

o Feeling: Express: your emotions related to the observation.

o Need: Identify the underlying needs connected to your feelings.

o Request: Make a specific request to address your needs.

For example, Maya might say to Alex and her other partners, "When I see you spending a lot of time with Jamie (observation), I feel anxious (feeling) because I need reassurance about our relationship (need). Could we set aside some time each week to connect more deeply (request)?" This approach fosters a safe space for all partners to share their feelings and needs without fear of escalation.

2. Mindful Timing and Setting: Creating the Optimal Environment for Discussion

Timing and setting are really important for successful conflict resolution. Talking about problems in the middle of a heated moment can make emotions run high and lead to arguments that don’t help. Instead, pick a calm, private place where everyone can have a real conversation. For example, scheduling a weekly check-in gives partners a set time to discuss any worries before they grow into bigger conflicts.

3. Respectful Communication: The Foundation of Mutual Understanding

Respect is important in every relationship, but it’s especially crucial in polyamorous ones where many viewpoints and emotions overlap. Keeping respect during disagreements makes conflicts more helpful and less harmful. This involves truly listening, acknowledging each other’s feelings, and avoiding rude language or personal attacks. Respectful communication builds trust and shows everyone’s commitment to solving problems together.

4. Seek Professional Counseling: Leveraging External Support

Sometimes, your own efforts to solve problems might not be enough, and getting help from a counselor can be a huge benefit. More and more counselors today understand the unique needs of polyamorous relationships. A trained therapist can offer unbiased advice, support better communication, and help partners handle complicated emotions. For example, if Maya and Alex are struggling with jealousy, a counselor who’s familiar with polyamory can guide them in building a stronger bond and dealing with any deeper insecurities.

5. Establishing Clear Boundaries: Defining the Rules of Engagement

Clear boundaries are really important in polyamorous relationships, since they make sure everyone’s needs and limits are respected. These can cover emotional, physical, and practical details of the relationships. For example, partners might agree on how much time they spend together, how much they share with friends or family, and how new partners are introduced. By setting clear boundaries, partners can avoid misunderstandings and have a guide for solving any problems that may come up.

6. Regular Check-Ins: Maintaining Open Lines of Communication

Having regular check-ins gives partners a chance to discuss their relationships, express concerns, and celebrate good things. These meetings help prevent small issues from growing into bigger problems. For example, a monthly family meeting where everyone shares how they feel can bring partners closer and make sure everyone knows their voice matters.

7. Cultivating Compersion: Celebrating Each Other’s Joys

Compersion, often seen as the opposite of jealousy, is about feeling genuinely happy when your partner is enjoying time with someone else. Developing compersion can really change how people look at their relationships, making them more positive and supportive. By encouraging each other’s happiness and celebrating each person’s connections, partners can ease jealousy and promote a sense of shared well-being.

The Importance of Collective Commitment in Conflict Resolution

Resolving conflicts in polyamorous relationships isn’t just one person’s job; it takes everyone working together. Each partner should be ready to communicate honestly, respect boundaries, and support each other’s needs. Without this teamwork, small problems can grow and put the whole group’s stability at risk.

Consider the story of Emma, Liam, and Noah, who are all in a triad relationship. When Emma started feeling overwhelmed by how much time Liam was spending with Noah, she used Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to talk about her concerns. She shared her feelings and needs in a respectful way and listened to Liam and Noah’s perspectives. Together, they decided on a more balanced schedule for everyone. Not only did this solve the immediate problem, but it also made their relationships stronger, showing how teamwork can bring people closer.

The Broader Implications of Effective Conflict Resolution in Polyamory

Learning to resolve conflicts in polyamorous relationships does more than help each couple or group. It also helps people become more accepting and understanding of nonmonogamous lifestyles in general. By showing good communication, mutual respect, and emotional awareness, polyamorous people and communities challenge the usual misunderstandings about nonmonogamy.

Additionally, the ideas behind polyamorous conflict resolution can be helpful for improving all kinds of relationships. By stressing clear communication, setting boundaries, and showing empathy, it encourages healthier interactions for everyone, no matter how their relationships are set up. By using these methods, people in polyamorous relationships not only strengthen their own connections but also help create a more inclusive and understanding society.

Embracing the Complexity of Polyamorous Harmony

Conflict can happen in any relationship, whether it’s monogamous or polyamorous. But because polyamory involves its own special set of challenges, solving problems in these relationships requires empathy, clear communication, and commitment from everyone involved. By getting to the heart of what causes disagreements and using good strategies to address them, people in polyamorous relationships can handle the ups and downs of loving more than one person with strength and understanding.

In a world that often prefers simple answers and sameness, polyamorous relationships show that love can happen in many different ways. Working through problems together not only makes these bonds stronger, but also encourages people to accept love that goes beyond just two partners. As polyamorous communities keep standing up for their rights and challenging ideas about what love can be, the way they handle conflicts can guide us toward more peaceful and satisfying connections in an ever-changing world.v

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Published By: Sister Wives 

Matchmakers Inc